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By *ifestoooooshort OP   Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth

I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!! "

How refreshing to read something so encouraging and positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!! "

As a woman, I second this. Also, don't expect a reply if you don't either have a profile pic or attach a pic

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney


"I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!! "

Exactly this!

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By *id unviciousMan
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right

people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!! "

Perhaps this should be included in an email sent to all new members along with other advise on questions that are always popping up in forums. i.e why can't i get a meet I've been on here 7 hours?

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By *ifestoooooshort OP   Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth


"I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right

people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!!

Perhaps this should be included in an email sent to all new members along with other advise on questions that are always popping up in forums. i.e why can't i get a meet I've been on here 7 hours?"

I know!! But they make it worse for the rest of us!!?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Nice profile yourself OP. More pics pls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!! "

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria


"I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right

people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!!

Perhaps this should be included in an email sent to all new members along with other advise on questions that are always popping up in forums. i.e why can't i get a meet I've been on here 7 hours?

I know!! But they make it worse for the rest of us!!? "

This should be in the instruction manual for guys so they know how to get the best out of the site. Rather than banging on about how everyone ignores them, well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!! "

This is a good thread. But I've tried everything that you have put. I always read the profile try and send a not to long not to short message. I even try and put an interesting Header instead of just (Hi). I'm lucky if my messages even get read!! I never send rude pictures nor rude messages!! So I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong!!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must say i find it hard going and would consider myself to be polite and respectfull prob my age lol

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria


"I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!!

This is a good thread. But I've tried everything that you have put. I always read the profile try and send a not to long not to short message. I even try and put an interesting Header instead of just (Hi). I'm lucky if my messages even get read!! I never send rude pictures nor rude messages!! So I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong!!? "

Poor you, Don't lose heart. politeness works both ways, as i always reply to a decent message and the odd indecent one too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!!

This is a good thread. But I've tried everything that you have put. I always read the profile try and send a not to long not to short message. I even try and put an interesting Header instead of just (Hi). I'm lucky if my messages even get read!! I never send rude pictures nor rude messages!! So I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong!!?

Poor you, Don't lose heart. politeness works both ways, as i always reply to a decent message and the odd indecent one too. "

Thank you for the lovely reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!! "
agree with this sentiment, I've heard 'this isn't a dating site' a few times.

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By *he-Dirty-DuoMan
over a year ago

Boston


"I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!!

How refreshing to read something so encouraging and positive."

Here here

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By *ifestoooooshort OP   Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth


"Nice profile yourself OP. More pics pls "

How's are you V? X

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By *ifestoooooshort OP   Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth


"I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!!

This is a good thread. But I've tried everything that you have put. I always read the profile try and send a not to long not to short message. I even try and put an interesting Header instead of just (Hi). I'm lucky if my messages even get read!! I never send rude pictures nor rude messages!! So I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong!!? "

Probably nothing....its patience and being pleasantly persistent!? Find the right people and be selective I think?

I've messed up a few times but you just have to keep trying? I've been very lucky I think but I do feel it's the content of the message as these ladies get bombarded?! I just think about what to what not to write!? It's a fine line as you don't want to come across boring either? I'm no expert but just wanted to air my views!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you are 6ft tall and not fat. Of course you will get meets if you can send a nice message.

What are us short, fat bastards supposed to do? They don't bother reading our messages after seeing the stats and the pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with ^phil us normal..chubby, hairy guys have zero chance. Women look at our profile no matter what we put..then delete message or block us. Yer its not going to happen unless you have a body of a god.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I'm seeing so many posts here saying how difficult it is to meet people?

I'm not Brad Pitt and not as experienced as most (sorry ladies) but I've found sending a nice intro message with detail and proving you've read the profile of the person you're mailing a big help and I'm getting mail and meets with the right people...it's a sex site yes but you gotta show some respect and decorum!! "

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