FabSwingers.com forum: Can't get a reply

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What am I doing wrong ? No one seems to answer me haha !

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

This is meant constructively.

Your name

change it.

You don't ask for profile advice so I won't give it.

I'm going to trot out my Argos analogy. The site is not a browse, choose click, deliver service you need to put some work in

Good luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Oh and smile

Ps "sexually frustrated need release ladies" is not going to have women queuing at your door.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay, thanks for the advice. Can't change my username for a few days though. I thought it was funny at the time but obviously not !

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"This is meant constructively.

Your name

change it.

You don't ask for profile advice so I won't give it.

I'm going to trot out my Argos analogy. The site is not a browse, choose click, deliver service you need to put some work in

Good luck."

Yes, someone your age saying you are an expert reminds me of my son claiming the same #justsaying

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Okay, thanks for the advice. Can't change my username for a few days though. I thought it was funny at the time but obviously not !"

You're welcome.

I'm just one woman others might find it funny but if you like older women I would say most would pass you by based on that. Some one might be along in a minute and say they love it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Also men are in a huge majority here so sitting back and waiting for messages might not work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, the name doesn't inspire me to open the mail. Also, give us an example of what you send...there are a few things I ignore on sight but I can't tell if you're doing any of them without seeing it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Usually I say "Hello, how're you ?" Then I'll compliment them or tell them what caught my eye on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair enough, I'll change it asap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always ignore compliments, it's pretty much a given the person finds you attractive if they've messaged you. it's not something that would engage me in conversation.

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

"Oh and smile

Ps "sexually frustrated need release ladies" is not going to have women queuing at your door."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would you suggest then ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay I've changed that, just need to do my username now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually I say "Hello, how're you ?" Then I'll compliment them or tell them what caught my eye on their profile."

Yes but they then read your profile, find it completely uninspiring and decide they really are not interested in conversing with you when there are much more interesting people to chat with.

That, I am afraid, is how it works.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it really that bad even after I made a few changes. I'm genuinely interested in what a good profile should read like.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"Okay I've changed that, just need to do my username now."
That's the new version now is it op?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have to wait a few days before I can change it unfortunately .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really that bad even after I made a few changes. I'm genuinely interested in what a good profile should read like."

One that is informative, interesting and attractive? Why did you ever think otherwise?

I thought profile changes were instantaneous but one learns something new every day.

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By *id unviciousMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Sexually frustrated, need a release ladies"

Not the best meet request I've ever read

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is it really that bad even after I made a few changes. I'm genuinely interested in what a good profile should read like."

The smiling photo's nice

There isn't a standard good profile but it's a good idea to say what you're looking for and what you can offer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sure I've changed it !

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm sure I've changed it !

Did you click "save changes"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your username & your meet request would put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Sexually frustrated, need a release ladies"

Not the best meet request I've ever read

Yeah it does sound a bit like, I just need somewhere to unload ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks ! I will have to spend a while writing out my profile then because I find it quite hard to write about myself. I've just tried changing it again and I've asked the site administrators if they can change my username.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure I've changed it !

Well, before you change it again, have a browse through the profiles of more successful men on here. Do you notice a difference?

Perhaps they project a sense of personality? Humour even? A trace of individuality? More than a few sentences equating to, "I have a cock and want to stick it in a hole?"

Work out what you want to say before typing a few random words. It will do you a world of good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't think before I speak unfortunately. I didn't intend for it to be received like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks ! I will have to spend a while writing out my profile then because I find it quite hard to write about myself. I've just tried changing it again and I've asked the site administrators if they can change my username."

I know what you mean, mine is constantly a work in progress. I change it all the time. It's not easy, describing everything about yourself that you want people to know in just a few lines or paragraphs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, look at her profile and compare it with yours.

Hers is the profile of a person. Yours is the profile of a single man who wants his cock stimulated.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP do a forum search for 'Profile Advice' and read what you find.

This question is asked over and over but there is a lot of good advice in the threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will do, thanks !

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Don't matter about your name that ain't going to change their opinion most people want a bi guy or they assume you are just a time waster because this site has a lot of time wasters n nob heads makes it very difficult for a single male on ere unless you have pictures of muscles n veri by half the site wich brings me to another point why would you want someone who's veri by the whole world (rant over )

That's mostly bollock's.

Sorry, I'll take that back, apologies.

That's entirely bollock's.

I've not met anyone looking for a bi guy.

