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By *kip123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry

ime thinking of having fun evenings at my place for 50+ only. it seems that 99% of the people on this site think that if you are over 50 you must be dead or can,t get it up. but we old buggers know different, anybody interested.

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

We get tons of messages from 20 something guys asking for a meet.

The only problem is they say things like,

"I want to try an OLDER woman"

"Matures turn me on"

It's like they are saying Your an old bag

and I want to see what it's like with a geriatric!..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get tons of messages from 20 something guys asking for a meet.

The only problem is they say things like,

"I want to try an OLDER woman"

"Matures turn me on"

It's like they are saying Your an old bag

and I want to see what it's like with a geriatric!..lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ime thinking of having fun evenings at my place for 50+ only. it seems that 99% of the people on this site think that if you are over 50 you must be dead or can,t get it up. but we old buggers know different, anybody interested."

That's not been my experience. I'm constantly pestered by 20 and 30 somethings - even though my profile states over 45 only.

What I find is the over 45s are cutting years off their ages which is a shame, as they get meets under false pretences, people turn up disappointed and come on the forums posting threads about people misrepresenting themselves.

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i too get messages from younger guys and am not interested, am over 50 but still life in me yet for the right guy in age group am looking for

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

Over 50's are the hottest!

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By *hi-John69Man
over a year ago

chichester

hey I'm old and still going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recently been lucky enough to have 3 off the best sexual experiences of my life, all with a 50 year old man. Before I would have instantly refused anyone of that age, now I'm actively seeking them. However it does have to be a dark skinned man as otherwise they remind me off my dad. So can I join in your party??

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

I'm 50 later this year, am I still invited??????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mans over 50 but I'm only 36 so does that mean I'd be excluded from this party!!! Hey I support the over 50s big time! What my man can't do ain't worth knowing about. Including in the bedroom of course!

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By *kip123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry

TO ALL THE LADIES OVER FIFTY. i can very well ungerstand that you would get lots of attention from the young men. on average you have the bodies and the sex appeal of a true woman, not that of some young poser "look at me type". and ime not saying all youg ladies are like this before anybodt rips my head off. but you know what i mean. as for we older chaps its a bit different. we agr differnt to women. for a start some chaps lose their hair or develope a bit of a paunch. this seems to suggest to people that we older chaps are unfit, out of condition and over the hill. from reading some of the messages ive recieved it also reminds them of their dad. all very understandable realy i suppose. lets all be honest about being older though and not try to kid ourselves. i, and i believe the majority of men in my age group are not your rampant "i can Shag for hours non-stop" greek gods. we are normal everyday men who, yes, like to think we are great but we know we are not. i will be honest and say, when ive made love to a lady i do try my hardest to last as long as i can and do my best to please the woman but i cant gaurentee thats what will happen, no guy can, no matter how old or young he may be. also ime not one of these men who are ready to start again after 5 mins. personaly ive never met one of these chaps. ime your average guy who after making love does have a rest, using this time to chat and have a laugh and a joke. i think my honest and personal veiws are that of the majority of men in my age group and for that matter women as well. i may be totaly wrong on this. all i do know is that the majority of men of my age group treat a lady with consideration and respect. it dosnt matter if the woman is in her twenties or ninties, wether she comes from a very poor background or if shes a princess, a plain looking girl or a model, she is still a lady and is treated as such. not many men reply to forums like this because i suppose its not a man thing to do. but come on lads be honest a lot of you will see something of yourselves in what i have said. say wether ime right, or ime living in cockoo land. oops, sorry ladies you can have your say also. you are the ones who see us old gits for what we realy are so give me yours views. ken x

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By *kip123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry

i made a right cock up in adding another message to my previons one. iys some where on this list of replys. its my age. just one thing to say to all the people who have asked about if they are excluded because they are not over 50 or their partner is not 50. NO this does not exclude you at all. my mistake by insinuating this. the ides realy was for people who are not age racist and enjoy the company of the older person, wether it be a lady or a gent and, who if they were in a party would not ignore the older generation because there was some young stud or rampant young lady in her 20s. i must stop using phrases like "older" mature" etc. i make us sound like geriatrics on zimmer frames who are more than likley to keel over and pop our clogs at the first sight of a tit or fanny

ken x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 50? Go steady kids, we are over 70 and still going strong. Get get more than enough messages from real youngstersin their 20s and 30s, have to hide our profile from time to time. Do we get a prize for being the eldest on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive a 60 yr old that rocks my boat every time but on the other hand, most of the 50's guys ive been with, just couldnt cope so im slightly reluctant to meet some where they look their age

