FabSwingers.com forum: Where am I going wrong ??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm new to this but don't seem to be getting much of a result ! I message people just don't seem to ever get a response ! Amy advice as maybe I'm saying the wrong things etc ?

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

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Give it time. Patience is the key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What sort of thing do you put in your first message?

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"I'm new to this but don't seem to be getting much of a result ! I message people just don't seem to ever get a response ! Amy advice as maybe I'm saying the wrong things etc ? "

We can't tell you if you are saying the wrong things coz you haven't told us what you say! What is your typical first message??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm new to this but don't seem to be getting much of a result ! I message people just don't seem to ever get a response ! Amy advice as maybe I'm saying the wrong things etc ? "

Welcome to the wonderful world of fab. Where its totally acceptable for fems and couples to ignore and not respond to messages, no matter how well written they are.. lol.

You'll learn as time goes on.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's tough for you single guys. Not hearing anything doesn't mean your messages were wrong - but reflective of high competition levels and women being able to take their time and get it right. Mail volumes prevent most replying

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I'm new to this but don't seem to be getting much of a result ! I message people just don't seem to ever get a response ! Amy advice as maybe I'm saying the wrong things etc ? "

I've looked at your profile OP I feel that may have something to do with your lack of success although I can't comment on your profile because forum rules unless you ask for profile advice .

so I will say this hopefully you are choosing the people you message because you also like the look of their profile not just because of the pictures they have up.

if that is the case think about what you like about their profiles .

after you have done this a few times you should realise what it is about their profiles you are finding attractive. at that point go back to your profile and ask yourself this question is there anything in your profile that matches theirs and is there anything in it they would find of interest to them.

your profile is your shop window its the first point of call for any looking to play their fore its the most important thing to get right failure to put real effort into you profile is a recipe for frustration on sites like this .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm new to this but don't seem to be getting much of a result ! I message people just don't seem to ever get a response ! Amy advice as maybe I'm saying the wrong things etc ?

Welcome to the wonderful world of fab. Where its totally acceptable for fems and couples to ignore and not respond to messages, no matter how well written they are.. lol.

You'll learn as time goes on.

Exactly mate!!!!!

That's why I'm here just to check the forum and that's all. Simple

, that's side is a joke I'm here few years and had just one meet. Buhaha

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