I've not met anyone who thought I was a time waster. (Not sure how that would happen anyway)

I'm not a knob head. (Open to debate admitedly)

I don't have muscles and I'm not verified by half the site.

But I meet.

What else you got?

Yeah because your bi "

OP take note, being very negative and trying to insult other posters is also not sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's mostly bollock's.

Sorry, I'll take that back, apologies.

That's entirely bollock's.

I've not met anyone looking for a bi guy.

I've not met anyone who thought I was a time waster. (Not sure how that would happen anyway)

I'm not a knob head. (Open to debate admitedly)

I don't have muscles and I'm not verified by half the site.

But I meet.

What else you got?

Yeah because your bi "

I see your problem now. You can't read.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay I see the difference. I'm not very good at writing about myself as I said before but I'll give it another try. I don't want to be seen in that way.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Okay I see the difference. I'm not very good at writing about myself as I said before but I'll give it another try. I don't want to be seen in that way."

It can be hard to write about yourself but if you imagine you are sitting in a pub with a female friend and she asks you to describe what you want form a woman and what you can offer I bet you'd be able to say it easily

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

FYI I didn't want this thread to start an argument !

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"You tarnished all women on here with the same brush. That's not nice

You are right I apologise I should of reworded what I wrote so I am sorry "

Fair enough

Though stooping to name calling is never sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's mostly bollock's.

Sorry, I'll take that back, apologies.

That's entirely bollock's.

I've not met anyone looking for a bi guy.

I've not met anyone who thought I was a time waster. (Not sure how that would happen anyway)

I'm not a knob head. (Open to debate admitedly)

I don't have muscles and I'm not verified by half the site.

But I meet.

What else you got?

Yeah because your bi

I see your problem now. You can't read."

Explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You tarnished all women on here with the same brush. That's not nice

You are right I apologise I should of reworded what I wrote so I am sorry

Fair enough

Though stooping to name calling is never sexy

Yeah your right I didn't appreciate the way he approached me as I said before I'm a adult and expect to be treated like one I may be younger than certain people but doesn't give people the right to talk to me how they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FYI I didn't want this thread to start an argument !

I'm not arguing I'm just getting my point across sorry for making it into something it shouldn't b

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay I see the difference. I'm not very good at writing about myself as I said before but I'll give it another try. I don't want to be seen in that way."

Then forget the standard crap put up by most single males. Be individual. Do not be afraid to appeal to minority audiences. Be you.

You do not have a limit on the number of words you use.

You may consider yourself crap at describing yourself but noone else can and if you are hoping to make an impression on here, how else can someone judge you?

Before you upload it, think about who you are trying to attract and how. Write it down on paper before committing it. Spell check. Grammar check. Then do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've had a go, tell me your thoughts?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Can people please remember this is the introduction/ advice on profile section. If it annoys you so much to see these threads that you want to write patronising/ aggressive posts then please don't post at all and go find other threads that are more enjoyable for you.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP...welcome to the forum. You have had some great advice on this thread. If you click on reply and quote we can see who you are replying to.

Good luck and stick around on the forum while you are waiting for your first reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To the OP...welcome to the forum. You have had some great advice on this thread. If you click on reply and quote we can see who you are replying to.

Good luck and stick around on the forum while you are waiting for your first reply

Thankyou for being so welcoming ! I will let you all know how it all works out for me

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Hello OP.

Yep, your name is off putting and calling me shallow because I think looks ARE important isn't the best start.

I also refer you to my lovely friends analogy that Fab is not like an Argos catalogue, you can't choose one and have it delivered to you and a 'how are you' message is fairly useless as the answer would usually be 'fine' (if you get one because not many open messages without reading the profile first) and then what would you say in reply?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Thankyou for being so welcoming ! I will let you all know how it all works out for me

You're getting there but the Turn Offs part looks like a rant and not sexy.

What can you do for a woman though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello OP.

Yep, your name is off putting and calling me shallow because I think looks ARE important isn't the best start.

Okay I've changed that. Have you got any examples of better ways to initiate a conversation ?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Okay I've changed that. Have you got any examples of better ways to initiate a conversation ?"

I'm not being funny but how would you approach a woman in real life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thankyou for being so welcoming ! I will let you all know how it all works out for me

You're getting there but the Turn Offs part looks like a rant and not sexy.

What can you do for a woman though?"

it is a rant i think, but i agree it's not sexy. We don't owe you anything just because you're new and struggling OP. Nobody on here will give a charity fuck.

