FabSwingers.com forum: Is my profile up to standard?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Please can i have an opinion on my profile please and some advice...cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's to the usual standard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

cheers...anyway i can improve it in anyway ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cheers...anyway i can improve it in anyway ?"

Make em laff and the clothes fall off. Get better photos. Be a bisexual woman. Job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cheers...anyway i can improve it in anyway ?"

You say your best feature are your eyes and smile....show them off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why be mortified for people to know your on here? I tell everybody, you can't beat word of mouth to give you a good rep and get you load of meets lol!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No chance haha...there are thousands were i work and the job i do i'm the only one who does it so it's too risky and i'm too shy like that..cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once we get shatting i'd be happy to send pics...

most people wont chat without seeing pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"once we get shatting i'd be happy to send pics...

most people wont chat without seeing pics."

Shatting

eeewwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"once we get chatting i'd be happy to send pics...

most people wont chat without seeing pics.

Shatting

eeewwww"

sorry didn't even know i'd put that. haha. fixed it. OP did not have that on his profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No chance haha...there are thousands were i work and the job i do i'm the only one who does it so it's too risky and i'm too shy like that..cheers"

Are you the goalkeeper for Blackburn rovers?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

no im too short haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, id recommended just be yourself, write in your profile what comes to mind, interests and preferences etc. If your going to show pics, show what your comfortable with and happy for others to see.

To me it would make little sense trying to tweak a profile in order to attain a higher number of meetings with others, for the meetings to go wrong because you differ from whats on your profile.

Be honest and open, and your more likely to meet someone mutually compatible.

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By *ir jizalotMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Your profile looks better than mine pal but I don't think I would keep the " Basically am a nice guy" just a tad bundy.

good luck!!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"cheers...anyway i can improve it in anyway ?"

Drop the reference to slob, why insult many potential meets

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By *rince Charming 69Man
over a year ago

Loughborough

Capital letters........

And you have "I trouble"

I this I that and I the other!

What's in it for them, why should they want to meet with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you consider starting Swinging in clubs? (You live in Blackpool!!!)

Or is it imperative that it HAS to be based on online contacing and a profile's content?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please can i have an opinion on my profile please and some advice...cheers"

It is not terribly exciting. As for privacy, you are more likely to be recognized from your half face picture than you are from a torso picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to what standard?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wish i never asked now haha...not many positive replies..will tweak it a little but not going to write too much incase i put anyone else off...i don't think there is much more i can write. ..i prefer to be asked questions about myself rather than put my life story up there haha...

I don't think i could ever visit a club sounds exciting but sounds nerve wrecking as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you expect from fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Quite harsh ain't it ...good job i can handle it...i seem to come across more snobby/negative people than nice but I'm sure I'll get used to it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

And there was me thinking it was a celebrity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite harsh ain't it ...good job i can handle it...i seem to come across more snobby/negative people than nice but I'm sure I'll get used to it"

No lol not what did you expect from fab forum! Lol! What do you expect from fabswingers! Look at your whole profile and ask yourself "would i want to meet me?". What have you got that 10000 others haven't got?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Hi Josh,

Large numbers of us keep our private lives away from Fab. There's no need to take up half your profile explaining. And if it's so secret why tell us the area you cover and that you live in a van?

This is a swinging site so tell us what you can bring to the party as it were. Tell us what makes you tick in a swinging sense, not in your 'real' life. Which is meant to be private.

Also do a forum search for 'profile advice' and you will find tons of threads on this very topic with genuine, good advice. Plus some friendly micky taking

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Look at your whole profile and ask yourself "would i want to meet me?". What have you got that 10000 others haven't got?"

I want to meet you and your sexy nipple pic

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

There are countless threads offering generic profile advice, they all offer similar advice , I suggest reading those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look at your whole profile and ask yourself "would i want to meet me?". What have you got that 10000 others haven't got?

I want to meet you and your sexy nipple pic

As soon as you live 8 miles away from me, you can!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi Josh,

Large numbers of us keep our private lives away from Fab. There's no need to take up half your profile explaining. And if it's so secret why tell us the area you cover and that you live in a van?

This is a swinging site so tell us what you can bring to the party as it were. Tell us what makes you tick in a swinging sense, not in your 'real' life. Which is meant to be private.

Also do a forum search for 'profile advice' and you will find tons of threads on this very topic with genuine, good advice. Plus some friendly micky taking

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Look at your whole profile and ask yourself "would i want to meet me?". What have you got that 10000 others haven't got?

I want to meet you and your sexy nipple pic

As soon as you live 8 miles away from me, you can!

You're on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi Josh,

Large numbers of us keep our private lives away from Fab. There's no need to take up half your profile explaining. And if it's so secret why tell us the area you cover and that you live in a van?

This is a swinging site so tell us what you can bring to the party as it were. Tell us what makes you tick in a swinging sense, not in your 'real' life. Which is meant to be private.

