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Single male, inexperience and a virgin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I thought I introduce myself on here as I have been on here a few weeks and not had much luck.

I am very inexperience which is probably why I am finding it hard on here as alot of people are put off by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 32?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At 32?! "

Yes I know but true unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't lose your virginity on fab. Everyone will be disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't lose your virginity on fab. Everyone will be disappointed. "

Why would anyone care where I lose it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I thought I introduce myself on here as I have been on here a few weeks and not had much luck.

I am very inexperience which is probably why I am finding it hard on here as alot of people are put off by it."

Probably going to get shot down for this but why don't you just hire an escort? It's just business so neither of you will care how bad or how good it turns out. Just an idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but you've been here as long as I can remember not just a few weeks. just different profiles. but nothing has changed about you or what you're trying to achieve. don't you think it's time to change your approach and not just your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait till you are 40......they could make a film of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck mate im sure itll change when your ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies.

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

nr Letterkenny


"Hi, I thought I introduce myself on here as I have been on here a few weeks and not had much luck.

I am very inexperience which is probably why I am finding it hard on here as alot of people are put off by it."

It's good to see a guy taking the time to write an honest profile you shouldn't pay too much attention to what could be considered a negative comment. You should try and get to a social meet and greet they are great occasions and will increase your confidence I'm sure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi, I thought I introduce myself on here as I have been on here a few weeks and not had much luck.

I am very inexperience which is probably why I am finding it hard on here as alot of people are put off by it.

It's good to see a guy taking the time to write an honest profile you shouldn't pay too much attention to what could be considered a negative comment. You should try and get to a social meet and greet they are great occasions and will increase your confidence I'm sure."

Thanks

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"but you've been here as long as I can remember not just a few weeks. just different profiles. but nothing has changed about you or what you're trying to achieve. don't you think it's time to change your approach and not just your profile?"

Exactly, OP how many times have you posted this same thread? I know I have responded to you at least 3 times and I can only assume that you posted it more times than I have seen it.

Go to a club and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but you've been here as long as I can remember not just a few weeks. just different profiles. but nothing has changed about you or what you're trying to achieve. don't you think it's time to change your approach and not just your profile?

Exactly, OP how many times have you posted this same thread? I know I have responded to you at least 3 times and I can only assume that you posted it more times than I have seen it.

Go to a club and see what happens. "

Have seen this post numerous times too, last time we were on fab. Seventeen similar posts, I vividly remember! Not sure what other advice people can give you, OP, but would always advise a virgin keep away from swinging sites

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"but you've been here as long as I can remember not just a few weeks. just different profiles. but nothing has changed about you or what you're trying to achieve. don't you think it's time to change your approach and not just your profile?

Exactly, OP how many times have you posted this same thread? I know I have responded to you at least 3 times and I can only assume that you posted it more times than I have seen it.

Go to a club and see what happens.

Have seen this post numerous times too, last time we were on fab. Seventeen similar posts, I vividly remember! Not sure what other advice people can give you, OP, but would always advise a virgin keep away from swinging sites"

why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we come on here to have fun, enjoy the experience. Fucking a virgin is my version of hell, fumbling and telling a guy what to do etc is a huge turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Probably going to get shot down for this but why don't you just hire an escort? It's just business so neither of you will care how bad or how good it turns out. Just an idea."

Probably the best advice for this so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi mate, as some people have already said, well done for your honesty. You've as much right to post on here as anyone else, but I really think the best advice would be to look elsewhere for your first time.

As you can tell from some of the negative feedback this post has generated, a meeting from here would probably not end well, and it may have a negative effect on you...compounding the problem.

It's not the best advice, but I think safe sex with an escort would be a more positive experience for you.

The best advice would be to meet more people in the real world and have conventional sex with a natural partner! Then after that you can mess around on things like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but you've been here as long as I can remember not just a few weeks. just different profiles. but nothing has changed about you or what you're trying to achieve. don't you think it's time to change your approach and not just your profile?

Exactly, OP how many times have you posted this same thread? I know I have responded to you at least 3 times and I can only assume that you posted it more times than I have seen it.

Go to a club and see what happens.

Have seen this post numerous times too, last time we were on fab. Seventeen similar posts, I vividly remember! Not sure what other advice people can give you, OP, but would always advise a virgin keep away from swinging sites"

Only 17? I remember many more.

OP, you generally get the same responses. While I admire your persistence, there comes a time when persistence becomes a little irksome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but you've been here as long as I can remember not just a few weeks. just different profiles. but nothing has changed about you or what you're trying to achieve. don't you think it's time to change your approach and not just your profile?

Exactly, OP how many times have you posted this same thread? I know I have responded to you at least 3 times and I can only assume that you posted it more times than I have seen it.

Go to a club and see what happens.

Have seen this post numerous times too, last time we were on fab. Seventeen similar posts, I vividly remember! Not sure what other advice people can give you, OP, but would always advise a virgin keep away from swinging sites

why? "

Because a virgin would be too nervous at a swinging meet. It could put the person off sex for good. Meets can be quite nerve racking for people with experience. First sexual experience should be as relaxed as possible. That's not going to happen swinging.

Out of interest, OP, why do you keep posting the same thing? I'm curious

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

In one other (exactly the same question) thread you posted under your new profile, you thanked people for their advice and said you would change your profile, including putting up some better photos.

You haven't done that and you persist in these pointless threads simply to get some sort of odd attention and you won't answer the questions or acknowledge the observations from the other forumites.

Why?

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