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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Evening all...just saying hello really!

Been on here before as a couple and now trying it as a single male....such a different dynamic!

Question....is being reserved perhaps a negative thing...I just don't think being crude and no the point is me....

Thoughts please....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's different. I love it myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think being reserved is a bad thing as long as it's not too much.

As much as the people we know, and our veris, may say we are both quite shy when talking to and meeting new people (me especially, fem).

I'm not a fan of over the top in the beginning people, i prefer to get to know someone first so shyness can be endearing.

In clubs etc talking to people is great, i find within a few minutes whether we would feel comfortable to play with the people in question and if so open up a lot more.

On here, Mr usually does a lot of the initial messaging with me joining in, if i thinking will be good I join in a lot more.

So I'm answer to your question I like a tactile apparoach, friendly, approachable but not over the top. And I'm sure we are not the only people who like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer shy guys, but also like open people who are straight to the point, so idk now what i was going to say...

you'll find people who will like that about you and they'll be the ones you click with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm rather reserved and shy, and I am also polite and respectful whenever I send a message.

It gets me nowhere, but I would rather be like that than be brash and send "fancy a f**k"; that just isn't my style.

I don't do cock pics either!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies. Yes I personally agree. I rather take my time and be polite and reserved than just be bold, brazen and just obnoxious. I really don't think it's me at all

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

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"Thanks for the replies. Yes I personally agree. I rather take my time and be polite and reserved than just be bold, brazen and just obnoxious. I really don't think it's me at all"

There are options in between.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for the replies. Yes I personally agree. I rather take my time and be polite and reserved than just be bold, brazen and just obnoxious. I really don't think it's me at all

There are options in between."

Indeed ....very much so....I think that will be something I shall fine tune over time

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