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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks for reading my status, I'm new on here & I'll be honest I'm finding it hard to get contact with peeps, I'm very chatty & not 'seedy' but still no response! so is it my profile? It was blank but iv uploaded pics, filled abit in about myself but still nowt!

Unless I smell iv no idea lol

Any ideas or feedback?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a more descriptive profile might help

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

You have only been on here 2 weeks. As shag would say you need patience. Especially being a single man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile to me reads like it is very much what you want rather than what you can offer a lady or couple if you understand what I mean.

Your a man's man, what do you mean by that, and you have a bucket list. That's great but what do you offer in return, what sort of people do you look for and like?

Pic wise, the chest ones are ok, not too sure about the nipple myself. Women like to see bodies, bums, teasing pics as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile to me reads like it is very much what you want rather than what you can offer a lady or couple if you understand what I mean.

Your a man's man, what do you mean by that, and you have a bucket list. That's great but what do you offer in return, what sort of people do you look for and like?

Pic wise, the chest ones are ok, not too sure about the nipple myself. Women like to see bodies, bums, teasing pics as well "

Oh and would you really meet a 99 year old for sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha ok point taken in the age limit never thought to change it. That makes me cringe lol


"Your profile to me reads like it is very much what you want rather than what you can offer a lady or couple if you understand what I mean.

Your a man's man, what do you mean by that, and you have a bucket list. That's great but what do you offer in return, what sort of people do you look for and like?

Pic wise, the chest ones are ok, not too sure about the nipple myself. Women like to see bodies, bums, teasing pics as well

Oh and would you really meet a 99 year old for sex?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop saying things like 'peeps'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bringon btw your pics r amazing! Them boobs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stop saying things like 'peeps'."

Ok boss, sorry lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Changed my profile abit with your advice. . Any more comments welcome

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Please take the nip pic down!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please take the nip pic down!! "

Hahahaha gone! Anything lol

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Please take the nip pic down!!

Hahahaha gone! Anything lol "

Much better and you have a very nice smile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please take the nip pic down!!

Hahahaha gone! Anything lol

Much better and you have a very nice smile "

Why thank you! If u add me as a friend u can see the full smile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok thanks for reading my status, I'm new on here & I'll be honest I'm finding it hard to get contact with peeps, I'm very chatty & not 'seedy' but still no response! so is it my profile? It was blank but iv uploaded pics, filled abit in about myself but still nowt!

Unless I smell iv no idea lol

Any ideas or feedback?

Thanks "

Less of the "lol" and improve your spelling and grammar. Without wanting to be too unpleasant, your profile does make you sound a bit of a caveman. That might well appeal to some.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok thanks for reading my status, I'm new on here & I'll be honest I'm finding it hard to get contact with peeps, I'm very chatty & not 'seedy' but still no response! so is it my profile? It was blank but iv uploaded pics, filled abit in about myself but still nowt!

Unless I smell iv no idea lol

Any ideas or feedback?

Thanks

I'm dyslexic that can't be helped! . U the grammar police like ha

Less of the "lol" and improve your spelling and grammar. Without wanting to be too unpleasant, your profile does make you sound a bit of a caveman. That might well appeal to some."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok thanks for reading my status, I'm new on here & I'll be honest I'm finding it hard to get contact with peeps, I'm very chatty & not 'seedy' but still no response! so is it my profile? It was blank but iv uploaded pics, filled abit in about myself but still nowt!

Unless I smell iv no idea lol

Any ideas or feedback?

Thanks

I'm dyslexic that can't be helped! . U the grammar police like ha

Less of the "lol" and improve your spelling and grammar. Without wanting to be too unpleasant, your profile does make you sound a bit of a caveman. That might well appeal to some."

You asked for honest opinions. I gave mine. When you post, you must expect some negative responses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks for the feedback. All appreciated


"Ok thanks for reading my status, I'm new on here & I'll be honest I'm finding it hard to get contact with peeps, I'm very chatty & not 'seedy' but still no response! so is it my profile? It was blank but iv uploaded pics, filled abit in about myself but still nowt!

Unless I smell iv no idea lol

Any ideas or feedback?

Thanks

I'm dyslexic that can't be helped! . U the grammar police like ha

Less of the "lol" and improve your spelling and grammar. Without wanting to be too unpleasant, your profile does make you sound a bit of a caveman. That might well appeal to some.

You asked for honest opinions. I gave mine. When you post, you must expect some negative responses."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bringon btw your pics r amazing! Them boobs "

Not seedy???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bringon btw your pics r amazing! Them boobs

Not seedy??? "

Hahahaha shhhhh!!!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

The posts I've seen on here from dyslexic people are usually all the more carefully and painstakingly worded.

It's the excessive peeps and lols and the leering observations of any woman that leaves a comment on here that is more revealing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This statement:

"I prefer slim/curvy woman l like summit to hold onto so not stick woman pls. but not into big woman,sorry only being honest.".

The spelling is awful but that aside, what exactly are you looking for? You are seriously narrowing down the field and confusing women who might not realise whether they fit into you expectations.

