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Finding it hard to get replies to my messages??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi. I'm send out messages to people that are close to me that I'm interested in but getting no reply at all.

I think that my profile looks ok and the messages that I send aren't provocative or degrading at all.

I always read people's profiles and incorporate that I like what they like to show that I have read it.

I also attach a photo of my face and body in private messages as don't have one on my profile as it explains in my profile text.

Could anyone help shed some light on my situation as unless your verified no one seems to want to know, but if no one replies how can you get verified????

Mark

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

You're trying to please so many people with your profile op it makes you look desperate. Can't comment on your messages being sent but most will look at your profile before the message. You can't travel or accommodate so that's not going to help you op. Good luck though.,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest there's so many guys on here that do have face pictures I don't think you'll get far without them TBH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always read the profile before deciding whether to reply to a message. We would not respond to a message from the OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're trying to please so many people with your profile op it makes you look desperate. Can't comment on your messages being sent but most will look at your profile before the message. You can't travel or accommodate so that's not going to help you op. Good luck though.,"

Thanks for that. I have changed a few preference and I can travel so not sure why that wasn't ticket.

Thanks for your help.

Mark

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By *ark_SensualityMan
over a year ago

London


"You're trying to please so many people with your profile op it makes you look desperate. Can't comment on your messages being sent but most will look at your profile before the message. You can't travel or accommodate so that's not going to help you op. Good luck though.,"

This is True and you need to try and make your profile look a little more interesting,

and it's normal for it to take a while to get any meets on here as there are more single men than women or couples on here and they get Swamped with Messages!!!

Just be Patient and don't take it personally or get to upset about it OP!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

How can I do that? Make me more interesting the site.

And hoping not to sound think. But OP??

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By *ark_SensualityMan
over a year ago

London

Just try to show abit of your character and add more pics ,i Only had a few meets on here myself, been getting replies and chatting with people even made a few friends lol

Don't give up!!!

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By *ark_SensualityMan
over a year ago

London

OP= Orignal Poster

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does that mean I don't have a profile picture??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry mate, even with a few verifications you still don't get many replies!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your messages and hopefully will get a message or reply one day. Until then will have to keep doing it the old fashion way. Clubs and bars. Shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all your messages and hopefully will get a message or reply one day. Until then will have to keep doing it the old fashion way. Clubs and bars. Shame. "

Or you could listen to the advice proffered. Up to you.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all your messages and hopefully will get a message or reply one day. Until then will have to keep doing it the old fashion way. Clubs and bars. Shame. "
this my friend don't rely on this site never give up on the old fashioned way or even other sites even but we can't mention names shhh

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Op - you have one photo of your stomach/chest. A bigger selection helps others determine if they perceive possible physical attraction.

Add info on the geographical area you'll travel for meets. The sort of couples you're open to. What you offer sexually, your experience and other details that help others confirm you're right.

I think a guy shouldn't expect much progress for a year if he's not active in the wider swinging world.

Is it swinging or is any sex good for you? If the latter then explore and experiment.

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