FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Introductions

Finding my way in swinging land

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello to all at fab swingers. Being a newbie both to this site, and the world of swinging, i was looking for pointers and advice from the worldly wise. Being a single male who is only photo verified, can anyone point me in the right direction to chatting and meeting up with verified members? Any tips would be warmly welcomed, thank you all

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

welcome to fab hope you have a fab time!

patience and politeness is the key tips for you really. read profiles and make it obvious you have when messaging people x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get camming x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Doing all this off my fone, so no webcam unfortunately

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see your problem there. Go on the meets forum and put a meet up x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"............Any tips would be warmly welcomed, thank you all "

Rightly or wrongly some members make the assumption that a single guy who cannot accommodate has something to hide and would like a wee explanation as to why that's not the case.

I doubt it'll make much difference either way but you know how nosy some folks can be

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"............Any tips would be warmly welcomed, thank you all

Rightly or wrongly some members make the assumption that a single guy who cannot accommodate has something to hide and would like a wee explanation as to why that's not the case.

I doubt it'll make much difference either way but you know how nosy some folks can be "

Kinda agree with this. If a single guy can't accom, can think of two reasons they'd not want to admit (wife, live with parents) and one they should (live with housemates).

I don't think that it's all swingers are suspicious, it's just that a lot of swingers are experienced and see better options than the secretive ones.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Il have a look at that, thanks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah i see, have no problem saying i care for my elderly, ill step dad. But wud that put ppl off?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aye covered that in previous answer. Thanx tho

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah i see, have no problem saying i care for my elderly, ill step dad. But wud that put ppl off?"

There's no accounting for the reasons some folks will decide are valid when it comes to choosing who, and who not, to meet.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well iv amended my profile 2explain my living conditions so to speak. Thanx v much 4the advice anyway

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well iv amended my profile 2explain my living conditions so to speak. Thanx v much 4the advice anyway"

You up for more?

It looks as if you've ticked EVERY interest. That smacks of desperation in some minds. Maybe just delete a few of your least favourite things.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Got that. Do u work 4the site or summit lol. Thanx 4the pointers tho!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got that. Do u work 4the site or summit lol. Thanx 4the pointers tho! "

When you get a bit more time have a look through the 'what is wrong with single guys?' threads which infest the forums.

Many of the common complaints are there although I don't doubt the list will be added to on a frequent basis.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got that. Do u work 4the site or summit lol. Thanx 4the pointers tho!

When you get a bit more time have a look through the 'what is wrong with single guys?' threads which infest the forums.

Many of the common complaints are there although I don't doubt the list will be added to on a frequent basis."

Leave the guy alone if he can't accomidate that's his buisness and he may like all interests.

Keep your profile how it is you wrote it so it reflects you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got that. Do u work 4the site or summit lol. Thanx 4the pointers tho!

When you get a bit more time have a look through the 'what is wrong with single guys?' threads which infest the forums.

Many of the common complaints are there although I don't doubt the list will be added to on a frequent basis.

Leave the guy alone if he can't accomidate that's his buisness and he may like all interests.

Keep your profile how it is you wrote it so it reflects you."

I can do no more than quote the OP "Any tips would be warmly welcomed, thank you all".

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was looking at tips how to meet people get verified not his profile

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Flippin eck ppl dont start rowing on my account please. I do appreciate the pointers, and will leave all as is now. Itl work itself out whichever way

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You call this rowing? Lol it's a difference of opinion nothing more OP

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top