FabSwingers.com forum: Any ideas

By *e.want.to.explore. OP Man
over a year ago

bishop auckland

Any ideas of how we can make ourselves more appealing to a fenale for a meet,my gf is shy and is not one for messaging although, she is interested in this and were not getting much interest and would like a few pointers if possible.. thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try putting some public pics on doesnt have to be facepics people like to at least see what yous are like.. but finding a single bi female is very hard on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, the female, your profile reads very much you are wanting this rather than as a joint thing and she is just going along with it. No public pics will mean people will also pass the profile by and most single females will want to chat to the last not the man.

Single dems are the smallest grouping in here so you have to be enticing, friendly, be all inclusive together, and lots of patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed. This sounds like your idea. Not hers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any ideas of how we can make ourselves more appealing to a fenale for a meet,my gf is shy and is not one for messaging although, she is interested in this and were not getting much interest and would like a few pointers if possible.. thank you"

Yes. Rewrite the profile so that it does not sound like a pervy male. And include some pictures. Sorry to be brutal but there is no way you will attract a lady with that approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a single bi female, i would agree with the above; it's not appealing at all,and to say she is shy and doesnt message sounds as if she really wants nothing to do with the idea...if she's too 'shy' to message on here, how on earth do you think she will be 'persuaded' to have sex with another woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as a single bi female, i would agree with the above; it's not appealing at all,and to say she is shy and doesnt message sounds as if she really wants nothing to do with the idea...if she's too 'shy' to message on here, how on earth do you think she will be 'persuaded' to have sex with another woman?"

This exactly. As a single fem who meets couples you profile has zero appeal. Certainly sounds like this is a male only fantasy. You do realise the girlfriend would need to turn up for this to happen? And talk? And participate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rethink approach.. Rewrite profile... Add pics of both of you.. I would not message you as it is. You sound like a single male in fantasy mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would agree with all others, does she even know you are on here or even exist?.

You feel this is harsh, but this is what your profile says to us.

We would not even entertain you without some public photos.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Definitely public pics and maybe stop smoking.... We never meet smokers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like she does not even know about this, another guy trying to get his partner into a 3some

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By *cousemanmancwomanCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Maybe have a think about if its just a fantasy of yours. Being forced into anything, especially sex could be mentally and/or physically is wrong in so many ways. Mabye you should go find a woman of your own and release your 'shy' girlfriend who is 'shy yet game for a threesome' and see how well you do on your own

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