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What's wrong? Beginning to feel offended now. We're not that bad surely?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been here a while now, still no success with a meet yet though. We have exchanged messages with a few people, the conversations have gone well until they suddenly want to bring fbs or doms (which isn't what we're looking for, as just not our thing) or we get to the point of arranging a meet for it to never happen with no explanation.

We know this is a sex site, we understand people are looking for what they enjoy and don't want to compromise on that and we even acknowledge the fact we aren't going to be everyone's cup of tea. That is what we expected when we signed up to be honest. What we didn't realise was how hard it would be for us to get a meet!

Of course we have things we want to try, fantasies we would love to fulfil but they are not the be all and end all we just want fun with like minded people that enjoy sex. Yes we do have things that we would rather not do but we are quite honest with those if asked.

Basically if anyone could help us with what we are doing wrong, we would really appreciate it. Is it our profile? Pics? Travel? Or are we really that undesirable even just for some social fun, never mind anything else? Hope not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your worded profile seems ok to us,maybe and a BIG maybe is put a couple of pics up.That might work in your favour.Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics, only looking for single ladies, profile smacks of a single guy pretending to be a couple with the "he can play on his own" line......

Put some pics up for a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like you need 2 single accounts as well - him playing alone and her playing with ladies alone - yeah andsome pics somewhere if only for friends

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Add some pics to your profile, it might help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok put pics up. Should we remove the part about him playing alone? Only put that for his single account really cos people don't believe I know he plays alone x

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By *jxxxxCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Great pics

Display your verification - let others read it, it should make it a little easier to imagine what it'd be like to play with you guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a single woman who DOES meet alone and occasionally meets couples... you're only looking to meet women, and sometimes it's hard for a woman to find a couple where she finds them both attractive - I've been here for about 15 months overall, and I'm yet to find a couple where they both equally catch my eye. So no, the fact that you struggle to find a woman where there's a threeway attraction isn't a slight against you. You've only been here two months.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I would assume that the 1994 in your profile name refers to your year of birth.

I can't see why you're having problems, you'd do well in clubs I bet.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rubytuesday hits the nail on the head, it's extremely difficult to find single bi females who want to play with couples. Every FFM I have ever had came about from meeting people in real life rather than online.

That said, I've already forgotten what your profile says, it's pretty bland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rubytuesday hits the nail on the head, it's extremely difficult to find single bi females who want to play with couples. Every FFM I have ever had came about from meeting people in real life rather than online.

That said, I've already forgotten what your profile says, it's pretty bland"

Yup. I looked and can't remember either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All as above is advice I'd give. You have pics now which is great.

But, from our personal experience, it is very difficult for single females to meet couples on here as she has to be attracted to both parties, and be safe in the knowledge she will be happy and safe in your company and within your relationship dynamics.

You don't say on your profile whether you are offering just fem on fem play, with the male watching, or full threesome, that is something a have found very important for ladies to know, as many do not wish to be seen to be a 'performing seal'.

We have found clubs are the best way to meet ladies, on the basis that she can meet both of us in a social environment with zero pressure on anyone's part, and then if all are happy and communicate well meet up at a future date for fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would assume that the 1994 in your profile name refers to your year of birth.

I can't see why you're having problems, you'd do well in clubs I bet.

Good luck."

Unfortunately the 1994 is the year we met and not our birth year. Being ten years younger would be a welcomed advantage though, I'm sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All as above is advice I'd give. You have pics now which is great.

But, from our personal experience, it is very difficult for single females to meet couples on here as she has to be attracted to both parties, and be safe in the knowledge she will be happy and safe in your company and within your relationship dynamics.

You don't say on your profile whether you are offering just fem on fem play, with the male watching, or full threesome, that is something a have found very important for ladies to know, as many do not wish to be seen to be a 'performing seal'.

We have found clubs are the best way to meet ladies, on the basis that she can meet both of us in a social environment with zero pressure on anyone's part, and then if all are happy and communicate well meet up at a future date for fun. "

We had all that on our profile at first and someone said that it was better not to give all info in profile so questions can be asked. I guess everyone finds different information in profiles appealing. I will put it back in see how it goes. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rubytuesday hits the nail on the head, it's extremely difficult to find single bi females who want to play with couples. Every FFM I have ever had came about from meeting people in real life rather than online.

That said, I've already forgotten what your profile says, it's pretty bland"

Any suggestions on what to change or add to help improve it?

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