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New(ish). Unverified. Please Advise!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi! Just been scrolling through the forums and seen that it would be a good start to being active on here to help my cause

So I have been on for a few months and no success and it's frustrating.

Criticise my profile or advise me on approach. I always send face pictures, I never do one liners. What do women want to hear!?

Happy fabbing

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

Visit a swing club or social event.

Even as a couple, the vast majority of our private meets have been with people we've met in a club first.

Take a look at the well validated guys on here, they are almost all club goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask your mum to join, gaurenteed verification then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask your mum to join, gaurenteed verification then "

I'm not sure what's funnier, the awful attempt to be funny or your inability to spell. I'll have your daughter join if/when she comes of age. Less of the awful humour please, this should all be fun and friendly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Visit a swing club or social event.

Even as a couple, the vast majority of our private meets have been with people we've met in a club first.

Take a look at the well validated guys on here, they are almost all club goes."

Thanks for the reply, not really my kinda environment but I suppose I shouldn't knock the idea!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Visit a swing club or social event.

Even as a couple, the vast majority of our private meets have been with people we've met in a club first.

Take a look at the well validated guys on here, they are almost all club goes.

Thanks for the reply, not really my kinda environment but I suppose I shouldn't knock the idea! "

Probably not the best retort above, op, especially for those of us who have teenage daughters .... if you dislike the tone of the post, dont descent into it yourself. In terms of clubs, have you been to them all. If not, then how can you know if they are for you or not? We have been to a few ... some are good, some not so, but we have met a lot of great people there or thereabouts. We met each other on the site too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably not the best retort above, op, especially for those of us who have teenage daughters .... if you dislike the tone of the post, dont descent into it yourself."

Dull sarcasm in an attempt to educate the poster on humour. I find it incredibly offensive hence the plea to be civil and the end of my message! Nonetheless, apologies if it offended you, wasn't intentional.


"In terms of clubs, have you been to them all. If not, then how can you know if they are for you or not? We have been to a few ... some are good, some not so, but we have met a lot of great people there or thereabouts. We met each other on the site too "

Fair point!! I suppose I had just overlooked the social side to swinging, I can't envisage myself in that environment, as I can be fairly introvert. But I have no idea what 'that environment' is so I guess I'm going to do some research!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Visit a swing club or social event.

Even as a couple, the vast majority of our private meets have been with people we've met in a club first.

Take a look at the well validated guys on here, they are almost all club goes.

Thanks for the reply, not really my kinda environment but I suppose I shouldn't knock the idea!

Probably not the best retort above, op, especially for those of us who have teenage daughters .... if you dislike the tone of the post, dont descent into it yourself. In terms of clubs, have you been to them all. If not, then how can you know if they are for you or not? We have been to a few ... some are good, some not so, but we have met a lot of great people there or thereabouts. We met each other on the site too "

Well said.

You have a negative attitude op and that will get you blocked by everyone. Get to a club, smile and say hello to a few people. Be nice and good things will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi! Just been scrolling through the forums and seen that it would be a good start to being active on here to help my cause

So I have been on for a few months and no success and it's frustrating.

Criticise my profile or advise me on approach. I always send face pictures, I never do one liners. What do women want to hear!?

Happy fabbing "
you will get a lot of people saying support your local swing club but mostly because its single guys that pay the lions share and end up in the club on their own like a spare part ,just send messages based on target profile with a smiling face pic and be patient you'll get there in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try other sites better ones out there for single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try other sites better ones out there for single men "

What, ones that give you guarantees?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try other sites better ones out there for single men

What, ones that give you guarantees? "
nothing is guaranteed especially when it comes to ladies but most guys that don't do well on here, could do muchh better on other sites . Sites where there is more single ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try other sites better ones out there for single men

What, ones that give you guarantees? nothing is guaranteed especially when it comes to ladies but most guys that don't do well on here, could do muchh better on other sites . Sites where there is more single ladies "

Or fewer men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try other sites better ones out there for single men

What, ones that give you guarantees? nothing is guaranteed especially when it comes to ladies but most guys that don't do well on here, could do muchh better on other sites . Sites where there is more single ladies

Or fewer men? "
probably not lol but If your decent person you do really well just more chance of actually talking to someone an getting to know them a bit

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

Look up a profile called "come social with us", they are hosting a social in central london, in a cafe, where people can drop by have a coffee and get verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You use the phrase women - I'm not selective. Perhaps replace that with women - I prefer an connection to a type.

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