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New to this and it's like impossible to get a meet or even convo:(

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

New to this and It's like no one wants to talk or meet why!!!

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Some men been who have been here alot longer than you have think the same too.

Chin up matey something may come up

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Same problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you haven't asked for profile advice so I can't give any xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Shit aint it

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Am in similar boat geezers but there is more to life than fab and its doesnt phase me if meets are dry on here for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have just pm you xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have just pm you xx"
it's not arrived yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not you mate

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"not you mate"
what's indiansummer got that I haven't then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women generally look at the profile before reading the message and make a judgement whether to reply based on it. That's all I will say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hahaha I didn't message either of you, I messaged little miss haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"not you mate what's indiansummer got that I haven't then? "

A red tie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New to this and It's like no one wants to talk or meet why!!! "

Hello tealeaves, just had a quick peek at ya profile, it seems ok apart from you don't accommodate OR travel, its normally one or the other. Just saying. Good luck happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

someone else has just told me this thankyou I didn't realise that I had it like that I can accommodate and have now changed it.

thanks again x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"not you mate what's indiansummer got that I haven't then?

A red tie "

I have red wine

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"not you mate what's indiansummer got that I haven't then?

A red tie

I have red wine "

Swaps

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Same problem "

Bad boy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same problem, any profile advice for me? Thanks!

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Here's what I'd go with....

But first lose the pseudo James Bond, David Nivenesque wine glass and a wink photo...

Write a profile now, right now, just with what you are and what you're about, straight out of your head.

Don't compromise on this, it may put some women off, but so what... You're the prize!

Same when chatting, if theres no click online, don't sweat it... It's irrelevant, walk your own path.

For instance, I get some interest in here and a huge amount of interest in a well known app, but I don't tell them what they want to hear, just to "get a fuck!".

I tell them what they don't want to hear, what hurts their ears, to see if they can handle the journey.

But some times I just want to play and not get too dark too... But that's my perogative I'm capricious...

Next... With your new "devil may care" attitude, you can move on to tactics...

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

By some good pants...

Don't capture a toilet in the background...

And the room should be tidy...

Take 20 pics, all from different angles, using the light to highlight your best features.

Then post 5 on a Thursday, about lunch time.

Post another 5 between 4 and 6.

Then do the same Friday, but delete the least fabbed pics from the day before.

You never want a huge amount of similar pics in public...

This.... If you have the goods will generate interest.

They will come to you and no more chasing.

I used to do this about two years ago, but then I had to work on a course and a very difficult project, so no time to work out.

Now though I'm almost back in peak condition, so in two months I will do the same.

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