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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys im mathew

I dont seem to be having much luck on here. Not sure if its my profile or pics....or both!!

Every time i send a mail it gets delited. Bit anoying actually.

Can any one give me advice on tweaking my profile or do i need a face job! Haha joke.

Thanks in advance

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Why did you hide the verification from a man?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not sure it was attracting loads of men and was not really what i was looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not new to swinging, been to a few clubs now and i must admit... I my elimemt to say the least."

What was that meant to say?

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By *j77777Man
over a year ago

paddington


"Hi guys im mathew

I dont seem to be having much luck on here. Not sure if its my profile or pics....or both!!

Every time i send a mail it gets delited. Bit anoying actually.

Can any one give me advice on tweaking my profile or do i need a face job! Haha joke.

Thanks in advance"

Go to socials... meet more people face to face and get more verifications. Worked for me... you gotta put the effort in. No click and paste messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys dident realise i had made a few mistakes in my profile ?? Yeah i did go for a social a few weeks back. What do you think of my pictures? Need new ones or are they ok for now? Im off on my holls next week so ill be sure to get some new ones

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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Looks fine to me

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Try smiling so you look friendly and welcoming at the moment the face pic you've got makes you look like a right miserable sod, who wants to play with someone miserable. On sites like this where physical impressions tend to count as the first ones, perception is reality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys. I do need to smile! I hate taking selfies ill get some happy pics. Much apricate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try sneaking up on yourself to take your selfies when you're relaxed and not expecting it.

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't mind the pics but found the profile a bit bland.

It's like a plain box with the word cake written on it but it doesn't tell me anything about the cake inside.

I want to know a little bit more about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake?

I'm pre meet starving myself and you start on about FRICKING CAKE.

ffs. What is wrong with you people?

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hi guys im mathew

I dont seem to be having much luck on here. Not sure if its my profile or pics....or both!!

Every time i send a mail it gets delited. Bit anoying actually.

Can any one give me advice on tweaking my profile or do i need a face job! Haha joke.

Thanks in advance"

I'd say include more specifics : what kind of atmosphere you like during sex, any particular kinks or fantasies, any definite no-nos, what you value or dislike in a play partner and your sexual health status. Maybe let a little of your personality shine through, too. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys im mathew

I dont seem to be having much luck on here. Not sure if its my profile or pics....or both!!

Every time i send a mail it gets delited. Bit anoying actually.

Can any one give me advice on tweaking my profile or do i need a face job! Haha joke.

Thanks in advance"

We would delete any message from you, too. It is a bland and uninteresting profile which tells us nothing about you. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, it just comes across as bland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Profile look OK to me. Maybe focus on what you're messaging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats guys will review it and see what i can rustle up. Any one want to retype my profile and ill pay them?!! I shocking at stuff like that hence why its not the best. Supose its fair to say diffrent people have diffrent things they look for. For me it seems like there not evening viewing my profile just a straight up delite most of the time so maybe its my first mail, but again what are you supose to put to a stranger you are trying to get to know? It is only me or do you not think there is only so much you can say as a first mail?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats guys will review it and see what i can rustle up. Any one want to retype my profile and ill pay them?!! I shocking at stuff like that hence why its not the best. Supose its fair to say diffrent people have diffrent things they look for. For me it seems like there not evening viewing my profile just a straight up delite most of the time so maybe its my first mail, but again what are you supose to put to a stranger you are trying to get to know? It is only me or do you not think there is only so much you can say as a first mail?"

It is your profile. Make it stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most browsers and phones can take care of your spelling for you too. Nothing worse than typos and misspellings in a message. Make sure you proof-read before hitting send.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"not sure it was attracting loads of men and was not really what i was looking for "

These things happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like loads of men if i was that way inclined i would be ckassed as a pimp. As flattering as it is id prefer ladys or couples

Thanks again for the advise its all good.

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