FabSwingers.com forum: Is my profile off putting??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wanted some thought in regard to my profile,I seem to be having the same problem a lot of guys on here are having,which is that I don't get a lot of responses back from people,I appreciate some people may get a lot of messages but some response would be good lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wanted some thought in regard to my profile,I seem to be having the same problem a lot of guys on here are having,which is that I don't get a lot of responses back from people,I appreciate some people may get a lot of messages but some response would be good lol."

It is hard to read. The punctuation is awful. Use sentences.

It is one huge block of text. Use paragraphs.

The "as long as you are not up your arse" bit is unfriendly.

It is all about your wants. What about their wants?

For goodness sake, two pictures? Of your cock? People are more interested in the body and, above all, the personality attached to your cock.

There are some ladies on here who like a hairy cock but most of those would at least like to see some evidence of trimming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is awful ....if I was you I'd trash it and just write a few lines about what interests you and the sort of women you want to attract... And lose the cock pics as well.... Contrary to popular belief this is a swingers site not a sex site so vary the pics as well as the profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback and response,I did used to have a lot less on there and tried to keep it short and sweet,but then a woman I was speaking to mentioned my profile didn't have enough on there lol,can't win sometimes but I am grateful for the comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's don't matter what you put on a profile it's a closed net here newbies not wanted..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get better, more artistic photos. Ditch the cock pic.

Change your username.

Usernames with numbers at the end put me off because I think they lack imagination. Like there are 87 other tallguys on here.

You need full stops and lines between your sentences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's don't matter what you put on a profile it's a closed net here newbies not wanted.."

Why the pessimism? You are doing alright.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You've had better look than me mate fair play to you.Looks like you've been having a good time mate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback everyone.I've changed my profile slightly,isit any better?i know I've still only got a couple of pics on there I need to take some more,not sure they will be very artistic though as I'm just your standard guy really I've not exactly got the bod of a god lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's don't matter what you put on a profile it's a closed net here newbies not wanted.."

says who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's don't matter what you put on a profile it's a closed net here newbies not wanted..

Why the pessimism? You are doing alright."

he obviously doesn't like competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still needs more, saying you want fun is pointless on here, put some fantasies your turn ons and your turn offs things you like to do with a woman. You have to make your profile stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the feedback everyone.I've changed my profile slightly,isit any better?i know I've still only got a couple of pics on there I need to take some more,not sure they will be very artistic though as I'm just your standard guy really I've not exactly got the bod of a god lol"

its a lot better than it was ...

but try saying you don't like text speak rather than dissing poor grammar

and lose the cock pic!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm tall, genuine, down to earth."

How does that help you? Your height is in your summary. If you weren't genuine, what would you be? Do you know many people who are not down to earth?

There is not much more in your profile. It is not going to excite anyone.

Please learn how to use punctuation. There is a space after a comma.

You need to sit down, think about how to project your personality and how to put across what you can bring to the table and then write a profile.

At the moment, I suspect that you are just trying to write a few sentences for the sake of filling up some space.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's don't matter what you put on a profile it's a closed net here newbies not wanted..

Why the pessimism? You are doing alright."

It's also nonsense......we were all new once!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well many people include their size in their introduction on here, I didn't realise it was that much of an issue??

And if I wasn't genuine, that would make me a time waster in my opinion. I'm trying not to make my profile too long as I don't want to ramble, can't win on here sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well many people include their size in their introduction on here, I didn't realise it was that much of an issue??

And if I wasn't genuine, that would make me a time waster in my opinion. I'm trying not to make my profile too long as I don't want to ramble, can't win on here sometimes lol"

Yes - and many people have crap profiles.

What are you trying to say in your profile? What are you trying to project?

Read it. Ask yourself whether it will attract people. What do you think? Does it project your personality or is it just a collection of bland phrases?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's don't matter what you put on a profile it's a closed net here newbies not wanted..

Why the pessimism? You are doing alright.

he obviously doesn't like competition

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thanks but try living in this little narrow minded island..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just trying to meet people that's what I'm trying to project,my personality is more understood in person rather than me sat trying to write about myself,I feel like it comes across big headed trying to big myself up to everybody.

I've seen a hell of a lot of profiles on here worse than my own yet they somehow meet people lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

he obviously doesn't like competition

thanks but try living in this little narrow minded island.."

Very true mate,the amount on here after six packs and side partings only is unreal lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just trying to meet people that's what I'm trying to project,my personality is more understood in person rather than me sat trying to write about myself,I feel like it comes across big headed trying to big myself up to everybody.

I've seen a hell of a lot of profiles on here worse than my own yet they somehow meet people lol.

Then why on earth waste people's time by asking for a critique of your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he obviously doesn't like competition

thanks but try living in this little narrow minded island..

Very true mate,the amount on here after six packs and side partings only is unreal lol."
welli can't speak about the UK, but women are living in dreamland in Ireland

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Would you fuck an 18 yr old and a 99 yr old great grandmother? If not change the age preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he obviously doesn't like competition

thanks but try living in this little narrow minded island..

Very true mate,the amount on here after six packs and side partings only is unreal lol."

I'm very sure comments like that wont help your cause on here...

if you don't think you stand out enough online, get yourself along to a social or a swingers club, that way you can dazzle them with your scintillating personality in person

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well comments like that are just me making an honest comment on what I've seen on this site.

And I don't think I'm wasting people's time asking for their opinions at all as I'm just trying to improve my chances of actually being given a chance to speak to someone in person,I don't see the harm in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well comments like that are just me making an honest comment on what I've seen on this site.

You asked. I gave advice.

My adviice is open to debate and interpretation. I am not a guru.

I just wondered why you were against it.

A good profile is only ever a starting point. A bad one is too often an ending point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"And if I wasn't genuine, that would make me a time waster in my opinion"

On that note, the use of the word genuine is a bit of a turn off for me. Everyone is a real person and I've never yet seen a profile that says I'm a non genuine time waster. Seems like pointless filler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's don't matter what you put on a profile it's a closed net here newbies not wanted..

Why the pessimism? You are doing alright."

Well said! Trat isn't totally true! I meet with newbies and I am newbie too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On that note, the use of the word genuine is a bit of a turn off for me. Everyone is a real person and I've never yet seen a profile that says I'm a non genuine time waster. Seems like pointless filler"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The use of the word genuine was just me trying to reassure people I'm not some pic collector or weirdo like a lot of people seem to think us single guys are on here. Just a normal guy trying to have some fun which seems hard to come by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The use of the word genuine was just me trying to reassure people I'm not some pic collector or weirdo like a lot of people seem to think us single guys are on here. Just a normal guy trying to have some fun which seems hard to come by "

But if you WERE "a pic collector or weirdo" you wouldn't exactly put that on your profile eh? So it's pretty redundant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well comments like that are just me making an honest comment on what I've seen on this site.

Well, you were either wasting people's time, or have decided that their advice was not worth taking.

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