FabSwingers.com forum: Am I really that bad looking??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can't figure out why so many women on here just point blank refuse to chat or even acknowledge me on here. Finding it a bit of a complex former lol.

Who else has this issue??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pic is good but i have to admit i never look when theres no profile pic avatar

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Your pic is good but i have to admit i never look when theres no profile pic avatar"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not ugly my friend but put cum cock pic in friends and have an avatar pic of your body or something and improve profile write up ,good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe make a little effort filling out your profile and an avatar wood be good too.

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl

I've been called ugly a couple of times but i just laugh it off.plus I'm not bowing down to there level.only been on here a few weeks chatted to few so patience mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 word profile, 35 word complaint about profile not working, I wrote more to say I am not looking to meet anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That could be my downfall I haven't set one of those haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the cum pic and write something about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ugly......but my previous profile had so many verifications it broke fab lol! So I had a break and started another.

Beauty or ugliness is in the eye of the beholder. I'm sure somebody will behold you soon m8.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like you have a foot growing out of your cock......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been on 6 weeks and have a meet from a week ago.... You seem to be doing OK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone will fancy you we cant please them all, put a profile pic up and put ur cock pic in private and at least write a profile

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

I cannot comment as you have not asked for advice on your profile.

Sorry.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Can't figure out why so many women on here just point blank refuse to chat or even acknowledge me on here. Finding it a bit of a complex former lol.

Who else has this issue??"

I've never contacted you but I have acknowledged you. It's the gleam of silver from the edge of themselves cloud of gloom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Spell check has a mind of its own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask yourself why you're on this site

It's for swinging.... which is a lifestyle choice

Part of that is socialising with each other as much as it is sex.

Imagine yourself in a pub, for example. How are you going to meet women or couples in there?

It's not about flopping your cock out and saying "cum get it"

And smiling helps too

What makes you attractive over and above the thousands of other single men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok done a write up, changed pics to private I hope but how do I do an avatar pic?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

This is the problem with advice threads insofar as those who like cum photos now can't see them. I'm all in favour of people taking advice given but I think being a bit selective about what advice you choose to take would be of benefit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The truth is you have to play the averages. Throw in a bucket full of luck and be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok done a write up, changed pics to private I hope but how do I do an avatar pic? "

Account, manage photo's, pick one, make it profile picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're hot!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't figure out why so many women on here just point blank refuse to chat or even acknowledge me on here. Finding it a bit of a complex former lol.

Who else has this issue??"

Try a pic where your smiling it's a bit passport,a smile opens your personality so others can see it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get rid of the cum pic and write something about you."

Taken on board what you advised thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's better re the pics, no more shadow man

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Smile more!

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot comment as you have not asked for advice on your profile.

Sorry. "
wow so mannerable can I have a date please

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Oh! I'm not being acknowledged

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Profile reads like a dating site one.

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

"Get rid of the cum pic and write something about you.

Taken on board what you advised thanks x"

Since you are taking advice on your profile, then I'll give mine...

The pictures you have don't really give an idea of your physique and would give others good reason to skip past your profile.

A pic of your torso would be good. Don't have to be full torso. Could be separate ones of bum, back,arms,chest etc. Show off the good bits!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's true it does, but I thought I'd go with the banter ish option rather than the ' lets fuck now' option lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good start.

Now go through your photos and find a couple that show you doing something that you like doing and where you're naturally smiling. They are far more natural than passport photo style faces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens

I never get any replies or stuff but still enjoy fab

Guess I'm even more ugly than you haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's true it does, but I thought I'd go with the banter ish option rather than the ' lets fuck now' option lol"

And when you reply to someone's comment hit the reply and quote button. Helps people know who or what you're responding to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good start.

Now go through your photos and find a couple that show you doing something that you like doing and where you're naturally smiling. They are far more natural than passport photo style faces. "

Cheers mate but to be honest the only pics I have to hand that are normal etc are with my daughter and I don't really wanna put a pic of her here. That said I will be seeking out some rugby pics now haha

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl

"I'm ugly......but my previous profile had so many verifications it broke fab lol! So I had a break and started another.

