FabSwingers.com forum: New and best way to get started

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I'm new to this although created the profile a while ago. Whats the best way to get verified and meet like minded people.

Is it through events or pm? I don't want to end up alienating half of london.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

initially,you should be aware that most women will check a profile before opening a message..if there's nothing really there, you risk your messages being deleted without being read. Without a full profile,anything else is a moot point...

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I'm new to this although created the profile a while ago. Whats the best way to get verified and meet like minded people.

Is it through events or pm? I don't want to end up alienating half of london. "

I would suggest a club - you get to meet people face to face. I got my two verifications through going to a club (granted they're both from the same lady but it's a verification nonetheless)!

You could try the PM approach, but that hasn't worked well for me personally. The majority of the messages are deleted without reply. Going to a club will show that you are most definitely a real person, therefore you are more likely to meet someone and get a verification.

If you haven't been to a club before, try not to set your expectations too high - it wasn't until my third or fourth visit that I saw some 'action'!

Hope this helps!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah not had much luck on the pm's I suppose it's the equivalent of walking up and talking to someone random on the tube.

Can anyone recommend any good clubs in london?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah not had much luck on the pm's I suppose it's the equivalent of walking up and talking to someone random on the tube.

Can anyone recommend any good clubs in london?"

As said above, if you want to contact people here via private messages, you will need to put some effort into a profile.

Otherwise, if you are comfortable with the environment, look for socials that are advertised or check out the clubs.