FabSwingers.com forum: My profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can I possibly have some input ? I am aware I only have 1 public pic and it is of my bum ?

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By *uv2bseenCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Can I possibly have some input ? I am aware I only have 1 public pic and it is of my bum ? "

You are probably aware that it is a poor profile, you have even mentioned your poor photo.

Why not put some effort in and do a proper job?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I possibly have some input ? I am aware I only have 1 public pic and it is of my bum ?

You are probably aware that it is a poor profile, you have even mentioned your poor photo.

Why not put some effort in and do a proper job?"

I am trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And its a poor pic too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How's my pic now ? Be honest

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By *easerxxWoman
over a year ago

merseyside

Your profile says -

you want to make new friends

you offer conversation.

then you ask people to contact you if they are interested.

there is nothing to be interested in.

you need to ut a lot more work into the profile than that.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your profile says -

you want to make new friends

you offer conversation.

then you ask people to contact you if they are interested.

there is nothing to be interested in.

you need to ut a lot more work into the profile than that.

Good luck "

Would you say I'm confusing ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok this may be out of order me saying this, I find the

Good Luck

Slightly offensive like I have nothing at all to offer anyone ?

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By *easerxxWoman
over a year ago

merseyside

"Your profile says -

you want to make new friends

you offer conversation.

then you ask people to contact you if they are interested.

there is nothing to be interested in.

you need to ut a lot more work into the profile than that.

Good luck

Would you say I'm confusing ? "

no, I'd say 'vague'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I possibly have some input ? I am aware I only have 1 public pic and it is of my bum ? "

the first line sounded so condescending I didn't read the rest...

a boring 1/10 from me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your profile says -

you want to make new friends

you offer conversation.

then you ask people to contact you if they are interested.

there is nothing to be interested in.

you need to ut a lot more work into the profile than that.

Good luck

Would you say I'm confusing ?

no, I'd say 'vague' "

Mmm vague but leave some for the imagination

I'm ok, your not ok

I'm not ok, your ok

I'm ok, your ok

Win Win is what I'm after

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By *easerxxWoman
over a year ago

merseyside

Erm ! What

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Erm ! What "

Imagination really has dissolved but yet we are so very intrigued by it I guess

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By *uv2bseenCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Ok this may be out of order me saying this, I find the

Good Luck

Slightly offensive like I have nothing at all to offer anyone ? "

Being honest, from the effort you appear to have put into your profile you are right. People will think that you don't have a lot to offer, or that you just can't be bothered.

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By *sborne2Couple
over a year ago

northants

What does that even mean ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What does that even mean ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What does that even mean ?

I believe that what they are saying is that your posts do not make much sense.

Your profile is virtually non-existent. What do you think is likely to excite a lady?

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By *easerxxWoman
over a year ago

merseyside

"Ok this may be out of order me saying this, I find the

Good Luck

Slightly offensive like I have nothing at all to offer anyone ? "

the 'good luck' was meant exactly as that, I was wishing you luck in your search. Genuinely.

Nothing more intended

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok this may be out of order me saying this, I find the

Good Luck

Slightly offensive like I have nothing at all to offer anyone ?

the 'good luck' was meant exactly as that, I was wishing you luck in your search. Genuinely.

Nothing more intended "

Didn't mean to offend you at all, I just find the whole

Good Luck routine slightly offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok this may be out of order me saying this, I find the

Good Luck

Slightly offensive like I have nothing at all to offer anyone ?

the 'good luck' was meant exactly as that, I was wishing you luck in your search. Genuinely.

Nothing more intended

Didn't mean to offend you at all, I just find the whole

Good Luck routine slightly offensive "

If you are offended by that then this might not be the site for you!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok this may be out of order me saying this, I find the

Good Luck

Slightly offensive like I have nothing at all to offer anyone ?

the 'good luck' was meant exactly as that, I was wishing you luck in your search. Genuinely.

Nothing more intended

Didn't mean to offend you at all, I just find the whole

Good Luck routine slightly offensive

If you are offended by that then this might not be the site for you!!

