FabSwingers.com forum: Does my profile need ammending?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys,

Just wanted to rack your brains over this. So I've been on here a few months now and still haven't had that first meet. Was just wondering if it may be anything to do with my profile, maybe you more experienced fabbers can provide some insight as to what I could alter or add to it. Thanks in advance!

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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Your profile looks good so can't see any issues there; it can take a while to arrange a meet and it can be frustrating. The biggest issue is the amount of guys compared to couples and ladies. To give you an example, even though we state in our profile that we are not meeting at the moment we still get around 10-15 messages a day. So the best advise is to make certain before messaging people that you have read their profiles, be prepared to chat and be patient. I'm certain you will get a meet soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your profile looks good so can't see any issues there; it can take a while to arrange a meet and it can be frustrating. The biggest issue is the amount of guys compared to couples and ladies. To give you an example, even though we state in our profile that we are not meeting at the moment we still get around 10-15 messages a day. So the best advise is to make certain before messaging people that you have read their profiles, be prepared to chat and be patient. I'm certain you will get a meet soon. "

Thank you, yeah think the minority of single males ruin it for the rest of us. But yeah I think once that first meet happens and there is that verification - hopefully it will pave the way for more meets...fingers crossed! Lovely photos and profile you guys have x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile and pics look ok to me

As above, single males are the largest group here, socials and clubs are a great way to meet people and get known.

Also, a minority of men do not ruin fab for others, the site is what you alone make of it, I, and many others, do not judge others because of a few.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your profile and pics look ok to me

As above, single males are the largest group here, socials and clubs are a great way to meet people and get known.

Also, a minority of men do not ruin fab for others, the site is what you alone make of it, I, and many others, do not judge others because of a few. "

Yeah not yet delved into the club side of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile is so much better than most single males profiles. You have something to say for yourself and you say it eloquently. However as a swinging couple, we probably would question why you want to play with a couple. We find a lot of single guys want to fuck women, and will tolerate the husband being there in order to get that. Therefore, on the whole, we only consider profiles, where we feel the man understands and the dynamics of playing with an MF couple. The other factor that might be against you with regards to getting the interest of a swinging couple is your age, but I'm happy to be wrong on that. It is very difficult getting started, as so many couples won't have anything to do with unverified profiles, and that's a cycle that has to be broken. You could try attending clubs, and getting yourself known that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile looks good to me, I'm sure it's just a matter of time and messaging the right one and the ball will be rolling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you both for your replies. To a certain degree, yeah it is probably easier in a way to meet a couple rather than a single lady.

On the other hand, I'm trying to experience new things and playing with a female as part of a couple will broaden my horizons rather than just playing with a single female. I get it is important to understand the dynamic of the couple, that's why I prefer getting to know them and then even meeting for a social before any fun, as opposed to the old wham bam thank you mam!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're in a great area for swinging, a number of really good clubs and from your profile I see no reason why you won't be successful. The forum is a great start to get to know people and lots go to your local clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're in a great area for swinging, a number of really good clubs and from your profile I see no reason why you won't be successful. The forum is a great start to get to know people and lots go to your local clubs."

Im quite apprehensive about attending clubs haha! Its all so new to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I've been on here a few months now and still haven't had that first meet..."
Birmingham? You've got some pretty nice clubs down there!

Ditch the internet.

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