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What's the best way to approach someone on here with the 1st mag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah exactly that^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol was just told I need to change the pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably would help, or at least add something more than your cock.

idk, people like different messages, and most women don't reply no matter what you put. so long as you're respectful you won't be offending anyone at least.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"probably would help, or at least add something more than your cock.

idk, people like different messages, and most women don't reply no matter what you put. so long as you're respectful you won't be offending anyone at least."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuk now

Or

Suk mee now

Or

Wat laddys wnt fk now

I think opening messages like the above work well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a fuck?

Normally works for me

If it doesn't, must be your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuk now

Or

Suk mee now

Or

Wat laddys wnt fk now

I think opening messages like the above work well "

Yeah introductory messages of that type always pique my interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try;

u ok?

wuu2?

x

xx

xxx -if feeling like the lady is extra special

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"try;

u ok?

wuu2?

x

xx

xxx -if feeling like the lady is extra special"

Or indeed the ever popular:

"I'm nr u - when can I fuck it?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Especially at 3am from "cannot accommodate"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

I find if you delete any messages before sending them you are just as likely to recive a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hhvb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just before you start writing the message, start a timer. Write out your message, review it to make sure you are happy with it. Once you are it is ready to send. Now stop the timer and make a note of the time measured. Congratulations, you now know how much time you have wasted writing a message.

Now delete the message, log-off Fab and sit and think about why you would want to waste time messaging people on here. They very rarely reply. If people want to meet you, they will find you.

Cheer yourself up with some porn and a wank. Now go outside and enjoy yourself pursuing a useful hobby or interest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you do do, don't tell them you work 'in fraud'

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By *appyplastererMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I don't seem to have a problem.I'm always polite. A message too long can be boring. No cock pics.be honest. But don't take it to heart. If no response.after a picture is sent. Bear in mind we all have different taste.hope this helps

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I would suggest that you read the ladies or couples profile and see if you fit what they are looking for.

Having read their profile you can now write a paragraph mentioning why you are writing to them.

Comment on something from the profile, so it is not a cut and paste that you send to 100 people. Not I like your photos, try I love the photo in the red dress, because.....

Or I see you have been to xyz club, can I ask ....

Make it individual, respectful and interesting and you have a much better chance of a reply.

Be patient. Have fun. Chat on the forums. Attend a social or club to meet people much easier.

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By *ollyDayDreamerWoman
over a year ago

Gorleston

Reading the profile first helps & no text talk. Pics of your cock are a complete no no for me or of you hanging out of someone else......instant delete.

Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would suggest that you read the ladies or couples profile and see if you fit what they are looking for.

Having read their profile you can now write a paragraph mentioning why you are writing to them.

Comment on something from the profile, so it is not a cut and paste that you send to 100 people. Not I like your photos, try I love the photo in the red dress, because.....

Or I see you have been to xyz club, can I ask ....

Make it individual, respectful and interesting and you have a much better chance of a reply.

Be patient. Have fun. Chat on the forums. Attend a social or club to meet people much easier. "

That advice is positive, helpful and just refreshingly nice.

Thankyou

My best attempt was to compose a witty intelligent message, then drop my phone and accidentally send gibberish.... She never replied

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