Good profile otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello OP.

Yep, your name is off putting and calling me shallow because I think looks ARE important isn't the best start.

Okay I've changed that. Have you got any examples of better ways to initiate a conversation ?"

I tried very hard to impart my limited wisdom. Having completely ignored my advice (or having chosen to ignore it because it was deemed not good), I will leave you to it and wish you the best of luck. I have a motto. You can lead a horse to water but a pencil must be lead.

Carry on as you were.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Okay I've changed that. Have you got any examples of better ways to initiate a conversation ?

I'm not being funny but how would you approach a woman in real life?"

I see your point but in person it's so much easier. It just feels un natural online. Probably over thinking it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello OP.

Yep, your name is off putting and calling me shallow because I think looks ARE important isn't the best start.

Okay I've changed that. Have you got any examples of better ways to initiate a conversation ?

Carry on as you were."

No need to be nasty about it. I'm trying to make it better and I'm not ignoring you. Maybe we aren't all as sophisticated as you . Sorry.

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

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Do men message you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That last bit calling some people arrogant would put me off a bit, though I appreciate that I'm not myself in your target group.

The thing is, all that achieves I think is alienating the nice people here ... it won't make the slightest difference to the ones you're complaining about. Imho.

But anyway you're a dishy dude and a guitarist too, I can't be the only person who likes that

P.s. *bear, not bare

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thankyou for being so welcoming ! I will let you all know how it all works out for me

You're getting there but the Turn Offs part looks like a rant and not sexy.

What can you do for a woman though?

it is a rant i think, but i agree it's not sexy. We don't owe you anything just because you're new and struggling OP. Nobody on here will give a charity fuck.

Good profile otherwise."

Got rid of it haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do men message you? "
They used to but I blocked them because of the amount of them. They seemed to ignore the fact my profile says I'm straight too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That last bit calling some people arrogant would put me off a bit, though I appreciate that I'm not myself in your target group.

The thing is, all that achieves I think is alienating the nice people here ... it won't make the slightest difference to the ones you're complaining about. Imho.

But anyway you're a dishy dude and a guitarist too, I can't be the only person who likes that

P.s. *bear, not bare"

This is why I don't enjoy writing, I'm no good at it. I don't want to alienate anyone I just feel that as stating my sexual orientation. I'll change it. Thanks for the compliment , do you play guitar also ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello OP.

Yep, your name is off putting and calling me shallow because I think looks ARE important isn't the best start.

Okay I've changed that. Have you got any examples of better ways to initiate a conversation ?

Carry on as you were.

No need to be nasty about it. I'm trying to make it better and I'm not ignoring you. Maybe we aren't all as sophisticated as you . Sorry."

Nasty? No. Constructive? Yes.

I took time to try to help. You labelled it nastiness.

You asked. I responded.

You are more than welcome to reject that advice. I am no more perfect than you.

But please do not label my willingness to help as nastiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thankyou for being so welcoming ! I will let you all know how it all works out for me

You're getting there but the Turn Offs part looks like a rant and not sexy.

What can you do for a woman though?

it is a rant i think, but i agree it's not sexy. We don't owe you anything just because you're new and struggling OP. Nobody on here will give a charity fuck.

Good profile otherwise.

Got rid of it haha"

i honestly think that your profile is more than enough for anyone to decide if they'd like to take things further.

good job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is meant constructively.

Your name

change it.

You don't ask for profile advice so I won't give it.

I'm going to trot out my Argos analogy. The site is not a browse, choose click, deliver service you need to put some work in

Good luck."

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm not being funny but how would you approach a woman in real life?

I see your point but in person it's so much easier. It just feels un natural online. Probably over thinking it."

You may well be, there's an element of pot luck whether you'll get replies

You need a good profile is it will be checked.

The contents of the message must show that read and understood the profile. It doesn't need to be long but more than Hi how are you. Don't uses copy & paste messages either. They are easy to spot.

Don't go overboard with compliments, that's easy to spot too.

If you want to send me a first message I'll give you private feedback if you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I don't enjoy writing, I'm no good at it. I don't want to alienate anyone I just feel that as stating my sexual orientation. I'll change it. Thanks for the compliment , do you play guitar also ?"

I'm a bassist

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm a bassist

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rock on !

