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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and Reno are new to swinging and was hoping if there was anyone who could give us pointers,we have made friends and been on cam but not had the courage to meet anyone yet. We don't come across shy but its a bit nerve racking.

Reno and Ce

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

arrange to meet somewhere public first so its not just you guys, easier to relax and chat etc efore deciding to move on if you want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey saw you two earlier good looking couple. Hopee your having fun!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are thanks and made some great friends too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started by writing a couple of emails to couples that we thought might be compatable with us. After that we exchanged face pics, then sorted a meet for a drink and a chat.

Once we decided that we wanted to play with one of the couples, we had another social meet to sort out a few things that were unclear to us, like, how do you start play, what do you wear, where do you do it, etc, etc.

Some couples make all the moves in one, some need a little time to get there.

The main thing is though, go at your own speed, there is no such thing as swinging ettiquete, the rules are your rules.

There are loads of people who will help you if you just want to chat, to see whats what.

It's usually the ladies who are the most nervous, so why not arrange some lady to chats. Meet for a coffee or something.

Best of luck

Uncle Jack

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Uncle Jack, that's what we will do we have been invited to a party too so that seems the way to go for us. We are taking it slowly for now and getting to know people

cecilia x

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i think clubs are the way to go,like the small ones and just socialise so there is no pressure

and if ur ever ready to meet "hiya" we wud like to meet ya mmmmm yum hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well if we pop up north someday we will let you know we get about a bit camping so never say never xx

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"Well if we pop up north someday we will let you know we get about a bit camping so never say never xx"

mmmmm i wud more then enough that hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and Reno are new to swinging and was hoping if there was anyone who could give us pointers,we have made friends and been on cam but not had the courage to meet anyone yet. We don't come across shy but its a bit nerve racking.

Reno and Ce "

Welcome and enjoy every minute guys...looking like you do, you will have them queuing up!!! xxx

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"Me and Reno are new to swinging and was hoping if there was anyone who could give us pointers,we have made friends and been on cam but not had the courage to meet anyone yet. We don't come across shy but its a bit nerve racking.

Reno and Ce "

Take your time, suss the site out first and how it works, decide what/who you are looking for and ease your way into things at your own pace..as newbies you will get lots of hits and invites at the beginning..then it will die off..dont rush and start adding everyone and their brother to your friends list..youll only end up deleting most of them after a while.

I wouldnt go to a club until you have done your homework about them..they are not for everyone..some do parties and not clubs, some vice versa..some dont do either..some do it all..

And then some..

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

personally i wud try a club first where u can relax and dont feel under pressure with just 1 single or 1 couple.

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