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By *kip123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry

oh, so what your saying is, "hes not very nice looking or hes not worn well, he must be crap in bed" i do know what you mean though. there has to be an atraction for a meet to go well. but lets be fair, i ?(even at my age) have met ladies half my age and, as good looking and attractve that they have been, they where completly unimagenative in the bedroom and just la y there. they had no idea what intamcy was about. ime not saying that all youger ladies are like that, its just an example that you cannot judge a book by its cover. i dare say that the men over 50 that you met where the ones who put a load of b+$"£cks on their profile saying they where studs and alnight ravers. these are the ones who dont give a shit about the womans feeling. they have had their fun, shoot their load and their happy. thats all that matters to them. these type of men who are not honest and upfront are as bad as the pic collectors or the ones that lie about their status. these types ruin it for the genuine ones. some one on this site(a lady)says in her profile thar she is sick of these timewasters and nobheads and she was thinking of nameing and shaming them. thats a very good idea i think. sorry to rant on a bit. i will take a prozac pill and calm down now. oops here comes the night nurse, to bed me down for the night and give me a cup of horlicks. busy day tomorrow, ive got bowls first thing and the allotment annual general meeting at 2.30. how will i fit a bonk in i dont know.

ken

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"We get tons of messages from 20 something guys asking for a meet.

The only problem is they say things like,

"I want to try an OLDER woman"

"Matures turn me on"

It's like they are saying Your an old bag

and I want to see what it's like with a geriatric!..lol"
no good asking if you would help with my mrs robinson fantasy then lol x

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Age is just a collection of numbers after your name...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i made a right cock up in adding another message to my previons one. iys some where on this list of replys. its my age. just one thing to say to all the people who have asked about if they are excluded because they are not over 50 or their partner is not 50. NO this does not exclude you at all. my mistake by insinuating this. the ides realy was for people who are not age racist and enjoy the company of the older person, wether it be a lady or a gent and, who if they were in a party would not ignore the older generation because there was some young stud or rampant young lady in her 20s. i must stop using phrases like "older" mature" etc. i make us sound like geriatrics on zimmer frames who are more than likley to keel over and pop our clogs at the first sight of a tit or fanny

ken x"

It might help if you stopped using derogatory remarks about the under fifties too. It makes you sound very ageist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like i said ive met a couple of 50+ gentleman, no stamina at all so puts me off meeting any more and those ive met since then, i wont meet again because im afraid of getting into bed only to find that there is no difference. Yes mutual attraction has to come into it but ive not been interested.

To be fair though not all 40's age group are all that either, so it would be right that there are guys in any age (as there are women) that really dont cut it in bed

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By *kip123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry

GREY KITTEN, I bow to your superior knowlage, after looking at that great long list of verifications on your profile you obviously know what you are talking about. You have proven the point that experience prevails. i will bow out gracefully and except the fact that i live in days gone by and my values and honesty are just a load of crap to the majority of people. Thank you anyway for your comments and views, thays what these forums are all about. hope you have fun for many years to come, but remember, old age comes to us all and things change. look after yourself and take care.

ken x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sad to say get loads mails from under 35 hence why i have 35 to 50 0n profile ....have been with couple men my ex was 53 but was disapointed in them when in bed room so hence why i have age limits now ...but saying that some in there 40 r crap in bed 2 .

but belive more mature man is more respectfull dnt use u like a piece meet either .

some time find the under 35 rude in there mail where the older tend to be more polite messaging you .

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

We've had this older thing come up before.

Its inevitable postings by some younger people are going to wind up the older ones. It should also work the other way around, when an older member only wants a young virile stud. Tho' I've yet to come across an over fifty single male demanding a nubile wench.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"GREY KITTEN, I bow to your superior knowlage, after looking at that great long list of verifications on your profile you obviously know what you are talking about. You have proven the point that experience prevails. i will bow out gracefully and except the fact that i live in days gone by and my values and honesty are just a load of crap to the majority of people. Thank you anyway for your comments and views, thays what these forums are all about. hope you have fun for many years to come, but remember, old age comes to us all and things change. look after yourself and take care.

ken x "

Remember though Ken you've 10 yrs on me, so more experience than i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The words respect,understanding,honesty.and above all experiance all come to mind when it comes to more older people.I wish more people would consider this when being contacted by such a person.Perhaps"younger" people will find this as they get older!As they say only time will tell.

