FabSwingers.com forum: Profile feedback/tips please?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

just cottoned on to the fact the other day that people can ask for feedback in the forums.

I know many people will be put off by the fact that I'm attached (never mind being open about it and the consent), but wondering if I'm coming across OK in my profile or how I could adjust it to pique interest?

Not that I don't trust my partner's opinion (she thinks it's fine), but just going by the level/quality of response I've been getting so far, which hasn't been great.

Thanks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile doesn't really say much.

I think you need to write a bit more on there.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

It doesn't say much about you and what you can offer. You've been verified by your partner which is not allowed?. You're open about your relationship but it will still put some off op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

just cottoned on to the fact the other day that people can ask for feedback in the forums.

Not that I don't trust my partner's opinion (she thinks it's fine), but just going by the level/quality of response I've been getting so far, which hasn't been great.

Thanks in advance."

You have used some words. They say that you fancy NSA sex and no more than that.

Do you think that is attractive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies. Wasn't aware that partners aren't allowed to verify, can you direct me to the relevant info on the website please?

Was a bit wary of the TMI approach, and have seen elsewhere the advice about 'what you can offer'. Not really sure what that means, can you suggest any examples just so I understand please?

To be honest, I was in a bit of a quandry with the language and info to use, since this is more niche than the average dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies. Wasn't aware that partners aren't allowed to verify, can you direct me to the relevant info on the website please?

Was a bit wary of the TMI approach, and have seen elsewhere the advice about 'what you can offer'. Not really sure what that means, can you suggest any examples just so I understand please?

To be honest, I was in a bit of a quandry with the language and info to use, since this is more niche than the average dating site."

It is no more niche than anywhere else. The site uses the English language. Write a profile that reflects your interests (sexual and social) and that makes you stand out as someone worth meeting.

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