FabSwingers.com forum: I need help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can n e one help me

I've been on here over a year and still don't know how this site works

Is there n e one that would take the time out for me and explain what I need to do on here lol

Thanks

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

You write a decent profile, not a moany one about how people are ignorant (read the site FAQ's), send polite messages to people you think may also be interested in meeting you. Very simple op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can n e one help me

I've been on here over a year and still don't know how this site works

Is there n e one that would take the time out for me and explain what I need to do on here lol

Thanks "
you need to send polite messages based on target profiles info along with a smiling face pic you need to have a profile write up that tells the women what you are looking for and why or why you can't accommodate with decent pics no cock pics in public and you need to be patient which after a year you have been

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I've done all that yet when I send a message I get ignored lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make an effort, be polite, positive and respectful, message people you think might be looking for someone like you based on their profile and maybe you'll get a reply. If you don't then move on, they're not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You write a decent profile, not a moany one about how people are ignorant (read the site FAQ's), send polite messages to people you think may also be interested in meeting you. Very simple op

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks peeps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cool so how is every one ?

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

You need to read the site FAQs before branding everyone who doesn't reply as 'ignorant'! No reply means not interested!

On a personal note, the 'n e one' thing would wind me up something rotten! The word you are looking for is 'anyone' - it's not even any more difficult to type! Might seem picky but a lot of people are put off by silly text speak, try re wording your profile and messages in correct English - it does make a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I've done all that yet when I send a message I get ignored lol "

No you haven't

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"Yeah I've done all that yet when I send a message I get ignored lol "

Crap Profile, Crap Pictures, Crap Attitude , you are going nowhere on this site unless you completely re-vamp your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok gilettexxx

What haaavnt I done

Please can you point out what I've missed please x

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Ok gilettexxx

What haaavnt I done

Please can you point out what I've missed please x "

See above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I've done all that yet when I send a message I get ignored lol "

No you haven't

Your profile is two lines long and says nothing about you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok cool I'll sort my profile out when I'm awake lol

Thanks for all your help xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No information about you, no information about what you would like to see from the site, awful pictures(sticking a tongue out....really??), text talk because you can't be bothered to make an effort

That is why you don't get replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok gilettexxx

What haaavnt I done

Please can you point out what I've missed please x "

What all they said ^^^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sorry rouges_slut

I'm still got L-plates on the go lol

I int got a clue

Yet I've decided to finaly to find out what its all about so insted of poining out my desaster how about some pointers in putting me on the right track instead lol

Love from

A_GD_lover xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sorry rouges_slut

I'm still got L-plates on the go lol

I int got a clue

Yet I've decided to finaly to find out what its all about so insted of poining out my desaster how about some pointers in putting me on the right track instead lol

Love from

A_GD_lover xxxxx

Your profile is over a year old...

People above have given you pointers..

Search the threads and read the advice given to everyone else.. As it refers to everyone...

Read the sites FAQs

Take down that awful tongue pulling pic..

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By *ssexcokMan
over a year ago

southend

"I'm sorry rouges_slut

I'm still got L-plates on the go lol

I int got a clue

Yet I've decided to finaly to find out what its all about so insted of poining out my desaster how about some pointers in putting me on the right track instead lol

Love from

A_GD_lover xxxxx

Nice guys finish last u just need to b vwe an have it as your profile pic sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sorry rouges_slut

I'm still got L-plates on the go lol

I int got a clue

Yet I've decided to finaly to find out what its all about so insted of poining out my desaster how about some pointers in putting me on the right track instead lol

Love from

A_GD_lover xxxxx

Nice guys finish last u just need to b vwe an have it as your profile pic sorted "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has told you what to do. You're 38 years old if you're not getting what to do now.

Really not going to come across well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok...you asked for pointers?

Read what people say...they're trying to help...

A decent profile with no text speak, even your profile name has it...and by whose standards are you a good lover?

Tell people what you have to offer them in your profile and entice them into meeting you...decent pics would help, you've made a start by having a face pic...but make it a pleasant smiling one, the grimace and tongue out doesn't help you...

As other forumites have stated...half your profile is a moan about people being ignorant...it's hardly likely to endear you to anyone...also it's not ignorant,it says so in the faq which I think you should read...couples and women get hundreds of messages a day, it isn't ignorant not to reply...if they aren't ask yourself what are YOU doing wrong...have you written a good message with no text speak and showing you've read their profile? No? There you go...

Hope this and the other posts help...

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

if women and couples arent messaging you or liking your photos then your profile is crap.

If you find that your sending all the first messages then your profile is crap.

You need to delete this profile and start again with a flash new one . People will presume your a time waster having no verifications after a few years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I've done all that yet when I send a message I get ignored lol

Crap Profile, Crap Pictures, Crap Attitude , you are going nowhere on this site unless you completely re-vamp your profile.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Yet I've decided to finaly to find out what its all about so insted of poining out my desaster how about some pointers in putting me on the right track instead "

Putting you on the right track means advising you to leave the wrong track, which is what many have done.

It also involves you putting in some effort with your profile.

If you wish to continue getting no meets at all then do carry on as you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why dosnt n e every message people back on here its so ignorant *Nooo*

Bbm pin:2BD95959 come have a chat xxx I don't bite lol"

OP, most people read profiles before deciding whether to engage with someone. There is nothing in your profile that is of appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile is perfect. Please don't change a thing!

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"I think your profile is perfect. Please don't change a thing!

Same here.....if only he lived closer

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Good God....is that what you call the 'improved' version OP???

I honestly don't know why some people come on here asking for advice and then ignore all of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good God....is that what you call the 'improved' version OP???

I honestly don't know why some people come on here asking for advice and then ignore all of it

Agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey you must know by now you can't win on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile isn't that bad to me. Decent amount of pics, not much on it but nothing offensive.

Not my type of guy but good luck to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sorry rouges_slut

I'm still got L-plates on the go lol

I int got a clue

Yet I've decided to finaly to find out what its all about so insted of poining out my desaster how about some pointers in putting me on the right track instead lol

Love from

A_GD_lover xxxxx

Everything I wrote was pointers, as in what everyone else wrote is pointers too.

Pointers:

Bad pictures, take some decent ones

Can't accom: say why in profile as most will assume(rightly or wrongly) that you aren't single.

Profile is negative - ain't got a clue what I'm doing, that hardly sells yourself.

Take half an hour, grab a paper and pen, bullet point what you want in your profile then write it in full English (no shorthand or text speak)

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