Being honest, like you are, you stand no chance until you ease back on the demands.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The posts I've seen on here from dyslexic people are usually all the more carefully and painstakingly worded.

It's the excessive peeps and lols and the leering observations of any woman that leaves a comment on here that is more revealing..."

But I am who I am I'm not ashamed to say I'm dyslexic as its not my fault. It's never got in the way of my job & iv a great career too! I used peeps once & lol a few times as it makes things more light hearted.

But again thanks for the input.

Think iv enough advise now so thanks all & lets put this thread to bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This statement:

"I prefer slim/curvy woman l like summit to hold onto so not stick woman pls. but not into big woman,sorry only being honest.".

The spelling is awful but that aside, what exactly are you looking for? You are seriously narrowing down the field and confusing women who might not realise whether they fit into you expectations.

Being honest, like you are, you stand no chance until you ease back on the demands. "

I thought this was a swing site not a bloody English lesson.

Thanks but leave it pls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only people that can halt a thread on this forum are the moderators.

You asked for opinions, you clearly do not like them and want to stop it.

At the end of the day what do you really want? Success at meets? How are you going to achieve that?

And it's not about the spelling, I pointed that out but set that aside. You have ignored the substance of what I said and diverted it back to the spelling.

I wish you all the best success in your search for what you are looking for.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"This statement:

"I prefer slim/curvy woman l like summit to hold onto so not stick woman pls. but not into big woman,sorry only being honest.".

The spelling is awful but that aside, what exactly are you looking for? You are seriously narrowing down the field and confusing women who might not realise whether they fit into you expectations.

Being honest, like you are, you stand no chance until you ease back on the demands.

I thought this was a swing site not a bloody English lesson.

Thanks but leave it pls "

It is indeed a swinging site, but it's one that, because of high male to low female ratios, is dependant on first impressions, those impressions are based on here via the written word, so your profile/posts/messages on a site like this, do give a better first impression when well written in English. I'm not perfect, as I'm dyslexic too, so I have to take a little more time and care when composing my responses, that's all it takes

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I didn't see any confusion in the slim/curvy line. A curvy figure is usually defined by an hourglass shape women of all sizes can represent it, he just prefers ladies that are slim with it, so someone like myself that larger with an hourglass figure would pass him by, so I think it's a very useful line to have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But as you'll know some people who are dyslexic are better with there hands ie building making/things, rather than putting pen to paper.

Unfortunately it is what it is I try my best.


"This statement:

"I prefer slim/curvy woman l like summit to hold onto so not stick woman pls. but not into big woman,sorry only being honest.".

The spelling is awful but that aside, what exactly are you looking for? You are seriously narrowing down the field and confusing women who might not realise whether they fit into you expectations.

Being honest, like you are, you stand no chance until you ease back on the demands.

I thought this was a swing site not a bloody English lesson.

Thanks but leave it pls

It is indeed a swinging site, but it's one that, because of high male to low female ratios, is dependant on first impressions, those impressions are based on here via the written word, so your profile/posts/messages on a site like this, do give a better first impression when well written in English. I'm not perfect, as I'm dyslexic too, so I have to take a little more time and care when composing my responses, that's all it takes"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy you will need to prepare your self for being treated like crap.

Looked down upon like your some irritant..

Every single man on here serves only a few purpose's.

And that is.. To be shunned and ignored or insulted by people who think thy are hot... But really are not!

The other purpose is... I haven't found it yet

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"As a single guy you will need to prepare your self for being treated like crap.

Looked down upon like your some irritant..

Every single man on here serves only a few purpose's.

And that is.. To be shunned and ignored or insulted by people who think thy are hot... But really are not!

The other purpose is... I haven't found it yet

"

You sound just ever so slightly bitter and even dejected.

It hasn't been my experience at all on this amazing site..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously you are a much better man then me..

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...


"As a single guy you will need to prepare your self for being treated like crap.

Looked down upon like your some irritant..

Every single man on here serves only a few purpose's.

And that is.. To be shunned and ignored or insulted by people who think thy are hot... But really are not!

The other purpose is... I haven't found it yet

"

Awww Without single guys this site would be a LOT less appealing. I hope I've never been guilty of treating anyone in an insulting manner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha I actually know what U mean.

U referring to the ones u actually wouldn't let within 100 yards of your bed but cos them said ppl are getting so much attention off men ' that would shag anything' they think there really too good for u lol.


"As a single guy you will need to prepare your self for being treated like crap.

Looked down upon like your some irritant..

Every single man on here serves only a few purpose's.

And that is.. To be shunned and ignored or insulted by people who think thy are hot... But really are not!

The other purpose is... I haven't found it yet

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Obviously you are a much better man then me..

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I've found that a positive attitude really helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

MODS pls can you close my thread or delete it.

Thankyou

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By *eekayCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hi,

As a single guy you are one of many. My opinion is that people will look first at your profile pic then click on you if intrigued then scan down to your other pics and then read your profile if interested.......well this is what we do.

So, I think your profile pic is too dark and unappealing, plus you will need other pics on your profile page too.

Yes, it's difficult and you won't appeal to everyone, that's impossible. Try some pics wearing clothes, a suit etc.....some alluring and teasing pics.

Get on the forums too, it helps 'boost' your presence.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Hahaha I actually know what U mean.

U referring to the ones u actually wouldn't let within 100 yards of your bed but cos them said ppl are getting so much attention off men ' that would shag anything' they think there really too good for u lol.

As a single guy you will need to prepare your self for being treated like crap.

Looked down upon like your some irritant..

Every single man on here serves only a few purpose's.

And that is.. To be shunned and ignored or insulted by people who think thy are hot... But really are not!

The other purpose is... I haven't found it yet

"

Oh you REALLY aren't making a good job of selling yourself on here.

No wonder you regret starting this thread and want to close it down...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for the good advice


"Hi,

As a single guy you are one of many. My opinion is that people will look first at your profile pic then click on you if intrigued then scan down to your other pics and then read your profile if interested.......well this is what we do.

So, I think your profile pic is too dark and unappealing, plus you will need other pics on your profile page too.

Yes, it's difficult and you won't appeal to everyone, that's impossible. Try some pics wearing clothes, a suit etc.....some alluring and teasing pics.

Get on the forums too, it helps 'boost' your presence."

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Oh you are priceless!

This is the thread of the week!

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Ok thanks for reading my status, I'm new on here & I'll be honest I'm finding it hard to get contact with peeps, I'm very chatty & not 'seedy' but still no response! so is it my profile? It was blank but iv uploaded pics, filled abit in about myself but still nowt!

Unless I smell iv no idea lol

Any ideas or feedback?

Thanks

Less of the "lol" and improve your spelling and grammar. Without wanting to be too unpleasant, your profile does make you sound a bit of a caveman. That might well appeal to some."

Grammar & spelling badly is an instant turn off for me. As is the broad age range - tighten it up.

Do NOT fget rid of the nipple pic. I love mens nipples ?? & rather a nip than a cock pic

Good luck

Mrs _d40 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think your profile is fine sure meets will come along soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What r u like the victor meldrew of fab?

Chill out man!


"Oh you are priceless!

This is the thread of the week! "

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"What r u like the victor meldrew of fab?

Chill out man!

Oh you are priceless!

This is the thread of the week! "

I'm chilled...and amused.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We think your profile is fine sure meets will come along soon"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile to me reads like it is very much what you want rather than what you can offer a lady or couple if you understand what I mean.

Your a man's man, what do you mean by that, and you have a bucket list. That's great but what do you offer in return, what sort of people do you look for and like?

Pic wise, the chest ones are ok, not too sure about the nipple myself. Women like to see bodies, bums, teasing pics as well

Oh and would you really meet a 99 year old for sex?"

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Ok thanks for reading my status, I'm new on here & I'll be honest I'm finding it hard to get contact with peeps, I'm very chatty & not 'seedy' but still no response! so is it my profile? It was blank but iv uploaded pics, filled abit in about myself but still nowt!

Unless I smell iv no idea lol

Any ideas or feedback?

Thanks

Less of the "lol" and improve your spelling and grammar. Without wanting to be too unpleasant, your profile does make you sound a bit of a caveman. That might well appeal to some.

Grammar & spelling badly is an instant turn off for me. As is the broad age range - tighten it up.

Do NOT fget rid of the nipple pic. I love mens nipples ?? & rather a nip than a cock pic

Good luck

Mrs _d40 x"

It was a different one closeup and hes removed it. It was adding nothing as he already has one which is much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, your posts on this thread tell me much more about your personality than the text on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"OP, your posts on this thread tell me much more about your personality than the text on your profile."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha thanks. Feel free to inbox me if u wish


"Bringon btw your pics r amazing! Them boobs

Not seedy???

Hahahaha shhhhh!!!

Thanks for the compliment, I don't mind people perving over them, after all, we have put the pics up "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha thanks. Feel free to inbox me if u wish

Bringon btw your pics r amazing! Them boobs

Not seedy???

Hahahaha shhhhh!!!

Thanks for the compliment, I don't mind people perving over them, after all, we have put the pics up "

Ummm, no thanks. I don't mind people looking at our pics but we are not wanting single guys which is why they are blocked. Plus I don't need to, this is a forum, I have said my bit on this thread, no need for more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not a problem, enjoy your night


"Haha thanks. Feel free to inbox me if u wish

Bringon btw your pics r amazing! Them boobs

Not seedy???

Hahahaha shhhhh!!!

Thanks for the compliment, I don't mind people perving over them, after all, we have put the pics up

Ummm, no thanks. I don't mind people looking at our pics but we are not wanting single guys which is why they are blocked. Plus I don't need to, this is a forum, I have said my bit on this thread, no need for more."

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

As you can see, people will have different ideas of what they like and don't like. You won't please everyone so it is pointless trying.

Most women and couples write what they want on a profile and don't get told it is demanding. You have every right to do the same. I do think sometimes men are treated like second class citizens on here with a set of different " rules " Lots of people sprinkle threads with nice tits/ cock etc, you are on an adult site where most things go, so don't be put off by speaking how you want to.

Maybe just take the advice you are happy with and ignore the rest, as getting advice doesn't mean you have to accept it.

Good luck

As you want it shutting I will

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