FabSwingers.com forum: What do I do !!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On here I find it difficult to say the right things but offline in normal life I can get near enough most girls so what the hell am I doing wrong on here ?????? is it my profile , pictures or just what I say some feedback would be great haha

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uck princess and himCouple
over a year ago

washington

Top and bottom of it is, your up against thousands of men.

Plus, apparently all the best looking lasses are after women so you say.. that doesn't help.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback !!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Your profiles a bit negative. Just don't reply to men or block them. Why bother mianing about them? Your profile is your chance to impress the ladies. Moaning about men isn't very alluring.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uck princess and himCouple
over a year ago

washington

"Thanks for the feedback !!"

good luck OP -Tone.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Maybe include a little bit more about yourself and what you like rather than telling people what you don't like.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here I find it difficult to say the right things but offline in normal life I can get near enough most girls so what the hell am I doing wrong on here ?????? is it my profile , pictures or just what I say some feedback would be great haha "

Stick with what you have got . I am really good with women in real life and can get laid by going to a night club and picking someone up wuthin a few hours or I can sit online for amonth and get nowhere

You need to realise that websites make money from a very small percentage of the population by people chatting online and that prior to web sites human beings were equipped with a very good set of inbuilt mating genes .

Which is pretty Dammn obvious really as the human race has been around a lot longer than the Internet dating sites

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers makes me feel a whole lot better

Which is pretty Dammn obvious really as the human race has been around a lot longer than the Internet dating sites

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Your profiles a bit negative. Just don't reply to men or block them. Why bother mianing about them? Your profile is your chance to impress the ladies. Moaning about men isn't very alluring."

You're welcome!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I often wonder why people who have no trouble in real life bother with internet sites. If it's so difficult why not stick to what works for you?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Because you are limited to people from your own city and would like to meet people from different places

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see how you'd have a problem at all to be honest

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't see how you'd have a problem at all to be honest

Thank you very nice of you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Because you are limited to people from your own city and would like to meet people from different places "

Ok. Couldn't you travel to other places anyway? It's well known that fab is a difficult place for many single men.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

Good looking guy, good pics - key is to get yourself verified...difficult to get anywhere until you are - also, perhaps a little bit more about yourself in your profile would help - stick at it mate!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have you're looking for women from 18-99 yet your profile says no 50+ women

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are there actually 99 year olds on here ??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having looked at your pics I no where your going wrong. The sky remote is in the wrong place

xxxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because you are limited to people from your own city and would like to meet people from different places "

In a city the size of Liverpool it's hardly a limitation surely?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be honest as u have messaged me....

Your message just didn't do it for me.... You came across cocky and there was no effort ... I deleted it now but it was one of those in the form of

'I would love to do this to you'

Ok? So what would you like me to do with that bit of information?

Also would have appreciated if your about me said a little more

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having looked at your pics I no where your going wrong. The sky remote is in the wrong place

xxxx"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some harsh criticism on here ???? but all fair it's what I asked for

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate you have got off lightly haha trust! This is nothing you didn't suffer the full force of the fab lynch mob! An the one person who takes it futher an starts sending you horrible messages..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha I know and I respect my elders ha!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

You've got a gf?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'll be 50 in august. ... do I still have time to get on your list?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can pencil you in before August then yes haha

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *bermanMan
over a year ago

The North West

ha ha yeah that's Fab for you. Well, in the normal world you wouldn't have a woman wanting only guys 20 years younger than her, with a minimum of 9" and so on and so forth. I'm also pretty successful in normal arenas, and to be honest also in swingers clubs but on here I suck! It probably doesn't help that I can't be arsed writing a very descriptive profile!! I hate Fab but I also LOVE it ha ha!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have to realise that girls get a lot of messages and sometimes you can get lost in the masses.

A well structured message where the effort is obvious will always garner a response from me.

If you just say "hey, how are you", "meet for a fuck" etc, I don't even open it.

I think there's some beautiful looking men on here that may miss out because they don't grab your attention in the first message.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why thank you !!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phew... That lets me out

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

You're an extremely handsome man...amongst other equally handsome men. I think you're realising that good looks without effort = nada, zero, zilch.

Make an effort!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm confused haha what has let you out !!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest problem with 90% of what we would call "good looking guys" on fab is that cheeky comes across as arrogant and cocky online.

Also most people expect you to sell yourself with personality as well as good pics where in real life someone may just be up for a shag because you're hot and there?

Just our 2c

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're an extremely handsome man...amongst other equally handsome men. I think you're realising that good looks without effort = nada, zero, zilch.

Make an effort! "

Thanks I appreciate the comment

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Maybe they think they're too curvy for you.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree my profile doesn't add up to who I am really I'm actually really interesting haha !!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they think they're too curvy for you."

Why thank you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I'll add my 2 pence

Pro

- you're showing your face in your profile

- you've got a nice face

- you've got a sexy body (it seems)

Cons

- Show a bit more (but not 29 cock pics, just a couple would do)

- Your write up sucks big time. Dissing 50+ people, tells nothing about you

- You may be intelligent but your profile doesn't show that

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they think they're too curvy for you."

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not coming across as attractive. To attract the women you want,who will have the pick of attractive men on here,you have to be irresistible,and I can't see that at the moment

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If successful in public why not just focus on that?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

play the game.......

better

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

You need to get your profile Cremo certified !!! Once that happens you get all the gurls !! Was life changing when I got mine Cremo certified !!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're physically or facially good looking enough to not have an attractive personality.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need to get your profile Cremo certified !!! Once that happens you get all the gurls !! Was life changing when I got mine Cremo certified !!!!"

May I ask what Cremo is

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discreet fun to me = married man.

I also don't like the bath pic (not sure why)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're physically or facially good looking enough to not have an attractive personality. "

Haha... Yea but pretending he has a good personality would surely generate more interest! Some women like a nice personality too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're physically or facially good looking enough to not have an attractive personality.

Haha... Yea but pretending he has a good personality would surely generate more interest! Some women like a nice personality too "

That's what I was getting at.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discreet fun to me = married man.

I also don't like the bath pic (not sure why) "

I like the bath pic the most

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

"You need to get your profile Cremo certified !!! Once that happens you get all the gurls !! Was life changing when I got mine Cremo certified !!!!

May I ask what Cremo is"

Cremo is the acceptable standards for profile content for the swingers market!!!

This is fact and being successful in ataining Cremo certification has dramatically improved my experience here !!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good face, good body but crap profile - and your recent posts have cemented my _iew of your profile.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

Good face, good body but crap profile - and your recent posts have cemented my _iew of your profile."

That Green Arrow tells you such a lot!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why thank you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why thank you "

It really is nothing to be proud of.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One things for certain I quite enjoyed fabbing your pics. Xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

All three son, all three.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good face, good body but crap profile - and your recent posts have cemented my _iew of your profile.

That Green Arrow tells you such a lot!

The green arrow is the devil's work. I only read one thread from the OP but got hooked and went and read them all. That's half an hour of my life I'll never get back

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're coming across as very arrogant and money minded, very negative traits my friend, hardly surprising no one is interested with you here

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread