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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey there were a well presented athletic couple looking for a bi-girl to join us but we've had no luck can anybody point us in the right direction????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol you and everybody else on here !

Did you think you'd sign up and Get instant messages!

Patience and nice messages. Prob get yourself to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've looked for a year and haven't yet found anyone up to your standards mabye it's time you gave up and went to clubs instead.

Then the girls can see if you are up to their standards too.

It's pretty straight forward .

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never meet a couple on my own ever again! Felt like some sort of plaything for them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanking you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah that's not good we want everybody to have fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try by having some public pics so people can decide if you're up to their standards?

I won't message a couple if there are not pictures of both.

But to be honest I wouldn't message you even if you where both stunning because of what your profile says and the fact you have been on a year.... Must be some pretty high expectations.. That's what my first reaction is.

Maybe try changing the wording a bit as it makes you sound like you're looking for a golden vagina.

Try a club too

Good luck

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

Reverse the way your looking.

Would you meet a couple with no pictures and not much information on their profile?

Imagine that your the single bi female and think about what that person is looking for and what you can offer?

If your that hot why are there no profile pics, do not have to put on face pictures.

Why not go to a club on a bi night to try and find what your looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lolol and the best reply goes to......absolutely brilliant profile update is now work in progress!

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who does meet couples I would avoid a profile like yours. Why? No pictures at all. I would expect to see pics of you both on public display before I even read your profile, let alone think about messaging.

You have cited the reason for no veris as you have standards.Don't we all??! I would read into that as someone who looks down on people who do meet on here and we all have no standards. Sorry piss poor excuse - you could of met someone for a social meet by now if you were serious.

If you really are a genuine, attractive, well presented couple then try a club. If it's all true you will do well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone who does meet couples I would avoid a profile like yours. Why? No pictures at all. I would expect to see pics of you both on public display before I even read your profile, let alone think about messaging.

You have cited the reason for no veris as you have standards.Don't we all??! I would read into that as someone who looks down on people who do meet on here and we all have no standards. Sorry piss poor excuse - you could of met someone for a social meet by now if you were serious.

If you really are a genuine, attractive, well presented couple then try a club. If it's all true you will do well. "

This is a great answer , and without a doubt hits the nail on the head .

If you really want to meet someone and claim none have reached your standards in over a year , what do you think that says to potential meets ?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"As someone who does meet couples I would avoid a profile like yours. Why? No pictures at all. I would expect to see pics of you both on public display before I even read your profile, let alone think about messaging.

You have cited the reason for no veris as you have standards.Don't we all??! I would read into that as someone who looks down on people who do meet on here and we all have no standards. Sorry piss poor excuse - you could of met someone for a social meet by now if you were serious.

If you really are a genuine, attractive, well presented couple then try a club. If it's all true you will do well. "

Brilliant.

Being photo verified is nothing I'm afraid. You need to get out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you look on an old map...then on the edges it says something like...beyond here be dragons! I think the unicorns can be found just a bit further out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you look on an old map...then on the edges it says something like...beyond here be dragons! I think the unicorns can be found just a bit further out!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having just looked at your profile I must admit that you are punching way above your weight, we have been photo verified, have public photos that include girl on girl (no faces) and genuine verifications and we find it very difficult to find that elusive single bi female, stop blowing smoke up your arse and get to a club and stop being so bloody picky

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, you aren't doing yourselves any favours with your profile text.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I have a single female profile and I meet alone from it. Your profile would put me off because of the implication that one would brave to meet your standards ... nothing mutual there? Whilst I think its the same for everyone, making an explicit reference to your standards without a reference to theirs is implies an underlying assumption that you have all the goods on offer. Well, the news on the ground is, the bi women have most of the cards and couples are two to a penny ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having just looked at your profile I must admit that you are punching way above your weight, we have been photo verified, have public photos that include girl on girl (no faces) and genuine verifications and we find it very difficult to find that elusive single bi female, stop blowing smoke up your arse and get to a club and stop being so bloody picky "

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

There's absolutely nothing wrong with being picky. But if you are picky, you're better off making no mention of it, because it will nearly always come across as being stuck up or condescending.

And the OP has worded it particularly badly!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"There's absolutely nothing wrong with being picky. But if you are picky, you're better off making no mention of it, because it will nearly always come across as being stuck up or condescending.

And the OP has worded it particularly badly! "

Agreed, and you have to assume that everyone is picky ... if you are, why wouldn't they be?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We do quite well in this respect, so first things first, compare our profile to yours.... see the difference?

Secondly, we have never played with a "single bi fem"....

... but we have played with loads of friends who also just so happen to be single, bi and female.

So, if you can understand that, you are well on your way to being more successful.

Stop chasing labels, and get out to socials and clubs and enjoy interacting with people... the rest will happen in time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually OP....you haven't met anyone "up to your standards" but don't say what they are?

Actually it would be clearer to just say "you haven't met anyone yet ....because your standards may be unrealistic?"

This is a swinging site...we are not all porn stars!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy here I am in a constant challenge to meet anyone as there are so many of up. But even if you was meeting guys your profile would be off putting as you come across as you are better than everyone else on here. Maybe you need to be more public with your selves let people see you both and maybe also reconsider your standards as to be honest your standards sound to high for this life style yes we all have standards but we keep them to our selves. And as much as this site is here for sexual desires it's also to meet people socially that share your interests so even Metting someone for a drink and a chat can get you verified or go to a club and meet people chat have a laugh no one is saying just because you meet someone does not mean sex is a must with that person I have met a few people socially in town or at clubs. So just ease up and meet some new people have a laugh who know maybe your standards will change after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you looking in all the right places?....x

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

We do exist xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile states straight n i not looking for couples ,as last time i put bi n will meet couples quite frankly couples profiles and attitudes such as yours put me off.

Im very happy now theres much less stress playing with guys ,i know where i stand with them and not one has looked down thier nose at me

U have standards so do i and enough self worth to avoid self serving attitudss such as ur profile absolutely screams

Im much happier meetin men n not even looking for couples now ,than when was here looking for couples n getting the attitude that screams looking for plaything or totally unrealistic expectations of others n opinion of themselves

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

So, a week and no change to the profile, guess you just cant help some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, a week and no change to the profile, guess you just cant help some people "
I was thinking that too lol

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