FabSwingers.com forum: Sub female wanted

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi ladies im John a not bad looking easygoing guy who is interested in a dom/sub relationship,Obvioulsy it goes without saying that boundaries have to be set and would depend on what they are comfortable with,if anyone fancies a chat get in touch and on me thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you think you'd make a good domme?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well have to confess ive not had that much experience but was seeing someone from here when I was on fab previously for several months and it was both our first time,but at the end of the day unless you click with one another and feel comfortable you will never know how it would work out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes you think you'd make a good domme? "
I thought "domme" was the feminine version. Or is op a very bossy tv? Confused again...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol nope your correct domme is the female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My genuine advice to you if your seeking such a thing:

Most sub women want a dom who knows what they are doing, I.e. has experience, knows about limits, boundaries properly before they would even consider it.

Doms and subs are always learning, it never stops. Meeting others in the sub/Dom and BDSM community is a great way to learn, regular munches (social gstherings) are held around the country and are great for beginners and experienced alike. And are very welcoming to newbies.

Munches are also a good way to meet potential new subs, because of the likemindedness of everyone there.

If you are trying to find that on here your profile has to reflect this, what you offer a sub as a dom etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice!! Will check them out,as I said have some experience with a lady I was seeing for a few months but as you said there are always things to be learnt and explored and boundaries have to be agreed and respected between both parties,will also tweak profile to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol nope your correct domme is the female "

My typo sorry

A good D/S relationship is based on trust and a meeting of minds. Research as much as you can and don't approach every woman on here thinking they will be your sub, some hate it so tread carefully and maybe visit a few clubs that specialise in that area. Remember communication is key in this sort of relationship and it's not all about being collared lol

Good luck

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