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By *kip123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry

first of all, let me thank all the people that have contributed to this discusion. some interesting points of veiw have been expressed. i for one have learnt that, in some ways i am a minority, in others i am not. it apears that more people in my age group are in agreement with me. but there are also people that are in the same age group that, to a certain extent dis-agree with me. to all the ones that are having lots of fun, good luck to you and long may it reign. i personaly have my own views on adult sexuality. which some of you share and some dont. (this bit for the ladies only) as one of the correspondents said in replying to this forum, and i qoute " treated like meat". how the hell a lady can stand to be treated like this i will never know. to all the ladies out ther who are, and like being treated like this, all i personaly can say is, grow up, have some self repect, and stop being used. ok when fun happens, some ladies like to be so called used, but when the fun ends keep your respect and demand it.

dont get me wrong, i am not spouting off like this because i am a sad old man who dosnt get his end away and has a grudge, i was bought up on respect and that teaching has always stood by me. and i dont give a shit if ime classed as a boring old fart, without respect for other people, you are just a self centred bigot. at the start of this discussion i said that i was thinking of having the occasional party at my place for over 50s, this would be ageist (is that how you spell it) in fact, if i did have social meets at my place then any age group would be welcome as long as they accepted the fact they must take other people present for what they are and their morals and beliefs. no of this bollocks of "oh thet or he or she is too old, ime not socialising. thats enough from me i think just now. ime getting on my high horse again. (thats what we old buggers do)

let me know you comments, no matter how insulting they may be, we all learn somrthing as we travel through life and its good to have other peopls opinions about things

ken x

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By *kip123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry

grey kitten, you quite rightly say that i have ten years on you so i must be more experienced, what a load of crap young lady, i could have been a monk for 40years, the pope is god knows howmany years older than me but i wouldnt say he has more experience would you. the poor sod has never had his leg over, (sorry to all the catholics reding this) Grey Kitten, one day we must put aside our differnces and meet up for a chat, i bet we could liven up a graveyard when we started talking. seriously though, its nice to resd your comments(even if they do wind me up you bastard) and its people like you that help the world go round and bring people closer together.

ken xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently been lucky enough to have 3 off the best sexual experiences of my life, all with a 50 year old man. Before I would have instantly refused anyone of that age, now I'm actively seeking them. However it does have to be a dark skinned man as otherwise they remind me off my dad. So can I join in your party?? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"grey kitten, you quite rightly say that i have ten years on you so i must be more experienced, what a load of crap young lady, i could have been a monk for 40years, the pope is god knows howmany years older than me but i wouldnt say he has more experience would you. the poor sod has never had his leg over, (sorry to all the catholics reding this) Grey Kitten, one day we must put aside our differnces and meet up for a chat, i bet we could liven up a graveyard when we started talking. seriously though, its nice to resd your comments(even if they do wind me up you bastard) and its people like you that help the world go round and bring people closer together.

ken xx"

Actually Ken, you are right there as ive only been sexually enjoying myself in the last year, want to learn and explore more, dont get me wrong, ive had some good sex, but most really bad, from my exes point of view, as long as he was okay my enjoyment was of no consequence

And ive a 60 yr old that i see regularly that knocks socks off some of the youngster, and i say some because realistically there are crap lovers in all ages

Am on an abstitence from coffee but a glass of lemonade would be very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have lots of fun..i am not past it yet lol

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By *kip123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry

SAUCY X, ime not at all surprised you have your fair share of fun. Ive just looked at your profile photos. Christ, you must have guys crawling out of the woodwork to chat and meet you. (note to all the guys. Do not look at this ladies photos if you are on any heart medication or if you are ask your doc to increase the dose because this lady will put your blood pressure up)

Go for it sexy x and enjoy yourself but take care. I am now going to sit under the stairs in a dark room and sulk cos ime out of your age range.

ken x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL thanks for compliments x

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