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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I'm finding it hard to start a combo with women and couples and I'm wondering if it has some thing to do with my profile as well could some one help me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only respond to guys that I like the look of. Your profile reads ok, but there's nothing that makes me want to contact you....and a single picture of your cock doesn't give me any indication what you are like...i have no idea if i'd find you physically attractive so I wouldn't bother finding out. There are plenty of guys who I like the look/sound of from their profiles alone. Yours wouldn't be one.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"I only respond to guys that I like the look of. Your profile reads ok, but there's nothing that makes me want to contact you....and a single picture of your cock doesn't give me any indication what you are like...i have no idea if i'd find you physically attractive so I wouldn't bother finding out. There are plenty of guys who I like the look/sound of from their profiles alone. Yours wouldn't be one."

Agree 100% with this....cock pic as an avatar is a put off straight away.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You say you are looking for a long term friend. Surely there are other sites more suitable than this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only respond to guys that I like the look of. Your profile reads ok, but there's nothing that makes me want to contact you....and a single picture of your cock doesn't give me any indication what you are like...i have no idea if i'd find you physically attractive so I wouldn't bother finding out. There are plenty of guys who I like the look/sound of from their profiles alone. Yours wouldn't be one.

Agree 100% with this....cock pic as an avatar is a put off straight away."

It sure is, most women don't want to talk to a cock! Every time you message someone OP, your cock is staring at them from their inbox, its not the nicest thing to look at and we all know guys have one. Show us something different in your pics, there are literally thousands of cock pics on here and they don't really stand out from the crowd I'm afraid.

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By *ingcom76Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

The best way to start a convo is to get several trucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ask if it's your profile. In short...yes.

Woman gets a message a number of things happen:

It gets "lost" among dozens/hundreds and is part of a mass delete.

The heading is dull...deleted!

The contents are dull....deleted!

It gets some attention...look at your profile...deleted!

Your profile says nothing about you other than you can't accommodate (assumption possibly married?). You want a "professional" woman for sex....prostitute? You only have one badly taken pic of yet another cock. Sorry to be harsh but not a good effort.

Look at profiles of guys with "success". Read the site FAQs. Read the hundreds of other threads on this/similar topics. Thousands of words of advice...act on it and try again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't looked at your profile but either way you'll have more deleted messages than actual good conversations that lead to meets, it's a woman's world, persevere and try do be a little different.....in your first message I mean

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