Beauty or ugliness is in the eye of the beholder. I'm sure somebody will behold you soon m8."
my profile on another site done work pretty well for an ugly bloke plus can't all be Brad Pitt. ,and people always look better than there pic In real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good start.

Now go through your photos and find a couple that show you doing something that you like doing and where you're naturally smiling. They are far more natural than passport photo style faces.

Remember to crop everyone else out, obviously.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Take the picture of the celebrity down

or celebrity look alike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take the picture of the celebrity down

or celebrity look alike. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Take the picture of the celebrity down

or celebrity look alike.

Im sure the guy in question would be thrilled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take the picture of the celebrity down

or celebrity look alike.

Im sure the guy in question would be thrilled

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take the picture of the celebrity down

or celebrity look alike. "

Or start an MM couple profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Take the picture of the celebrity down

or celebrity look alike.

Im sure the guy in question would be thrilled

lol"

Hahaha oops didn't mean to put that one on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bad looking, but I personally find low self esteem unattractive. Don't know how it is with most women.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Take the picture of the celebrity down

or celebrity look alike.

Or start an MM couple profile?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take the picture of the celebrity down

or celebrity look alike.

Or start an MM couple profile?

No harm in asking him...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not bad looking, but I personally find low self esteem unattractive. Don't know how it is with most women."

It's not low self esteem mate believe me. It was more a ponderous question

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Take the picture of the celebrity down

or celebrity look alike. "

Wtf!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not bad looking, but I personally find low self esteem unattractive. Don't know how it is with most women.

It's not low self esteem mate believe me. It was more a ponderous question"

It's a question lots of men ask on here. The fact is that men outnumber women and often the guys join with high expectations that are soon dashed. Persistence and patience will sometimes pay off.

Good luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Take the picture of the celebrity down

or celebrity look alike.

Wtf!!!"

It's gone Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's actually quite refreshing to see a thread where the OP actively listens to and takes action on the feedback provided.

Good luck fella, you're a good looking lad and loads of ladies love the rugby type so I'm sure you'll do well in here. I hope you find what you're looking for

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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they all look the same!

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

"I think you're hot!!

Any joy getting a bit of "irisin you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you're hot!!

Any joy getting a bit of "irisin you"

Haha not yet but it's just a matter of logistics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just arrived....

I like your profile and your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to figure out why so many females rate themselves so highly when they are so average. I think it may be because so many desperate men on here give them the adulation they need they become confused. Another thing I find is certain areas / regions have high

Numbers of profiles which say no blacks / Asians which although I can understand - surely it indicates how simple minded they are. As a child I hated mushrooms but quite enjoy them now equally I used to love sambuca but can't stomach it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I struggle to figure out why so many females rate themselves so highly when they are so average. I think it may be because so many desperate men on here give them the adulation they need they become confused. Another thing I find is certain areas / regions have high

Usually it is someone who has been told no by a lady they think should of said yes who thinks this way..

Also

No, it is an indication of their preference.

I like mushrooms. But I don't like them on pizza..

I like JD.. But I can't drink it on its own..

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

" I like mushrooms. But I don't like them on pizza..

Did you really have to mention pizza!!!! I'm hungry now and could just go a 12" hotdog stuffed crust cheese n pepperoni

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

You will see alot of similar profiles from blokes in a similar situation... self worth is important.. avoid putting down to looks. Good luck

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

"I think you're hot!!

Any joy getting a bit of "irisin you"

Haha not yet but it's just a matter of logistics

Sometimes not hard to sort out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's true it does, but I thought I'd go with the banter ish option rather than the ' lets fuck now' option lol"

I get told mine looks like a dating site one too, I like the fact yours is not a fancy a fuck or I am a x year old looking to meet xyz. Yours has some personality in it and I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it you changed your profile cos it is rather good although you look quite scary in your profile pic. ...I prefer the other pic when you are smiling but you are far from ugly I think you are quite handsome and love the beard. Mrs A x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I rate myself highly it's got nothing to do with what anyone on here has said to me, it's known as self worth. I'm very clear thinking and not confused at all except when it comes to quantum mechanics and the offside rule.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I take it you changed your profile cos it is rather good although you look quite scary in your profile pic. ...I prefer the other pic when you are smiling but you are far from ugly I think you are quite handsome and love the beard. Mrs A x"

