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By *rgamble OP   Man
over a year ago

chorley

I've been here ages and find it hard to get any kind of response, any help would be great....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because this site is full of dreamers that like the thought of meeting but in reality have no intention of doing so.

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By *rgamble OP   Man
over a year ago

chorley

I was hoping that wasn't true but maybe you're right....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of dreamers, I've had several male ones, arrange a meet or social, they back out. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was hoping that wasn't true but maybe you're right...."

Ah. A four sentence profile.

Two non matching face pictures.

One that appears several times on the net.

And you complain?

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By *rgamble OP   Man
over a year ago

chorley

What do you mean non matching? It's definatly me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *rgamble OP   Man
over a year ago

chorley

Oh I've been patient lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you mean non matching? It's definatly me haha"

Well, you either became black or used another picture. I am sorry if I am wrong but I am not the only one able to do a picture search.

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By *umpPumpyMan
over a year ago

London

I'm starting to think clubs are the best way forward. But I'm not yet confident enough to go alone

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By *rgamble OP   Man
over a year ago

chorley


"I'm starting to think clubs are the best way forward. But I'm not yet confident enough to go alone "

Same. I would prefer to meet someone beforehand and then go to a club with them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we now only meet at clubs parties as if we are wishing to meet another guy 9 out of 10 are no shows dreamers ,so the way we meet now is not a waste of time

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

You are not alone on this one.. many 000's of men are seeking the same. You are just another male profile like most others on here.

Good luck

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far


"There are a lot of dreamers, I've had several male ones, arrange a meet or social, they back out. X"
us to we sorted out a D.P meet a few weeks ago and got let down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we now only meet at clubs parties as if we are wishing to meet another guy 9 out of 10 are no shows dreamers ,so the way we meet now is not a waste of time "

Totally agree. The site maybe over run with 'single'men but alot are fantasists and dreamers who get off on the thrill of the chase and setting meets up. Going through with it is a different matter. Clubs all the way!!

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By *rgamble OP   Man
over a year ago

chorley


"Well we now only meet at clubs parties as if we are wishing to meet another guy 9 out of 10 are no shows dreamers ,so the way we meet now is not a waste of time

Totally agree. The site maybe over run with 'single'men but alot are fantasists and dreamers who get off on the thrill of the chase and setting meets up. Going through with it is a different matter. Clubs all the way!!"
are you looking to meet at the minute lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we now only meet at clubs parties as if we are wishing to meet another guy 9 out of 10 are no shows dreamers ,so the way we meet now is not a waste of time

Totally agree. The site maybe over run with 'single'men but alot are fantasists and dreamers who get off on the thrill of the chase and setting meets up. Going through with it is a different matter. Clubs all the way!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we now only meet at clubs parties as if we are wishing to meet another guy 9 out of 10 are no shows dreamers ,so the way we meet now is not a waste of time

Totally agree. The site maybe over run with 'single'men but alot are fantasists and dreamers who get off on the thrill of the chase and setting meets up. Going through with it is a different matter. Clubs all the way!! are you looking to meet at the minute lol?"

I meet all the time but I certainly don't rely on this site for meets. Clubs only and I go alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its true not many will meet on this site ive met one ages ago what does a man have to do come on ladies get with the program

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was hoping that wasn't true but maybe you're right...."

Probably best not to ignore the bitterness that was the post above this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm starting to think clubs are the best way forward. But I'm not yet confident enough to go alone

Same. I would prefer to meet someone beforehand and then go to a club with them...."

Just go on your own, the liklihood of a female wanting to go with you is at best unlikely. There is very little if anything in it for a woman who accompanies a random bloke to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are the way forward. This site has too many men and virtually no females/ couples that actually meet. Don't be scared going by yourself, just be your normal self and don't walk in ecpecting to get laid.

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By *rgamble OP   Man
over a year ago

chorley

Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would personally ask for profile advice or do a search for it on the forums

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

The amount of time we see these thread and you get the whole I'm too nervous to go to a club alone line is unreal if you're as he obey as you say you are just go to the club alone yes it's nervy but the hardest part is the first step through the door, remember everyone was new once.

This attitude of not going alone would seriously make me question if a meet was arranged, would you seriously have the balls to go through with it if you haven't got the balls to go to a club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on here a while now and have had 2 meets and one social meet but as the person has left now I and fighting of losing battle.

It seems if your face fits your in.

Never rude to anyone and always nice when sending a email to someone.

But still nothing. It makes me wonder what people are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of dreamers, I've had several male ones, arrange a meet or social, they back out. X us to we sorted out a D.P meet a few weeks ago and got let down "

So there are some totally fucking bonkers people on here then!

What a missed opportunity!

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By *rgamble OP   Man
over a year ago

chorley


"The amount of time we see these thread and you get the whole I'm too nervous to go to a club alone line is unreal if you're as he obey as you say you are just go to the club alone yes it's nervy but the hardest part is the first step through the door, remember everyone was new once.

This attitude of not going alone would seriously make me question if a meet was arranged, would you seriously have the balls to go through with it if you haven't got the balls to go to a club? "
yes I've met serveral people, I have no issue in doing that. I've never backed out of a meet either.

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