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Is my profile very negative or just too honest?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I've been told that my profile is negative as I am being too honest. I prefer to be honest and upfront but I fear that this might make my profile negative as some people have suggested.

I prefers honesty and being upfront but I would like other people opinion re my profile. So please tell me what you think of my profile and whether I should change it?

Thanks

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

It does come across as honest, but it is negative and not appealing.

You could say that you are sexually inexperienced and deaf in a less negative way, still be honest in your wants but be more upbeat about it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You don't have to be quite so honest on your profile. 'Inexperienced' is perfectly acceptable. It doesn't matter that you're deaf.

I'm getting deja vu here yet again.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I do like the honestly, but would not want to meet because of the pressures involved in someone's first meet (first sex) and probably they wouldn't last too long. I prefer someone with experience. Why not get out to clubs, etc, op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't have to be quite so honest on your profile. 'Inexperienced' is perfectly acceptable. It doesn't matter that you're deaf.

I'm getting deja vu here yet again. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things like 'I'm not very confident' can be swapped to 'I'm a bit shy...' Takes the negative out of it. You sound like a nice guy. But maybe getting out to a club is a better option? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I've been told that my profile is negative as I am being too honest. I prefer to be honest and upfront but I fear that this might make my profile negative as some people have suggested.

I prefers honesty and being upfront but I would like other people opinion re my profile. So please tell me what you think of my profile and whether I should change it?

Thanks"

You should change the wallpaper.

And include a sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I've been told that my profile is negative as I am being too honest. I prefer to be honest and upfront but I fear that this might make my profile negative as some people have suggested.

I prefers honesty and being upfront but I would like other people opinion re my profile. So please tell me what you think of my profile and whether I should change it?

Thanks

You should change the wallpaper.

And include a sense of humour."

A sense of humour, what's one of those?????

Don't be so negative OP, its nice to be honest but there is always a positive way of putting things even if they are what you see as negative.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Cut a few hundred words out and use shorter paragraphs

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

It reads nagatively.. sorry fella.. it needs a rethink....

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

There's no point in giving advice as you didn't take it on board the last 30 times you asked for it.. Sorry to be harsh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is odd that you are a Virgin but appear to want to start your sex life by tying up someone's wife. There will be a woman or couple that wants your virginity so just maybe offer that in a fun and simple way.

Good advice though getting to clubs you will learn a lot even if you don't play and you may make some new contacts. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

tying up is one of my fantasy that i would like to try once i get experienced.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

It reads very negatively I'm afraid. The bit about not being handsome definitely needs to go. Beauty is subjective, and why would someone meet you unless the found you attractive? The whole paragraph about how hard it is to be deaf is not necessary, nor is repeating how inexperienced you are over again. These are things that could be explained much more succinctly and in a more positive light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try going to a club

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"You don't have to be quite so honest on your profile. 'Inexperienced' is perfectly acceptable. It doesn't matter that you're deaf.

I'm getting deja vu here yet again. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a sex site, not a sexual therapy site. No thanks, your profile does not appeal one iota to be frank

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