Also do a forum search for 'profile advice' and you will find tons of threads on this very topic with genuine, good advice. Plus some friendly micky taking

I seem messages were people have said put more about yourself and your interests. ..yet your saying don't put that haha...I'm confused

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And there was me thinking it was a celebrity

I wish!!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I seem messages were people have said put more about yourself and your interests. ..yet your saying don't put that haha...I'm confused "

Yes, but in swinging terms e.g. I like to take my time with a woman's body, I love having sex in the park etc. etc. rather than I'm a stamp collector or whatever

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I seem messages were people have said put more about yourself and your interests. ..yet your saying don't put that haha...I'm confused

Yes, but in swinging terms e.g. I like to take my time with a woman's body, I love having sex in the park etc. etc. rather than I'm a stamp collector or whatever

I do say in my profile what i want to do to women and what i prefer....also a stamp collector no chance i aint a nerd...footy boxing and the gym my type of hobbies ??

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I seem messages were people have said put more about yourself and your interests. ..yet your saying don't put that haha...I'm confused "

This is a sex site not a dating site.

Ladies want to know what your body looks like and what your personality is like.

What you do for a living is irrelevant, what you are looking for sexually is important and what you can offer.

Be positive rather than negative.

Hope that helps.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I seem messages were people have said put more about yourself and your interests. ..yet your saying don't put that haha...I'm confused

This is a sex site not a dating site.

Ladies want to know what your body looks like and what your personality is like.

What you do for a living is irrelevant, what you are looking for sexually is important and what you can offer.

Be positive rather than negative.

Hope that helps.

Nita"

I do say in my profile what my body is like..i basically dont have a six pack or a massive gut just a bit of extra timber haha..i also talk about my personality. ..does it come across negative?

Thanks

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I seem messages were people have said put more about yourself and your interests. ..yet your saying don't put that haha...I'm confused

This is a sex site not a dating site.

Ladies want to know what your body looks like and what your personality is like.

What you do for a living is irrelevant, what you are looking for sexually is important and what you can offer.

Be positive rather than negative.

Hope that helps.

Nita

I do say in my profile what my body is like..i basically dont have a six pack or a massive gut just a bit of extra timber haha..i also talk about my personality. ..does it come across negative?

Thanks "

It's not negative, it was jus a pointer.

The problem is that body types are very subjective. One persons average is another's slim or overweight. In my opinion a visible full body shot, not necessarily naked, is essential.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I seem messages were people have said put more about yourself and your interests. ..yet your saying don't put that haha...I'm confused

This is a sex site not a dating site.

Ladies want to know what your body looks like and what your personality is like.

What you do for a living is irrelevant, what you are looking for sexually is important and what you can offer.

Be positive rather than negative.

Hope that helps.

Nita

I do say in my profile what my body is like..i basically dont have a six pack or a massive gut just a bit of extra timber haha..i also talk about my personality. ..does it come across negative?

Thanks

It's not negative, it was jus a pointer.

The problem is that body types are very subjective. One persons average is another's slim or overweight. In my opinion a visible full body shot, not necessarily naked, is essential."

I'll bear that in mind thanks...i've just altered my profile i don't know if it's better or not haha

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It's definitely better.

However, without photos, given the number of single guys, you may never get to the chatting stage... Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id still leave out the bit about being 'devastated'...you dont need to say anything about a face pic at all, just keep it private if you want to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's definitely better.

However, without photos, given the number of single guys, you may never get to the chatting stage... Sorry

I've got photos just not on public as explained in my profile ...but thanks for the feedback...i do think at the end of the day it comes down to what your body looks like...if you have 5 profiles you like all equally but you haven't seen a pic from any of them then they all send a pic they will always go with the 1 with the 6 pack etc.......just my take

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"id still leave out the bit about being 'devastated'...you dont need to say anything about a face pic at all, just keep it private if you want to."

Thanks..will do

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No public photos = no messages = no meets = no sex = a lonely sad wank

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"It's definitely better.

However, without photos, given the number of single guys, you may never get to the chatting stage... Sorry

Not all ladies like a 6 pack, and others might find super fit guys intimidating.

Many prefer 'normal average guys with personality'.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"No public photos = no messages = no meets = no sex = a lonely sad wank

You said it better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No public photos = no messages = no meets = no sex = a lonely sad wank

Oh well ..i still have the chance to get some action on a night out ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's definitely better.

However, without photos, given the number of single guys, you may never get to the chatting stage... Sorry

Not all ladies like a 6 pack, and others might find super fit guys intimidating.

Many prefer 'normal average guys with personality'."

I suppose

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"No public photos = no messages = no meets = no sex = a lonely sad wank

Oh well ..i still have the chance to get some action on a night out ??"

Of course. Don't rely on fab. Use fab as an added extra to your life, not the main dish.

