FabSwingers.com forum: New to this

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm new to this and wondered if there's any advice when it comes to messaging others on here. I really don't want to waste anyone's time with the boring 'how are you?' messages etc. so any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Amy advice on my profile would be greatly welcomed as well.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I understand the line in your second paragraph that starts clubs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for letting me know about that. It was a typo.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would get rid off the Edmond part of your final sentence.

Many people find negativity off putting.

As far as messages go... Make sure you choose a couple/lady that is likely to be right for you. Read their profile and in your message say why you specifically contacted them.

Most will want you to include a face photo.

Oh and don't be offended if you don't get a reply, it just means they are not interested.

Best of luck

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Edmond! Where dud the come from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm new to this and wondered if there's any advice when it comes to messaging others on here. I really don't want to waste anyone's time with the boring 'how are you?' messages etc. so any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Amy advice on my profile would be greatly welcomed as well.

Thanks"

Rewrite your profile. There really is nothing there of substance. Your first sentence is redundant as age, location etc is all viewable in any event.

What makes you special? Sell yourself. You aren't distinguishable from the 1,000's of other single males clearly looking for sex with anyone. If you have a personality, show it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion, if you can only muster a 'hi, how are you?' In an opening message then you aren't either reading their profile properly to find some common ground, or there isn't any common ground between you. If the later is the case, then maybe they aren't the right people for you to be messaging in the first place.

As you have asked for critique of your profile..... You can guarantee? Etc seems too cocky, in the sense of, past confident, though not quite hit arrogant yet.

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