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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Obviously this is a sex site but what is the best way to meet others on here. Thanks in anticipation.

Andy

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It's a swingers site not a sex site.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Organised socials, clubs or by directly messaging people . The latter is notoriously unsuccessful for single men apparently.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are always a good, inexpensive way to meet people.

The forums are also a good way to get noticed and get your personality across a bit more.

If you're looking for meets off the site then a good set of pics are needed and a profile that shows some effort has been made. Be polite and remember that just because it's a sex site women won't fuck anything and aren't free prostitutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swingers site not a sex site."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Make friends and have swx with them or have sex with them and make friends or make friends and not have sex with them or have sex with them and not make friends via socials, clubs and messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a swingers site where the main aim is to meet others and maybe have sex with them

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By *rucker1111Man
over a year ago

crewe


"It's a swingers site where the main aim is to meet others and maybe have sex with them "

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By *rucker1111Man
over a year ago

crewe

Wots up with people abit of common curtisty not to much to ask a sex site indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wots up with people abit of common curtisty not to much to ask a sex site indeed "

indeed, plenty of haters on here with nothing better to do than be bitter and twisted. Spread the love guys

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton


"It's a swingers site not a sex site."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously this is a sex site but what is the best way to meet others on here. Thanks in anticipation.

Andy"
offer money ,flowers and cake oh and blank avatar really ????

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Wots up with people abit of common curtisty not to much to ask a sex site indeed

indeed, plenty of haters on here with nothing better to do than be bitter and twisted. Spread the love guys"

Well yours is the only post in this thread that is slagging other people off, so maybe you should take your own advice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your just after sex then all the best in the world to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat everyone as you would if you met them face to face. Nobody likes being treated as a piece of meat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmm I haven't started off too well have I. It was not my intention to hurt anyone's feelings on here and I can see why I have started a hornets nest for which I apologize to all that feel aggrieved by my insensitive question. I know that it Is a swingers site obviously and I realise I should have rephrased my question - hindsight is a wonderful thing. For those that offered constructive advice I thank you for others I am sorry.

Andy

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Hmm I haven't started off too well have I. It was not my intention to hurt anyone's feelings on here and I can see why I have started a hornets nest for which I apologize to all that feel aggrieved by my insensitive question. I know that it Is a swingers site obviously and I realise I should have rephrased my question - hindsight is a wonderful thing. For those that offered constructive advice I thank you for others I am sorry.

Andy"

Take no notice.

Your question was asked in good faith; the responses of the usual suspects shouldn't put you off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Many thanks for that and if I am lucky enough to 'Swing' preferably not from a tree when I get linched I'll have you to thank for it. I owe you one...

Andy

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

DJoe's right, most of what's said is tongue in cheek

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't worry I'm not easily offended if I was I wouldn't have come on here though that is yet to happen - come that is

Andy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

prefer my tongue somewhere else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously this is a sex site but what is the best way to meet others on here. Thanks in anticipation.

Andy"
well fully clothed and in public

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Obviously this is a sex site but what is the best way to meet others on here. Thanks in anticipation.

Andy"

You can indeed get a lot of attention purely from messaging.

The best way, my friend, is to stand out from the crowd in a good way.

The best way to do that on a swingers site is to not be sexual.

If it is possible, remove your genitals before coming onto the site. You'll do better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My genitals have been removed any lovely ladies available to initiate me into the fold or folds whichever the case may be....

Andy

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"It's a swingers site where the main aim is to meet others and maybe have sex with them "
keyword there is 'maybe'

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"My genitals have been removed any lovely ladies available to initiate me into the fold or folds whichever the case may be....

Andy"

Sounds painful. The cock pics are still there though (my eyes, my eyes), unless you've put up two pics of your pet rabbit, but he looks remarkably like a penis. It's not the most flattering shots of a pet rabbit I've seen either. .

Seriously though, you need a decent profile with pics and something that tells people about your personality. Yours doesn't.

I don't think people were out of order really. You haven't offended anyone though, so don't apologise. People are very direct if asked for advice - the reason is that there's an endless stream of blokes asking for profile help. Very many of them don't act on that help and change anything, or get a bit shirty (which obviously isn't you). They invariably come back a month later asking the same thing, or moaning about the site and its members. .

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)


"It's a swingers site not a sex site."

Hope you have realised your mistake OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swingers site where the main aim is to meet others and maybe have sex with them keyword there is 'maybe' "
hey don't you just hate that word maybe

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Hey Andy

Remove your 2 public cock pictures. 99% of women on here don't want to see just cock. Put some other pics on, chest, back, shoulder, eyes, legs...anything to show your type of body.

Your profile wording is poor, therefore women assume your bedroom performance will also be the same.

You wrote an eloquent apology, you can obviously string a sentence together. Read a few couples profiles to get an idea of what to include on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Once again thank you to everyone who has taken the time to give me advice I will get round to changing my profile soon...

Andy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is sex lol ,it's not a coffee club ,,why do you think most people are on here for lol yes there is the social side of it ,but it all boils down to pure sex ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many thanks for that and if I am lucky enough to 'Swing' preferably not from a tree when I get linched I'll have you to thank for it. I owe you one...

Andy"

Best of luck mate you seem genuine and nice. Happy swinging

From Mr

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Swinging is sex lol ,it's not a coffee club ,,why do you think most people are on here for lol yes there is the social side of it ,but it all boils down to pure sex ..."

I've made a great coffee club out of Fab

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By *iccii69Man
over a year ago

Surrey

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By *iccii69Man
over a year ago

Surrey

I appreciate the best way to meet people is to get out there and go to clubs for far greater success, however i also think that a lot of guys on this site do not help themselves due to a lack of common manners.

Too many times when in a chatroom, directing or not, i constantly see the use of the C-word. for me, it's not a good word to use, even in a chatroom environment.

Then comes the constant lack of the words, 'please' and 'thank you'. two very important words in my eyes.

irrespective of man, woman or couple, everyone deserves the right to be treated with respect.

lets remember one thing, everyone on this site is someones son/daughter, brother/sister, mum/dad etc.....

rant over

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