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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys

Been on here a while now. I get I'm no Brad Pitt but I normally get a fair share of profile views, a few messages and winks but can't seem to get anywhere

I try to play the nice card, am polite and only message those looking for my age range etc.

So can anyone explain why it is only lots of men messaging asking for meets (when I haven't messaged them) and why if I spend 10/15 min composing a genuine message I'm deleted like some sort of swinging leper

Any help or advice on my profile is wanted and appreciated

Thanks guys and girls x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ratio of guys to girls/couples is ridiculous.

Couples and girls get lots of messages from guys. We cant always respond to message and will just search ourselves when we fancy a mmf meet. Nothing worse than needy guys messaging over and over asking why no response

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agreed. I'm not desperate enough to harass people. Was just an honest question to where I could improve my profile perhaps. also like unsaid if there was something that was maybe leading single guys on my profile, as I'm not really into that

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By *ngandnickCouple
over a year ago

Haverhill


"

Hey guys

Been on here a while now. I get I'm no Brad Pitt but I normally get a fair share of profile views, a few messages and winks but can't seem to get anywhere

I try to play the nice card, am polite and only message those looking for my age range etc.

So can anyone explain why it is only lots of men messaging asking for meets (when I haven't messaged them) and why if I spend 10/15 min composing a genuine message I'm deleted like some sort of swinging leper

Any help or advice on my profile is wanted and appreciated

Thanks guys and girls x"

Your profile says bi curious, that your open minded and that you wouldn't run a hundred miles from a cock

This is why your getting lots of men messaging!!!

Re why women are deleting you--- I will leave them to answer

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Maybe try the short and sweet mail rather than the big narrative. Sometimes you can over do the mail and it becomes a bit too much of a read?

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

Have you checked your filters maybe?

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Have you set your filters so single guys can't message you... look at that

You say you are bi-curious so that would get interest from guys

As for the profile and females. .. for me personally you have lots of pics but they don't really grab my attention

Look at them again

Consider angles

Smile

Erotic not just cock

And above all

Have patience

In the meantime look at clubs/socials to widen the circle of people you can meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your status update would put me off tbh..

it shows you can't be discreet IMO

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Your status put me off a bit..sounds a bit selfish to me. Likewise I'd advise altering your filters and sending punchy messages.

That said, if a lady didn't fancy you none of that will prevent the deletes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also you look very young in your profile pic...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Your profile says bi curious, that your open minded and that you wouldn't run a hundred miles from a cock

This is why your getting lots of men messaging!!!

Re why women are deleting you--- I will leave them to answer"

I did not notice the bi curious , that probably explains it. As for the not running bit. I just thought that showed I was ok with a couple.

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys. Some very good advice that I'll take on board

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"

Your profile says bi curious, that your open minded and that you wouldn't run a hundred miles from a cock

This is why your getting lots of men messaging!!!

Re why women are deleting you--- I will leave them to answer

I did not notice the bi curious , that probably explains it. As for the not running bit. I just thought that showed I was ok with a couple.

Thanks for the advice

"

Sorry but all your profile pics are off-putting and you can't accommodate. Also you can't help your age but that may be a factor

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ouch. But point taken haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile! A pout doesn't look good on anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Smile! A pout doesn't look good on anyone."

Yeah good point. Don't know what I was thinking

By the way that point is proven with your photo. You have a lovely smile

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Ouch. But point taken haha "

You did ask. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was only joking. They weren't the best.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Was only joking. They weren't the best. "

I know you were

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well hopefully mines a bit better now.

Thanks for the advice guys

Happy fabbing x

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