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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I have been on here for a little while and have been polite etc in my approach where am I going wrong?

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Hi I have been on here for a little while and have been polite etc in my approach where am I going wrong?"

3 out of 4 of your pictures are cock shots

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do attach a face pic when messaging.do you think it's too many dick pics?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many will click your name and read your profile before they ever open the message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks wolf ryder do you think I need to change any bits of my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks wolf ryder do you think I need to change any bits of my profile? "

All of it to be blunt.

If you looked at your pictures from a womans perspective do you think they'd turn you on?

Go for the more clasic style shots and poses youd see in any advert/magazine from a male model there's a reason they use those poses.

The "LEGAL RAMIFICATIONS" bit, are you seriously going to hire a lawyer and very publically sue somone for using a dodgy picture of your cock?

If not ditch it it"s meaningless.

The text is badly written and doesnt say much, try to talk about yourself and use punctuation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks some interesting points, I am going to do some editing and see what I can do to improve it now,,,much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I also wonder if I come across boring when I message them.I just don't know what to write because all ladies are different.I see ladies saying hi how are you is boring but don't know what they expect men to say lol

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

Yay no cock pics

Read their profile before messaging. Make sure you're what they're looking for for a start.

With so many messages received replying to all is hard but even if its no thanks we try if guys have made an effort.

Make sure your face pic is a smile. We get too any frowns of selfie concentration lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yay no cock pics

Read their profile before messaging. Make sure you're what they're looking for for a start.

With so many messages received replying to all is hard but even if its no thanks we try if guys have made an effort.

Make sure your face pic is a smile. We get too any frowns of selfie concentration lol"

What kind of message would grab a girls attention considering they get loads all saying hi how are you?...any ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For your profile use Paragraphs, bitches love paragraphs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For your profile use Paragraphs, bitches love paragraphs"

haha i had to laugh but I guess little things matter to the ladies!lol

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Awful profile name, hardly any text or photographs, cannot accommodate; why bother when there are tens of thousands of other more suitable guys

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Seriously: you're asking about what to put in a profile, what to say in a message and what photos to use?

Can't you think of anything yourself?

The harsh reality is that if you don't have the ability to construct a good message, don't have a range of good photos and don't have an interesting profile, you're gonna get zilch.

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By *airEWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle Under Lyme


"Yay no cock pics

Read their profile before messaging. Make sure you're what they're looking for for a start.

With so many messages received replying to all is hard but even if its no thanks we try if guys have made an effort.

Make sure your face pic is a smile. We get too any frowns of selfie concentration lol

What kind of message would grab a girls attention considering they get loads all saying hi how are you?...any ideas?"

If there's something in particular about a lady's profile that appeals to you (and you feel you are what they are looking for), then mention it in the first few words of your first message.

It's like, you see a woman in a busy room of people, and you feel an attraction and want to talk to her, but so do about 20 other guys. They're all saying "hi", "how are you", or "hello sweetheart" or words to that affect. It's a busy public room so getting your cock out, or offering to fuck her brains out is not appropriate. But maybe if you tell her what attracted you, or respond to something she said she might hear you above the noise, and enter into conversation with you.

Hey, it's worth a shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For your profile use Paragraphs, bitches love paragraphs

haha i had to laugh but I guess little things matter to the ladies!lol "

This bitch really loves a paragraph...

Punctuation too.

xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yay no cock pics

Read their profile before messaging. Make sure you're what they're looking for for a start.

With so many messages received replying to all is hard but even if its no thanks we try if guys have made an effort.

Make sure your face pic is a smile. We get too any frowns of selfie concentration lol

What kind of message would grab a girls attention considering they get loads all saying hi how are you?...any ideas?

If there's something in particular about a lady's profile that appeals to you (and you feel you are what they are looking for), then mention it in the first few words of your first message.

It's like, you see a woman in a busy room of people, and you feel an attraction and want to talk to her, but so do about 20 other guys. They're all saying "hi", "how are you", or "hello sweetheart" or words to that affect. It's a busy public room so getting your cock out, or offering to fuck her brains out is not appropriate. But maybe if you tell her what attracted you, or respond to something she said she might hear you above the noise, and enter into conversation with you.

Hey, it's worth a shot. "

Thanks for your input glad to hear something constructive after two unhelpful threads.X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yay no cock pics

Read their profile before messaging. Make sure you're what they're looking for for a start.

With so many messages received replying to all is hard but even if its no thanks we try if guys have made an effort.

Make sure your face pic is a smile. We get too any frowns of selfie concentration lol

What kind of message would grab a girls attention considering they get loads all saying hi how are you?...any ideas?

If there's something in particular about a lady's profile that appeals to you (and you feel you are what they are looking for), then mention it in the first few words of your first message.

It's like, you see a woman in a busy room of people, and you feel an attraction and want to talk to her, but so do about 20 other guys. They're all saying "hi", "how are you", or "hello sweetheart" or words to that affect. It's a busy public room so getting your cock out, or offering to fuck her brains out is not appropriate. But maybe if you tell her what attracted you, or respond to something she said she might hear you above the noise, and enter into conversation with you.

Hey, it's worth a shot.

Thanks for your input glad to hear something constructive after two unhelpful threads.X"

OP, spurning advice freely given is not perhaps the politest of approaches.

Grammar is important to some on here. Paragraphs, capital letters, sentences, etc make more impact than you think. (No, it does not put everyone off but it does some).

Apart from that, your profile reads like thousands of others on here. I could boil it down to three words - "I want sex."

You need to differentiate yourself. Show your personality. Attract people. How you do that depends on you.

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