FabSwingers.com forum: hey beautiful ladies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Evening all,

I have a question to you all, why is it that when I find someone that fits the bill, ticks the boxes etc, why do I find myself messaging them and never getting replies, or just getting ffuck offs...

fill me in please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could be coz you have no pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be that whilst they tick all your boxes, you don't tick theirs. Most women read profiles before they read any mail, so having a good profile with pics physically available, good text etc always help. If they don't like what they are they won't read the message regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as I see the words "ask me" on a profile, I am no longer interested.

I want to get the information I need from your profile. The basics at least. What you are looking for on here, what you can offer.

A bit about you. I don't want to play 20 Questions.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

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The words 'ask me' shows either a total lack of imagination, someone who doesn't care what someone else is into as long as he gets his end away or someone who just can't be bothered to make the effort but expects others to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a quick look at your profile. You may message someone who ticks your boxes, but your profile doesn't tells the reader which of their boxes you tick. Most people want all the information in one go so as to make a judgement as to whether this is a good match, otherwise it's easier to just move onto the next. Very few couples or single ladies will ask for a photo. Why would they ask, when the next guy that messages has probably included their picture? Decide what you want to get out of this lifestyle, and work out what you have to offer. There's a lot of competion out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Evening all,

I have a question to you all, why is it that when I find someone that fits the bill, ticks the boxes etc, why do I find myself messaging them and never getting replies, or just getting ffuck offs...

fill me in please!"

Because there is nothing in your profile. No meaningful text and no pictures. So no one is going to be interested.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Its because some mens expectations are too high on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because just cos we fancy someone and want to meet them, they have to feel the same, the likelihood would be very slim cos they get inundated with offers lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As soon as I see the words "ask me" on a profile, I am no longer interested.

I want to get the information I need from your profile. The basics at least. What you are looking for on here, what you can offer.

A bit about you. I don't want to play 20 Questions."

definitely this.

why waste time on someone who is probably not even what you're looking for? i am looking for guys with good social skills who aren't afraid of intimacy. and no info on a profile is the opposite of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are happy to send pics, why have you not got them in your galleries? do you have them in private? If not how would you send them? if by mobile, that would mean getting their number, and any good self respecting person wouldn't give out their number to someone they do not know. Get some pics in your public gallery, change your profile info, if you don't know what to say, then just write what you would want to read on others, you could state that you are clean and expect the same from others, or are DDfree (if you are) or am / not looking to sleep with the entire site (I don't know, some might be) but the select few, or have a circle of nice people for regular fun with.... that sort of thing

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