FabSwingers.com forum: Help needed?

By *yanjames1993 OP Man
over a year ago

horden sr8

Hell there just wondering if any one can help?

i need help with my profile. Not getting any attention from anyone, any one have any ideas that could help me it would be much appreciated thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lack of pics for a start. No idea what the pic is you have in friends only but I tend to gloss over pic free zones. Doesn't have to be a face or cock pic- bum, torso, a muscular thigh, all good.

Your profile also has spelling and punctuation issues and doesn't tell me much about the guy behind it. It's all very vague and a bit impersonal, don't get much of a feel for you.

Unless you sent a cracking first message we'd say pass.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

no pic..immediate pass..didnt even go to your profile..thats the way it is..xxx

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By *yanjames1993 OP Man
over a year ago

horden sr8

Better?

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By *yanjames1993 OP Man
over a year ago

horden sr8

Better now??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same hear. Any info would be gratefully received x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't seem to meet anyone and don't know where I'm going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better now??"

I didn't see it before, but it must have been bad if this is your rewrite!!! Still not selling yourself

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same hear. Any info would be gratefully received x "

Your profile says very little, it's uninteresting and bland. You have to stand out and sell yourself.

The pictures are public and OK, so that's a start. Do a forum search horse advice, you will find loads. Good luck

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't seem to meet anyone and don't know where I'm going wrong "

No public pics, woman will see no pics and move straight on. They don't have to be face pics, body, bum is fine.

Your text is lacking, "work pub sex" will put most if not all woman off, you come across as very immature. Also the fact that you say you friend might join in will also put people off. You have a single man profile, yet aren't single

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP the addition of the avatar pic is a start, why not also put that one in public pics? And add some more? Other than that I don't spot a lot of changes.

Still issues with punctuation etc and very little feel for you. Think about telling us what you like, what you are looking for, big turn ons, any absolute no's (although try and avoid insulting groups of people or their kinks)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beige..... saying nothing.

Harsh but fair.

Your cut and obviously fit...avoid cock photos at all costs(friends only and remembe,leave em wanting more)

If you can fill a suit/a pair of levis, like you can,get someone to take some classy photos (shirt buttons undone, removing your belt etc.....)

Think like a woman.....would you buy you?

You seem in a hurry to get to the action? Have you lost the art of seduction?

The use of the word 'clean'is

almost clinical,remove and put something like'I know how to dress and smell good,both at the same time....a little humour goes a long way.

And don't be so obvious as to say I want your total discretion.....be the gentleman and expect that your partner would want nothing less without having to ask.

Hopefully a gentle steer.... you got it all going for you.

Ive just got an enquiring mind.

Happy fabbing

Mr C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of typos and bad punctuation. That's quite a turn off.

We would not communicate with someone who says 'no endless email chats'. It gives us the impression that man wants an instant meet, whereas we won't meet someone until we are sure, and that warrants a bit of chat first (it won't be endless chat, but we know how impatient some men are).

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