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Just after a little advice as most normally do on here, been on for a few months now, had a few conversations that sadly didnt go anywhere which thought would :/
I get a few profile views but sadly doesnt go past that really, am I doing something wrong, does my profile lack?
Any advice or pointers would be greatly appreciated and needed lol thanks all | |||
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"Yeeh I agree with you there, nice to just have a conversation regardless of where it leads to? I'll happily talk to anyone and I try not to be rude for instance had a few TVs message me which isn't my cup of Rosie but ill always say thanks for the interested but sadly not for me etc... Takes nothing to be nice takes brain power to be a dick lol" Lol that's very true! I've read a lot if woman don't like cock pictures and will ignore men who show them.. have you tried a body pictur or boxers? | |||
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"Hello lovely people
Just after a little advice as most normally do on here, been on for a few months now, had a few conversations that sadly didnt go anywhere which thought would :/
I get a few profile views but sadly doesnt go past that really, am I doing something wrong, does my profile lack?
Any advice or pointers would be greatly appreciated and needed lol thanks all "Hello. This is all meant constructively. Your only picture is of your penis, women often like the whole package you don't need to show your face. Have a read of your profile, would it make you think here's someone I want to meet? 90% of the men on this site focus on oral sex but if that's all that's on offer its not intriguing. Take out all the stuff about needing advice etc and write a short piece describing yourself, what you can offer and what you would like, concentrate on positives. Good luck | |||
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And I will gp back and have a read of my profile, I try to amend when and if I think something is wrong but we all mias things so any constructive criticism is welcomed
Can't fix a problem of you don't know the fault so greatly appreciated and I will see if I can come up with something better | |||
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"Righto ladies I had a little amendment on the profile now, Is that a little more individual or am I still in limbo haha" It's quite jolly and positive which is good. It doesn't really say much about you. I would avoid those phrases you see on profiles all the time - you know, "I am genuine, friendly, blah, blah." And always explain why you can't accommodate or people will assume you are cheating. | |||
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"Maybe you aren't chatting to the right people?! I find it really weird why people can't just chat to one an other on this site. We will talk to anyone, even if they aren't our type. I know that obv doesn't help you for meeting lol but I feel its nice to be nice" Well if you're not a site supporter (I usually am but can afford to upgrade again til pay day) you only get 100 messages a day to use and I've currently got 217 unread mail, so at the moment its mathematically impossible to chat to everyone. | |||
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"Righto ladies I had a little amendment on the profile now, Is that a little more individual or am I still in limbo haha It's quite jolly and positive which is good. It doesn't really say much about you. I would avoid those phrases you see on profiles all the time - you kno, "I am genuine, friendly, blah, blah." And always explain why you can't accommodate or people will assume you are cheating." Thanks for the feedback I'll give it an amend when I get a second now had alot more views today but no hellos, but maybe thats people looking at this thread lol | |||
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"Maybe you aren't chatting to the right people?! I find it really weird why people can't just chat to one an other on this site. We will talk to anyone, even if they aren't our type. I know that obv doesn't help you for meeting lol but I feel its nice to be nice Well if you're not a site supporter (I usually am but can afford to upgrade again til pay day) you only get 100 messages a day to use and I've currently got 217 unread mail, so at the moment its mathematically impossible to chat to everyone. " And yeh I can imagine for women and couples it gets a bit much with all the mesaages and that and I understand some just won't reply but nice to say hey not for us or whatever but then I suppose it's time they could utilise elsewhere but I refer back to cost nothing to be nice | |||
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" We think it is more that, a polite no, can be misconstrued and many couples and females who do reply have had bad experiences from single men. It can actually cost both time and unpleasant misunderstanding as a message is so much less communicative than a conversation with body language. We ended up blocking single guys " Ahh I see well hate fair enough if you're getting pushy and unpleasant messages I don't see the need for all tjat please, aren't gona suit everyone's tastes all the time so it's one of them really....but thanks for the feedback, appreciated hopefully I'll start getting somwhere soon | |||
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