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By *iceguy_rythem OP   Man
over a year ago

royston

Hello..

Any help or suggestion is highly welcomed. Its been 4 long weeks here with only one normal reply and no luck what so ever. Is it very hard n difficult for a newbie to be noticed here or no one prefers a newbie.

Any word of suggestion or encouragement is greatly required.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You been here a month and no success?maybe your expectations are a tad high.Its a cockfest on here and your one of thousands of single men among the ladies and cpls that number far fewer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You been here a month and no success?maybe your expectations are a tad high.Its a cockfest on here and your one of thousands of single men among the ladies and cpls that number far fewer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You been here a month and no success?maybe your expectations are a tad high.Its a cockfest on here and your one of thousands of single men among the ladies and cpls that number far fewer.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You're in competition with loads of other men. Men with public photos.....men who can accommodate.....men with full profiles.....men with realistic expectations.....does that clue you in?

It is difficult starting, so you need to make sure everything is top notch and be resilient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too high on expectations?

Too low on content, pics, offers?

You need to redress the balance and then go forward afresh!

Start by reading some of the many many more of the similar posts. Don't be like the hundreds who write these posts and don't act on them, or nothing will change!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're in competition with loads of other men. Men with public photos.....men who can accommodate.....men with full profiles.....men with realistic expectations.....does that clue you in?

It is difficult starting, so you need to make sure everything is top notch and be resilient. "

I'm impressed you didn't mention bad grammar/spelling and txt spk

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

They're all right n everything

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You're in competition with loads of other men. Men with public photos.....men who can accommodate.....men with full profiles.....men with realistic expectations.....does that clue you in?

It is difficult starting, so you need to make sure everything is top notch and be resilient.

I'm impressed you didn't mention bad grammar/spelling and txt spk "

Do I really need to explain that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello..

Any help or suggestion is highly welcomed. Its been 4 long weeks here with only one normal reply and no luck what so ever. Is it very hard n difficult for a newbie to be noticed here or no one prefers a newbie.

Any word of suggestion or encouragement is greatly required.

Xxx"

Single guys out number anyone else on this site. Some go months and months without a meet. You need to get yourself to an organised social. I know where I am a friend of ours organises a single social where you don't need to be verified. You just need to make yourself stand out and make people want to meet you x

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Hello..

Any help or suggestion is highly welcomed. Its been 4 long weeks here with only one normal reply and no luck what so ever. Is it very hard n difficult for a newbie to be noticed here or no one prefers a newbie.

Any word of suggestion or encouragement is greatly required.

Xxx

Single guys out number anyone else on this site. Some go months and months without a meet. You need to get yourself to an organised social. I know where I am a friend of ours organises a single social where you don't need to be verified. You just need to make yourself stand out and make people want to meet you x"

- this

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Hello..

Any help or suggestion is highly welcomed. Its been 4 long weeks here with only one normal reply and no luck what so ever. Is it very hard n difficult for a newbie to be noticed here or no one prefers a newbie.

Any word of suggestion or encouragement is greatly required.

Xxx"

You got a reply???!

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By *iceguy_rythem OP   Man
over a year ago

royston

Thanks for the tip..

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By *iceguy_rythem OP   Man
over a year ago

royston

Thanks for the tip..

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By *iceguy_rythem OP   Man
over a year ago

royston

Thanks for the tip..

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By *iceguy_rythem OP   Man
over a year ago

royston

Thanks..

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By *iceguy_rythem OP   Man
over a year ago

royston

Point noted..

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By *iceguy_rythem OP   Man
over a year ago

royston

Will do.. thanks..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

So now is your chance to sort things out....join in...start swinging...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi it's very hard for single guys I know this because I am a single guy, you best joining a swingers club,I met some lovely couples and made some great friends and soaped phone numbers and do private meets with the couples I meet at the club,I been on here since July and noluck I sent a ot of messages and they don't even reply to any of them,but if couples do want to meet you they can see you are genuine by the couples that have wrote about you on your profile.

Hope this is some help to you.

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By *iceguy_rythem OP   Man
over a year ago

royston

Thanks for kind words of encouragement and a brilliant advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just straight to point here bud, this is a sex site yet ladies want you to graft and when you do they are usually fat or a fake so watch who your talking to on thus bud

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

most people want to meet couples or single women ... you are in a minority and a greatly over subscribed to one at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just straight to point here bud, this is a sex site yet ladies want you to graft and when you do they are usually fat or a fake so watch who your talking to on thus bud "

And dont post anything like this if you do want a meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just straight to point here bud, this is a sex site yet ladies want you to graft and when you do they are usually fat or a fake so watch who your talking to on thus bud "

This from a "submissive"?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here for several months so after a rta made me a stay at home dad I can't even get the odd message back I just seem to get ignored grrrrrr

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Been on here for several months so after a rta made me a stay at home dad I can't even get the odd message back I just seem to get ignored grrrrrr"

You'd be better off starting your own thread rather than hi-jacking this one..

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

As a man it's hard for you here (no pun intended) to get noticed so you have to go the extra mile.

Get yourself to clubs or invited to a party. You need to socialise & introduce yourself, show people you aren't just a number, you are a person who could have something special to offer...

If invitations are slow for parties then host your own if you can. A sure fire way to get noticed.

Good luck

Mrs WD40

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

We were all new once, I'm not sure if you've changed your profile since your original post, a lot of folk check there before reading the message, there are countless threads offering generic profile advice in the archives ... Happy reading.

Luck has very very little to do with it though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello..

Any help or suggestion is highly welcomed. Its been 4 long weeks here with only one normal reply and no luck what so ever. Is it very hard n difficult for a newbie to be noticed here or no one prefers a newbie.

Any word of suggestion or encouragement is greatly required.

Xxx"

I've being on here awhile mate don't worry about it stick to your morals and standards and you will start making progress

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By *iceguy_rythem OP   Man
over a year ago

royston

Thanks for your advice...much appreciated.

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