Why thank you for that. Sorry for delay x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's true it does, but I thought I'd go with the banter ish option rather than the ' lets fuck now' option lol

I get told mine looks like a dating site one too, I like the fact yours is not a fancy a fuck or I am a x year old looking to meet xyz. Yours has some personality in it and I like it

Thanks for the feedback. Loving your profile too xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh! I'm not being acknowledged

Sorry mate will take the smile more on board lol

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

How dare you rate yourself highly. You are female. You must not refuse to chat, have preferences or have a positive body image and cracking self esteem.

Know your place female, know your place.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

good profile and pics OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, u look great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't listen to women when they call you ugly mate, it's harder for us guys, we have to show our true selves it's not like we can wear make up and hide what we really look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't listen to women when they call you ugly mate, it's harder for us guys, we have to show our true selves it's not like we can wear make up and hide what we really look like

Yeah thank god for make up.. i mind the guy who after i told him sorry he wasnt my type he replied that he could put a paper bag over his head

so yeah some guys can hide how they look

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"good profile and pics OP"

Cheers guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't listen to women when they call you ugly mate, it's harder for us guys, we have to show our true selves it's not like we can wear make up and hide what we really look like

Cheers pal

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around

"Don't listen to women when they call you ugly mate, it's harder for us guys, we have to show our true selves it's not like we can wear make up and hide what we really look like

Cheers pal

When I have to verify people after events there's 2 main things I notice

1. Guys are generally much hotter and nicer than their basic pictures /profiles .unless they are model type ones and then you can be disappointed

So you need to get out in the scene .for the REAL you to be known

2.females always ask for a face pic /body shot. Not a Cock pic

And.most people on fabs that Sit behind a screen and hope a profile will get them amazing sex will be sadly disappointment .

Cyber will never beat real life chemistry x

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By *damscottMan
over a year ago

Greenwich

Think you're pretty hot to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't figure out why so many women on here just point blank refuse to chat or even acknowledge me on here. Finding it a bit of a complex former lol.

Who else has this issue??"

I have the same issue, but I have an avatar and a couple of pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like you've had some good advice already. although the dating profile description indicates what you're like in the public domain it doesn't tell anyone what you like in sex. I've found that our sexual desires can be the complete opposite of how we are in the public eye - it's the quiet ones that are the worse

This is a sexual site so people generally want to know what excites you, what you might give in pleasure to them. The FS interests are too black and white, your profile is where you can add colour and nuance. It also shows how much imagination you might have. I've found that the mind can be as stimulating as physical touch.

Also perseverance. Not everyone will be your cup of tea. But the more you try then it'll be easier to spot the ones who are more likely to respond and have a good time with... can't believe I've just added an analogy with tea

And when you do get a knock back. accept it like a gentleman, say thanks for their honesty and move on.

Have you also tried adding an advert under meets? This will raise your profile. create an enticing title like ex Marine looking for a frolic in the countryside...Maybe you're free one Saturday afternoon and looking for a mischievous person to meet for a coffee, check there's a mutual attraction and then go for a naughty stroll in the countryside

Good luck

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"Can't figure out why so many women on here just point blank refuse to chat or even acknowledge me on here. Finding it a bit of a complex former lol.

Who else has this issue??"
Hi man and your not a bad looking guy at all you will do find as it's been said just be your self and it will happen when I go to clubs I treat it as a pub or bar go for a drink a laugh if I get anything then yey if not still a good night anyway good luck

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

The guys that will have the most fun on here, are those that like, respect and love women. That comes through in messages, and the way you conduct yourself.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Can't figure out why so many women on here just point blank refuse to chat or even acknowledge me on here. Finding it a bit of a complex former lol.

Who else has this issue?? Hi man and your not a bad looking guy at all you will do find as it's been said just be your self and it will happen when I go to clubs I treat it as a pub or bar go for a drink a laugh if I get anything then yey if not still a good night anyway good luck

"Get anything" !

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Yep afraid you are that ugly, pointless being on this site you will never get a meet

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