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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I am Michelle and I am new here well been on here 5 weeks and finding it hard.

Any advice?

Thanks

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

You shouldn't be, normally single bi women are in demand.

What problems are you having?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello there

I don't want to sound like I'm moaning but I'm totally new to all this so at the moment I've been looking around and not rushing into anything I'm getting a lot of men message me saying I'm a waste of time and this isn't facebook and they want sex not chat.

I want sex eventully but I want to get to know someone properly. I'm recently single so very shy. I'm hoping this is the way to go.

So any advice would be grateful at this stage.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry me again.

I have stated in my profile that I'm not looking to meet right now until I've sussed the scene out.

So I hoped by putting that they would understand.

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

say hello to your new friend ...

the Block User button !

if they're not patient then not worth you meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we were the same we hadnt done anything like this before. we took our time didnt play for the first 4 months just took our time to get to know guys. my advice would be take as long as you need the right guys will be happy to chat and give you convidence. our first meet is always social too no pressure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's the way I hope to do it but some do try and put the pressure on it's a learning curve.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Oh don't be rushed by people who want it all their way.

When we first joined these type of sites we took it slow too.

Anyone who complained in our mail box about that got ignored, we are doing this for our enjoyment not theirs.

Take as much time as you need and block any person that annoys you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the great advice and I will carry on what I'm doing and take my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take you time if they r pressuring you block them not worth talking to .....there is some gd lads out there i have been on few yrs now spoke lots nice guys but aint met as yet ........ones i have met r good friends now and some i just have met for coffee.

You r in control dnt rush just state on profile am on to chat maybe take further in time ....if you after sex jog on by i will meet in my time .

AM just out relashionship with lad i swang with so not been meeting at all just for social meets been luck no one had pressured me they r understanding .good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your right there are some great guys on here that far weigh all the others. I've spoken to a few and they have been great and very understanding. It's the odd one that ruins it for the nice guys out there.

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