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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How does this work ppl....I've pmed loads of ppl an no1 every reply....can anyone help plz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get into the chat rooms on cam or head to socials. Get urself known xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv learned that on forums is not how it work dude be patient it is a swing site and like myself your a single man, maybe take a look at some things on your profile you can change to be more accommodating to couples and such, it all takes time lol

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Get into the chat rooms on cam or head to socials. Get urself known xx"

As above. . Also consider adding some narrative to your profile. It may also be worth considering dropping the text speak on profile and messages.

Other than that be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What sort of thing do you say in your messages OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your advice you three

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry just Vicki ya post just came through....I just say hi or how ya doin is that bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does this work ppl....I've pmed loads of ppl an no1 every reply....can anyone help plz"

You have to sell yourself, which at this time, your not doing.

Most people read a profile before they read a message. If there's no profile to read, why they should they read your message?

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you very much....I will sort my profile out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says nothing about you and what you are looking for, I'd work on that.

My pet hate, pictures in uniform, to me of seems to say I'm military and defines you as such and I hate to see the uniform used to get sex. It's not a criticism but I also know a lot of others feel the same, just a suggestion to put it in friends only maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I never answer those.

Read the profiles. Find something in common. Compliment them on something you like. Crack a joke. Pop a reference to their profile in the subject title.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read your profile.

Not even a "hello" it's too short.

Gotta make it interesting, bit about you, what YOU can offer someone, not the other way around which is a mistake a lot of single men make.

Introduce yourself the way you would in a public situation, friendly, confident and say a bit about yourself.

Good luck. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry just Vicki ya post just came through....I just say hi or how ya doin is that bad"

Yeh I'd just delete. Need a decent profile- bit about yourself and a message that convays you have read profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your feed back an I will take it all on board

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Sorry just Vicki ya post just came through....I just say hi or how ya doin is that bad

Yeh I'd just delete. Need a decent profile- bit about yourself and a message that convays you have read profiles."

Yea sorry mate, I am pretty sure that those messages earn a delete from virtually 100% of ladies....you will have to do better than that to attract attention!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks miss lou

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

Based on your *ahem* profile (I use the word loosely as you have written sod all ) I wouldn't reply to a message from you.

I also wouldn't reply to anyone who sends a message full of text speak

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks bring on the fantasy I'll take that off....just proud to have been in I wasn't tryin to use it like that but thanks for the heads up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks bring on the fantasy I'll take that off....just proud to have been in I wasn't tryin to use it like that but thanks for the heads up"

And be proud, we understand that fully if you get what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol thanks angelluk69 I'll sort that out....made me chuckle that thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I know what you mean bring onthefantasy thanks and u will take that photo off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all an thanks for your advice....I've changed a few things on my profile could you all give me a bit of feed back if you don't mind

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Hey all an thanks for your advice....I've changed a few things on my profile could you all give me a bit of feed back if you don't mind"

Just go over the grammar again on your narrative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe no need to mention a bad relationship..concentrate on the positives

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"It may also be worth considering dropping the text speak on profile and messages. "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Profile seems better than it must have been based on the comments above.

It does sound like you're looking for a relationship though?

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"Hey all an thanks for your advice....I've changed a few things on my profile could you all give me a bit of feed back if you don't mind"
being straight but wanting to meet tvs would put me off, I wouldn't reply to your message, however others will so its really up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does this work ppl....I've pmed loads of ppl an no1 every reply....can anyone help plz"

Ditching the text speak might help

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

As people have suggested earlier, you need to say what YOU offer. We know what you are looking for, but why would a lady choose to chat to you and meet you.

What are you like,? what are you good at ? What are you into ?

Tell us more information so we can decide if you are worth replying to.

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