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Mate it doesn't matter what you write, say or looking for. If someone is going to reply then they will out of preference. It has nothing to do with your profile. I know people off here that write nothing on their profile and still manage to get loads of verifications and then some hot people with loads of pics and no one meets them. So trust me if it's going to happen it will just keep trying.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The OP's opening message was pretty good, he's definitely taken the good advice given

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mate it doesn't matter what you write, say or looking for. If someone is going to reply then they will out of preference. It has nothing to do with your profile. I know people off here that write nothing on their profile and still manage to get loads of verifications and then some hot people with loads of pics and no one meets them. So trust me if it's going to happen it will just keep trying."
Okay man cheers for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What am I doing wrong ? No one seems to answer me haha !"

Impossible to know without knowing what your saying?

If its "hi wana fuck" or "how are you" kind of messages then dont expect a reply

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Usually I say "Hello, how're you ?" Then I'll compliment them or tell them what caught my eye on their profile."

I generally don't even open a message that says 'hello, how're you?' Because I can see that much without opening it.

Be original. Read the profile, tailor your message to the individual and aim for humour (provided it's funny) rather than graphic sexual chat and see how you go.

As others have said, there are a billion blokes here and the competition is tough. The name doesn't inspire me but I'm pretty fussy.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If all else fails more cock pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Usually I say "Hello, how're you ?" Then I'll compliment them or tell them what caught my eye on their profile.

I generally don't even open a message that says 'hello, how're you?' Because I can see that much without opening it.

Be original. Read the profile, tailor your message to the individual and aim for humour (provided it's funny) rather than graphic sexual chat and see how you go.

As others have said, there are a billion blokes here and the competition is tough. The name doesn't inspire me but I'm pretty fussy.

Good luck.

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Names changed and so has my profile. How is it looking now ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually I say "Hello, how're you ?" Then I'll compliment them or tell them what caught my eye on their profile.

I generally don't even open a message that says 'hello, how're you?' Because I can see that much without opening it.

Be original. Read the profile, tailor your message to the individual and aim for humour (provided it's funny) rather than graphic sexual chat and see how you go.

As others have said, there are a billion blokes here and the competition is tough. The name doesn't inspire me but I'm pretty fussy.

Good luck.

Names changed and so has my profile. How is it looking now ?"

I wanted to reply yesterday but was unable to.

Profile name is much better.

Picture gallery is OK.

Profile isn't too bad, an improvement on before.

Personally I treat my profile as a work in progress, can't speak for others. Remember it's your profile, you don't have to take the advice you're given. Use what you think will help, don't worry about what you think won't help.

Every now and again I review mine and give it a tweek.

Same with my photos, add a couple, delete a couple. I've noticed adding a photo now and again, as opposed to lots at once gets me more visitors. One at a time and you'll pop up regularly on local updates, lots at once and you'll only be seen once.

A humerous status update helps and does the same.

Good luck, be patient and stay positive.

Don't give in to the urge to moan or rant, unless it's Thursday, in which case there's (usually) a whole thread dedicated to the cause.

Pop into the lounge and have a look around. You'll learn which threads to join in and which to avoid. Don't be afraid to contribute to the lunacy.

Crack on.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Usually I say "Hello, how're you ?" Then I'll compliment them or tell them what caught my eye on their profile.

I generally don't even open a message that says 'hello, how're you?' Because I can see that much without opening it.

Be original. Read the profile, tailor your message to the individual and aim for humour (provided it's funny) rather than graphic sexual chat and see how you go.

As others have said, there are a billion blokes here and the competition is tough. The name doesn't inspire me but I'm pretty fussy.

Good luck.

Names changed and so has my profile. How is it looking now ?

I wanted to reply yesterday but was unable to.

Profile name is much better.

Picture gallery is OK.

Profile isn't too bad, an improvement on before.

Every now and again I review mine and give it a tweek.

A humerous status update helps and does the same.

Good luck, be patient and stay positive.

Don't give in to the urge to moan or rant, unless it's Thursday, in which case there's (usually) a whole thread dedicated to the cause.

Pop into the lounge and have a look around. You'll learn which threads to join in and which to avoid. Don't be afraid to contribute to the lunacy.

Crack on......."

Cheers for the advice, what sort of photos should I be adding ? I'm not going to moan but this site can be very disheartening haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually I say "Hello, how're you ?" Then I'll compliment them or tell them what caught my eye on their profile.

I generally don't even open a message that says 'hello, how're you?' Because I can see that much without opening it.