!! Is also slightly offensive

Happy Days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok this may be out of order me saying this, I find the

Good Luck

Slightly offensive like I have nothing at all to offer anyone ?

the 'good luck' was meant exactly as that, I was wishing you luck in your search. Genuinely.

Nothing more intended

Didn't mean to offend you at all, I just find the whole

Good Luck routine slightly offensive

If you are offended by that then this might not be the site for you!!

!! Is also slightly offensive

Happy Days "

I think you may be taking things a wee bit serious my lovely, this is supposed to be fun, light hearted fun, nothing more but if you are offended by my sense of humour so be it and I apologise. I would wish you luck on here but we're already treading on eggshells but as you're already offended, I'm going to do a river dance style jig on them to make sure they are well and truely smashed to fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is boring, nothing makes me think Omg i have to message him, and that's what you need!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok this may be out of order me saying this, I find the

Good Luck

Slightly offensive like I have nothing at all to offer anyone ?

the 'good luck' was meant exactly as that, I was wishing you luck in your search. Genuinely.

Nothing more intended

Didn't mean to offend you at all, I just find the whole

Good Luck routine slightly offensive

If you are offended by that then this might not be the site for you!!

!! Is also slightly offensive

Happy Days

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By *easerxxWoman
over a year ago

merseyside

"Ok this may be out of order me saying this, I find the

Good Luck

Slightly offensive like I have nothing at all to offer anyone ?

the 'good luck' was meant exactly as that, I was wishing you luck in your search. Genuinely.

Nothing more intended

Didn't mean to offend you at all, I just find the whole

Good Luck routine slightly offensive "

I'm not offended, I couldn't give a flying duck to be honest.

I genuinely wished you good luck.

As you think this is some sort of ' routine' then I retract it.

You asked for advice, a lot of people on here are so fed up of being asked how to write a profile they don't even bother replying. I did.

The people who succeed on here are the ones who have conversation, personality, a good sense of humor, thick skin and patience.

Also, when they are given good advice, they act on it rather than being defensive.

Done

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good Luck us not advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Although I think your profile is pretty boring I would like to take the opportunity to tell you to have a fab time whilst your here would in my own opinion be so much a polite way to tell me rather than wishing me

Good Luck

Am I to presume that you think I need Luck ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good Luck us not advice "

You're right, its not, its a polite way of wishing you well. I think you've taken it all out of proportion. Take a chill pill honey (Apologies in advance if calling you honey has offended)

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By *easerxxWoman
over a year ago

merseyside

"Good Luck us not advice "

if you look past the positive sentiment of ' good luck' and read the advice, from others as well as myself you may just find something that helps you.

Why do you want to attack everything that is said? .

people are trying to help you.

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By *easerxxWoman
over a year ago

merseyside

"Although I think your profile is pretty boring I would like to take the opportunity to tell you to have a fab time whilst your here would in my own opinion be so much a polite way to tell me rather than wishing me

Good Luck

Am I to presume that you think I need Luck ?"

oh for goodness sake. I give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you seem a little stand off ish and somewhat uptight to be honest. Type in profile advice in the search box, there is plenty of good advice to be found on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good Luck us not advice

You're right, its not, its a polite way of wishing you well. I think you've taken it all out of proportion. Take a chill pill honey (Apologies in advance if calling you honey has offended)

Honey is fine

but be warned the bees want it back

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

More in focus public pictures

Take off the first part of the narrative

You offer conversation. . Tell me something that interests you away from here

What kind of woman are you hoping to find

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Honey is fine

but be warned the bees want it back "

