FabSwingers.com forum: No luck

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had no luck what so ever on here in 25 on Tuesday and I want to try new thing???

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By *uv2bseenCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Had no luck what so ever on here in 25 on Tuesday and I want to try new thing???"

Like it or lump it, people judge others on the effort that they puts in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But I do put effort in or at least I think I do sent so many messages but nothing at all

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By *uv2bseenCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"But I do put effort in or at least I think I do sent so many messages but nothing at all"

Your profile is 12 words long and that is your shop front on this site.

You honestly think that shows effort?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very hard for guys

I read profiles

Tailor each message as best I can and write a decent message and have met 2 women in 5 years

Can't suggest how you can get more success or I'd do it myself lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok yeah I will try and change it I'm rubish at writing things like that

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By *uv2bseenCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"It's very hard for guys

I read profiles

Tailor each message as best I can and write a decent message and have met 2 women in 5 years

Can't suggest how you can get more success or I'd do it myself lol"

The OP has made a good start. A face pic shows he is not scared of honesty and has nothing to hide. He can also accommodate which hopefully means there is no poor unknowing partner in the background.

Exploit your honesty with a decent profile with some effort to give yourself the best chance possible.

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By *uv2bseenCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Ok yeah I will try and change it I'm rubish at writing things like that"

Take a look at some others, we are sure you will get a few ideas!!

We do not look for single guys, but if we were you have two big things in your favour. The face pic and being able to accommodate.

Get the full package with your profile, there are many others to look at on here.

Good luck.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"But I do put effort in or at least I think I do sent so many messages but nothing at all"

Sorry but a 12 word profile that doesn't even make sense doesn't look like much effort! You need to show your personality in your profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, it's that profile. They're a pain in the bum to write but you have to just bite the bullet, sit down and spin your pitch. You're a very good looking guy and with a funny, intelligent and interesting profile, you'll start getting a little more interest from your messages (as long as they aren't along the lines of 'hi, how are you today?'

This site rewards the wordsmiths unfortunately.

Just as an aside, avoid saying 'I'm into anything with anyone'. You think it makes you approachable. Other women want to feel special, so even if it's true you may want to avoid saying it so bluntly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your wanting more success as a single male id say you have 3 options leading to varying levels of success

1. Write a decent profile telling people about you what you can offer and what you are looking for and make sure you write every message you send tailored yo the individual telling them why you think you would be a good match....... This will help but there are so many single guys your still not gonna be fighting them off

2. Go to clubs as a single guy you will meet people get veris have fun and may even get the chance to join in the fun if you ask nicely and be polite and respectfull..... Will bring more success but still probably not gonna be shagging every week from it lol

3. Find a GF/FB to swing with as a couple you will not struggle at all..... Guaranteed success im a fat bald gorilla looking fella and probably get 10 messages on a quiet day

Whatever you choose good luck and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to write some info about you and what you're looking for. Make it interesting.

Nice face though op

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By *lice_in_BlunderlandWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Don't panic. Once you hit 25 the ladies will come flocking

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By *ool driverMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I'm having the same thing as well and I like to think I've put some effort in my profile but no luck and when I do get someone get back to me all I get is sorry not verified so not interested so how can u get verified if know one will meet u.

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By *isterXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Same as me,and i had attended route 69 in wsm, i thought i may get verified there or something, but it didn't workt.

Basically i cannot prove that i.m genuine, and seeking fun...not a weirdo because no one really replied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the more you write about yourself and what your after that seems to help...

no point being shy everyone's here for a resaon so just put that down along wit some ppictures you'll get more responses as long as your not just saying hi wanna shag or something basic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are too many guys on here compared to women. it's not that big of a problem coz a lot of thse guys are shit or unnatractive for loads of reasons.

treating us like we are normal women helps a lot, trust me on this. like no over the top compliments and boring messages, just try to chat to us like were here to chat to but give us a hint that we'd also be sexually compatible (your profile is the best wya to do this).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is an essay and still no luck

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By *easerxxWoman
over a year ago

merseyside

You are 25 and looking to have sex with a 99yr old ? Really.

you want to meet women and have fun, so at least put some effort into describing yourself, what you like, what you can offer, your preferences, bit of humour, etc etc

good luck

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