Be original. Read the profile, tailor your message to the individual and aim for humour (provided it's funny) rather than graphic sexual chat and see how you go.

As others have said, there are a billion blokes here and the competition is tough. The name doesn't inspire me but I'm pretty fussy.

Good luck.

Names changed and so has my profile. How is it looking now ?

I wanted to reply yesterday but was unable to.

Profile name is much better.

Picture gallery is OK.

Profile isn't too bad, an improvement on before.

Every now and again I review mine and give it a tweek.

A humerous status update helps and does the same.

Good luck, be patient and stay positive.

Don't give in to the urge to moan or rant, unless it's Thursday, in which case there's (usually) a whole thread dedicated to the cause.

Pop into the lounge and have a look around. You'll learn which threads to join in and which to avoid. Don't be afraid to contribute to the lunacy.

Crack on.......

Cheers for the advice, what sort of photos should I be adding ? I'm not going to moan but this site can be very disheartening haha."

Thursday is moaning day, you've been warned.

What sort of photos? Good quality obviously. There's no set theme for photos, keep anything intimate/filthy/explicit in your private folder.

Mix up the subject, unusual choice of props.

One of the guys here has a thing about socks, another guy uses hats. Just pick a subject and make it your signature style.

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over a year ago

"Do not be afraid to appeal to minority audiences. Be you."

I like that

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over a year ago

""Do not be afraid to appeal to minority audiences. Be you."

I like that

That's simplistically brilliant.

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over a year ago

""Do not be afraid to appeal to minority audiences. Be you."

I like that

That's simplistically brilliant.

Inspirational quote alert! I'll work on a new picture gallery tommorow. I'll think of a funny theme.

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over a year ago

""Do not be afraid to appeal to minority audiences. Be you."

I like that

That's simplistically brilliant.

Inspirational quote alert! I'll work on a new picture gallery tommorow. I'll think of a funny theme."

You do realise that if you take anyone's advice, and it works, you have to pass 10% of your shags to the advice giver in commission?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is anyone else curious about what his user name was before he changed it, or just me

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over a year ago

"What am I doing wrong ? No one seems to answer me haha !"

No problem with 'big' women'...,very magnanimous of you

Just a little thing I picked up on

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""Do not be afraid to appeal to minority audiences. Be you."

I like that

That's simplistically brilliant.

Inspirational quote alert! I'll work on a new picture gallery tommorow. I'll think of a funny theme.

You do realise that if you take anyone's advice, and it works, you have to pass 10% of your shags to the advice giver in commission?

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Done deal !

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over a year ago

"What am I doing wrong ? No one seems to answer me haha !

No problem with 'big' women'...,very magnanimous of you

Just a little thing I picked up on"

Didn't want it to be perceived like that at all.

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over a year ago

"Is anyone else curious about what his user name was before he changed it, or just me

'VaginaConnoisseur95', we all do silly things haha

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over a year ago

""Do not be afraid to appeal to minority audiences. Be you."

I like that

That's simplistically brilliant.

Inspirational quote alert! I'll work on a new picture gallery tommorow. I'll think of a funny theme.

You do realise that if you take anyone's advice, and it works, you have to pass 10% of your shags to the advice giver in commission?

Done deal !"

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By *fricanMann2077Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

"i always ignore compliments, it's pretty much a given the person finds you attractive if they've messaged you. it's not something that would engage me in conversation."

Thanks for that tip. I see why girls on pof ignore me lol

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

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"Is anyone else curious about what his user name was before he changed it, or just me

'VaginaConnoisseur95', we all do silly things haha"

That really is quite epically brilliant man.

I have a picture of you sat in a large leather chair, with a cigarette in a holder and a glass of whisky, twirling a moustache - saying "I'm a conossieur of the vagina" in a posh, louche voice.

Probably for the best it's gone I guess, but it's a sad loss in many ways.

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"Is anyone else curious about what his user name was before he changed it, or just me

'VaginaConnoisseur95', we all do silly things haha

That really is quite epically brilliant man.

I have a picture of you sat in a large leather chair, with a cigarette in a holder and a glass of whisky, twirling a moustache - saying "I'm a conossieur of the vagina" in a posh, louche voice.

Probably for the best it's gone I guess, but it's a sad loss in many ways.

And now I have an image of a vagina tasting club, where men such as you describe try to guess the vintage from the taste and aroma

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"What am I doing wrong ? No one seems to answer me haha !"

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