Getting offended by simple things and then trying to be cute is a recipe for disaster on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Honey is fine

but be warned the bees want it back

Getting offended by simple things and then trying to be cute is a recipe for disaster on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics ok. ...add some more tho.....it's a bit nicey nicey and bland but it's no bad.....I'd give it a 5 out of 10 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have just read this thread. Gosh! I didn't know the the expression 'good luck' is offensive to some people. I thought it was an expression that is used routinely as a way of being nice when someone is doing something that could be challenging. 'Good luck' gets said prior to job interviews, exams, driving tests, weddings, doctors appointments, first day at new job, having a baby, first dates and of course finding a meet on Fab. But the list is endless. And I doubt people are going to stop using that expression - surely that would be political correctness gone mad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pics ok. ...add some more tho.....it's a bit nicey nicey and bland but it's no bad.....I'd give it a 5 out of 10 x"

Why thank you

5/10 will do for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had a rethink over my profile text and rewritten it a little. Could I possibly have a little input please

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a rethink over my profile text and rewritten it a little. Could I possibly have a little input please

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You have been hurt. You are not the greatest.

You would be better off on a dating site than fabs.

I was going to say good luck but as that may be deemed offensive ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had a rethink over my profile text and rewritten it a little. Could I possibly have a little input please

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You have been hurt. You are not the greatest.

You would be better off on a dating site than fabs.

I was going to say good luck but as that may be deemed offensive ..."

Greatest ?

Why better off on a dating site ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Should I loose the being hurt part ? Does it make me sound misserable ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a rethink over my profile text and rewritten it a little. Could I possibly have a little input please

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You have been hurt. You are not the greatest.

You would be better off on a dating site than fabs.

I was going to say good luck but as that may be deemed offensive ...

Greatest ?

Why better off on a dating site ?

I've just read your profile. If you are looking for 1 woman to spend time with, I agree that would be better found on a dating site. This site is more greeted to people who want multiple partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I loose the being hurt part ? Does it make me sound misserable ?"

Definitely lose that bit. This is not the place for sob stories. If you meet someone who is willing to be a sympathetic ear, then by all means confide.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In your honest opinion do you think I should leave ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would also drop the first 2 lines, and generally try and sound more sure of yourself. People usually use this site to achieve their fantasies. What are yours? and what can you offer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In your honest opinion do you think I should leave ? "

Not necesarily. Decide what you want at this stage in your life, and work out the best way of getting that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I loose the being hurt part ? Does it make me sound misserable ?"

There are very few adults in this world who have not had emotional times. It is the human condition.

There are very few people on this site - which is called "fabswingers" - looking for lifelong commitment.

Assess what you want and decide where best to find it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In your honest opinion do you think I should leave ?

Not necesarily. Decide what you want at this stage in your life, and work out the best way of getting that."

I have started buying lottery tickets as I'm told you've got to be in it to win it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In your honest opinion do you think I should leave ?

Not necesarily. Decide what you want at this stage in your life, and work out the best way of getting that.

I have started buying lottery tickets as I'm told you've got to be in it to win it."

OK. I will ask.

Do you have any decent pictures? What music do you actually like? Are you any good at oral? What do you offer over and above the usual crap?

By the way, noone else will ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK. I will ask.

Do you have any decent pictures? What music do you actually like? Are you any good at oral? What do you offer over and above the usual crap?

By the way, noone else will ask."

THIS!

No-one will ask, if you want someone to know something about you, tell them. However do not brag or boast about sexual prowess as that just makes you seem arrogant. Also don't tell people you are intelligent, women on here hate that too, again it sounds very arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In your honest opinion do you think I should leave ?

Not necesarily. Decide what you want at this stage in your life, and work out the best way of getting that.

I have started buying lottery tickets as I'm told you've got to be in it to win it.

OK. I will ask.

Do you have any decent pictures? What music do you actually like? Are you any good at oral? What do you offer over and above the usual crap?

By the way, noone else will ask."

Hi and sorry for the late response, I have only ever done oral to women as I'm a straight man, but I ain't really had any complaints and I do rather enjoy doing it, not sure if your asking if I'm good at sucking dick ? Wouldn't know as never tried it really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK. I will ask.

Do you have any decent pictures? What music do you actually like? Are you any good at oral? What do you offer over and above the usual crap?

By the way, noone else will ask.

THIS!

WOW

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