FabSwingers.com forum: How do doms meet subs most of the time?

By *orthantsvwe OP Man
over a year ago

northants

Hi everyone dont want judging but im getting into becoming a proper dom and have had some experience before but was just wondering how a lot of doms met subs or how they went about it thanks

By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

At their local Fetish Events or through a Fetish Lifestyle website and local Munch or Social Group.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a profile which shows your experience and what you can offer a sub as a dom is an essential, so many guys claim to be a dom when in reality they arent.

As the poster above says fetish websites, munches etc are a good place, not just to find subs but to chat to doms about their experience etc and learn from them.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone dont want judging but im getting into becoming a proper dom and have had some experience before but was just wondering how a lot of doms met subs or how they went about it thanks

Our view is a bit different. You don't find a sub, you find someone interested in Dom/sub and then see if a relationship develops. If it does, you have a sub. Without that relationship it's impossible to be a Dom, you just play Dom.

Being Dom to a sub has very little to do with what you do in play, it is a lot more to do with what you do outside of play. It is about the submissive partner being able to rely on you totally. When you get to that point you are a Dom.

And when it works it's fantastic ! Good luck with your search.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good advice above. Good luck

Thanks for the compliment