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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi,

Like many on here, I'm just looking for some message and profile advice. As I've been here a few weeks and would appreciate any constructive feedback on what sorts of messages catch a woman's attention and how best to make my profile more attractive. Many thanks in advance.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always gonna be hard for single guys to flourish in this environment.

It's just a fact that we (single men) are ten a penny here...just how it is...

I was far more successful when I had a 29 year old ex porn actress on my arm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

Like many on here, I'm just looking for some message and profile advice. As I've been here a few weeks and would appreciate any constructive feedback on what sorts of messages catch a woman's attention and how best to make my profile more attractive. Many thanks in advance.

X"

Get rid of the negative sentence. It doesn't add anything and is not attractive.

That would leave five sentences. I will leave you to decide whether that is enough to provide a good, interesting and attractive picture of you.

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Not looking for woman who have fucked half of fab'get rid of quick' best advoice i can give you on a Swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi There,

Wonder if you could advise as myself and a female fb are looking to go to Chams Darlestone for the first time and go in a quieter times to take all in and have a play without being pestered and get others to join in if we want them too, what day would be advisable.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Not looking for woman who have fucked half of fab'get rid of quick' best advoice i can give you on a Swingers site "

Yep swinging women are promiscuous it comes with the territory of being "an open minded and adventurous woman" on a swingers site, but that doesn't mean they don't have any standards in fact you'll find most have higher standards than some vanilla women you'll pick up on a night out, you'll also find swingers are generally more conscious of their sexual health and get regular check ups at the local GUM clinic

Not the best attitude to have on a swingers site, not point saying you aren't being judgemental about women with lots of verifications because you clearly are

Also remember some verifications are from social meets or people they've just chatted with at clubs and not fucked, and many don't even leave verifications so it's likely most of the women you've contacted/plan to contact have fucked way more than their verifications are telling you they have

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Hi There,

Wonder if you could advise as myself and a female fb are looking to go to Chams Darlestone for the first time and go in a quieter times to take all in and have a play without being pestered and get others to join in if we want them too, what day would be advisable."

You'd be better making a post in the swinging club discussion part of this forum, with the subject title "chams" you'll likely get a better response from people that have been there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

many thanks will try that

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far


"many thanks will try that "
omg hehe not trying to be rude but this nice chap has well posted in the wrong thread hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have had another stab at my profile... any further comments welcome. X

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Hi,

Like many on here, I'm just looking for some message and profile advice. As I've been here a few weeks and would appreciate any constructive feedback on what sorts of messages catch a woman's attention and how best to make my profile more attractive. Many thanks in advance.

X"
You have a lengthy profile but it does not tell potential meets much about you. What are your hobbies and interests or you unique selling factors . ?

You have good pictures .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have had another stab at my profile... any further comments welcome. X"

Much better in my opinion though I would delete the "If you have no intention of meeting" bit. Few will contact you with a definite intention of meeting at the outset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

Like many on here, I'm just looking for some message and profile advice. As I've been here a few weeks and would appreciate any constructive feedback on what sorts of messages catch a woman's attention and how best to make my profile more attractive. Many thanks in advance.

X"

The best advice I can give is delete your profile. Use the time you would waste on here to do something constructive, like learn a new language or how to play a musical instrument. Maybe join some sort of club or group. Meet new people and enjoy life.

Otherwise you risk becoming bitter and twisted like me...

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