Can you guess who I am from my avatar photo? Nope.....so if I can do it, so can you. Fab is a visual medium so get some visuals up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've just put a pic on my profile....is that an ok pic?

Obviously i can put more on at some point

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No public photos = no messages = no meets = no sex = a lonely sad wank

Oh well ..i still have the chance to get some action on a night out ??

Of course. Don't rely on fab. Use fab as an added extra to your life, not the main dish.

Can you guess who I am from my avatar photo? Nope.....so if I can do it, so can you. Fab is a visual medium so get some visuals up. "

Yeah you got a point. ..your creative from your photos but i didnt particularly enjoy looking at male photos lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've just put a pic on my profile....is that an ok pic?

Obviously i can put more on at some point"

Do you want the diplomatic answer or the honest answer, that could make you cry?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"No public photos = no messages = no meets = no sex = a lonely sad wank

Oh well ..i still have the chance to get some action on a night out ??

Of course. Don't rely on fab. Use fab as an added extra to your life, not the main dish.

Can you guess who I am from my avatar photo? Nope.....so if I can do it, so can you. Fab is a visual medium so get some visuals up.

Yeah you got a point. ..your creative from your photos but i didnt particularly enjoy looking at male photos lol"

You're not my target audience. Ladies are. The pics work for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've just put a pic on my profile....is that an ok pic?

Obviously i can put more on at some point

Do you want the diplomatic answer or the honest answer, that could make you cry? "

Whatever...i don't do crying but fire away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're wrong about the 5 profiles/6 pack thing.....

but i would rethink your new pic...not vrey helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a look, that pic does give an idea of what you look like so will do. like there is just enough there for us to tell if we were attracted to you or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you're wrong about the 5 profiles/6 pack thing.....

but i would rethink your new pic...not vrey helpful."

Reason for rethinking it?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i had a look, that pic does give an idea of what you look like so will do. like there is just enough there for us to tell if we were attracted to you or not."

So what is your opinion?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you're wrong about the 5 profiles/6 pack thing.....

but i would rethink your new pic...not vrey helpful.

Reason for rethinking it?

Thanks"

can't see anything..its very dark

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you're wrong about the 5 profiles/6 pack thing.....

but i would rethink your new pic...not vrey helpful.

Reason for rethinking it?

Thanks

can't see anything..its very dark"

Oh right...looked ok when i cropped in that...must of been shrunk or something

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've just re-done that photo but blown it up...if that is any better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks the same,and i dont think blowing it up will change the fact its pitch black with very little visible.the half face pic you already have is better..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"looks the same,and i dont think blowing it up will change the fact its pitch black with very little visible.the half face pic you already have is better.."

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i had a look, that pic does give an idea of what you look like so will do. like there is just enough there for us to tell if we were attracted to you or not.

So what is your opinion?

Thanks"

i'm not meeting but if i was i would be able to tell by that picture if i was interested or not.

and i just had to check out the new picture lol and it would give me an idea of if i was interested or not. from that pic i would talk to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"looks the same,and i dont think blowing it up will change the fact its pitch black with very little visible.the half face pic you already have is better..

Thanks "

the half face pic would not work for me, haha.

i can't tell from a chin and beard if i'd like someone or not. partial body to get an idea of his size/shape and half blurred face i could tell.

idk if our advice is helping.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"looks the same,and i dont think blowing it up will change the fact its pitch black with very little visible.the half face pic you already have is better..

Thanks

the half face pic would not work for me, haha.

i can't tell from a chin and beard if i'd like someone or not. partial body to get an idea of his size/shape and half blurred face i could tell.

idk if our advice is helping.

So what do you think of my pic I've just put up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i had a look, that pic does give an idea of what you look like so will do. like there is just enough there for us to tell if we were attracted to you or not.

So what is your opinion?

Thanks

i'm not meeting but if i was i would be able to tell by that picture if i was interested or not.

and i just had to check out the new picture lol and it would give me an idea of if i was interested or not. from that pic i would talk to you."

Thanks feir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i had a look, that pic does give an idea of what you look like so will do. like there is just enough there for us to tell if we were attracted to you or not.

So what is your opinion?

Thanks

i'm not meeting but if i was i would be able to tell by that picture if i was interested or not.

and i just had to check out the new picture lol and it would give me an idea of if i was interested or not. from that pic i would talk to you.

Thanks feir"

no worries.

everybody likes different stuff. at least you've got 2 pics up that at least 2 people like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i had a look, that pic does give an idea of what you look like so will do. like there is just enough there for us to tell if we were attracted to you or not.

So what is your opinion?

Thanks

Wahey I'm getting somewhere x

i'm not meeting but if i was i would be able to tell by that picture if i was interested or not.

and i just had to check out the new picture lol and it would give me an idea of if i was interested or not. from that pic i would talk to you.

Thanks feir

no worries.

everybody likes different stuff. at least you've got 2 pics up that at least 2 people like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whahey indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha!!!

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