FabSwingers.com forum: How to message a girl

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Need help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need help "

Dont, try messaging a woman, it will keep you out of jail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need help "

In what way?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need help

Dont, try messaging a woman, it will keep you out of jail"

Hes only 24 phrase's like girls are acceptable at his age

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ever time a message some 1 don't get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ever time a message some 1 don't get a reply "

Oooooo. I see. Read the site rules. No reply should be taken as a "no thank you."

It can be difficult but it's the way of the site.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ever time a message some 1 don't get a reply "

It happens don't take it personal

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Remove your status then read the profile of whoever you choose to message then if you match each other's requirements just write saying hi, you notice that you both like the same things would she be interested in taking it further...or words to that effect.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have only had 2 reply since I've been on here

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Need help "

Make sure you read her profile and try to personalise it or pick up on some points made on her profile text. Try to write a few sentences, (not just fancy a fuck) and don't copy and paste to mass mail lots of women. Good luck.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I have only had 2 reply since I've been on here "

It's not instashag, as a single guy odds are stacked against you. Men outnumber women on here. You will need to put in time and effort to stand out from the crowd and also have patience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a porno should I say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a porno should I say that "

Oh gosh.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ever time a message some 1 don't get a reply "

Message me I will reply back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont want to sound rude, but it might be obvious to someone you message that your profile is someone elses...that wont help..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have a porno should I say that "

How do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont want to sound rude, but it might be obvious to someone you message that your profile is someone elses...that wont help.."

I just read it.

Oh gosh.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I made a sex film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I made a sex film "

Fair play *beer*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I made a sex film "

and your profile?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I made a sex film "

If you feel that the women you're contacting will find it relevant or attractive yes, mention it.

The most important thing initially is to be yourself, women can spot it a mile off if you're not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do u mean

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What do u mean "

You need to use the reply+quote button so we know who you're talking to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do u mean "

i think thats another reference to 'your' profile..all someone has to go on on here is a profile, so if the profile is clearly someone elses then how can anyone make a decision to chat to you? its the same as having no profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude you've been verified twice by meets in the past 2 weeks... You're doing fine. Jesus Christ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hit and miss, sometimes you can pour your heart and soul (bit dramatic) into a message and not get a reply and sometimes a simple hello will get a reply, you should always try to put the effort in and make it personal to the girl your messaging, and don't worry about getting a message back, if you do... Jackpot if not into the next profile you go a d don't look back

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By *ts artMan
over a year ago

Londonderry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have read that profile before... Word for word... Except it has kinky where it now says cofi

Right your own maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have read that profile before... Word for word... Except it has kinky where it now says cofi

Right your own maybe? "

Oh dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proof read before you press send .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I thought I had problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two replies where one obviously turned into a meet..

Age does not matter although you have set an age limit...

Most women (girls) are not here to date...

Oh my the grammar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile doesn't really make sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have read that profile before... Word for word... Except it has kinky where it now says cofi

Right your own maybe? "

What's cofi ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have read that profile before... Word for word... Except it has kinky where it now says cofi

Right your own maybe?

What's cofi ?? "

its his name that he's using on his stolen profile text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have read that profile before... Word for word... Except it has kinky where it now says cofi

Right your own maybe?

What's cofi ??

its his name that he's using on his stolen profile text"

If it is stolen he could have picked a more eloquent profile..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's with the spelling... Shocking profile surprised you get anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's with the spelling... Shocking profile surprised you get anything."

he's changed it...the stolen one was a shining example of perfect english...thats why it screamed 'nicked!' when he wrote his own stuff on the forum...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's with the spelling... Shocking profile surprised you get anything.

he's changed it...the stolen one was a shining example of perfect english...thats why it screamed 'nicked!' when he wrote his own stuff on the forum..."

Right I get you now...still love the spelling of some words

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cofi mean the town I live in we all call our self cofi lad if u lived in Wales u would understand

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

This reminds me so much of my profile being stolen by another guy while still in the forum.

Everyone told him it was wrong but he didn't see it like that and thought it was perfectly ok to steal it.

I reported him.

36 hours later he was banned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To address your original question OP, be friendly, light hearted and consider her profile and stated likes and dislikes. You've mentioned on a few threads about your porn exploits, not a massive sell to be completely honest. Consider how you would go about striking up a conversation in a bar and deploy similar tactics. We women are tricky and changeable beasts so there is no 'one size fits all' approach. Remember you might see a profile and picture library that makes you think 'yup, I'd do that' and then banter starts and you realise she's as dull as ditch water. Just try to find out what they're about.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

"I have only had 2 reply since I've been on here "

Im gonna cry in a minute .. xx

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

"What's with the spelling... Shocking profile surprised you get anything."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need help "
just say "ello darlin get yer knickers orf " works every time

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Gizzafuckyabitch" type of message is not recommended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have read that profile before... Word for word... Except it has kinky where it now says cofi

Right your own maybe?

What's cofi ??

its his name that he's using on his stolen profile text

If it is stolen he could have picked a more eloquent profile.."

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cofi mean the town I live in we all call our self cofi lad if u lived in Wales u would understand "

Did you really steal someone's profile text , that's really cold dude ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need help "

you certainly do if your other thread is anything to go off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need help

you certainly do if your other thread is anything to go off

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hey he's doing really well a man with his perception is going to be a great asset to fab

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Need help

you certainly do if your other thread is anything to go off

Which one? He's got 5 on the go.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Need help

you certainly do if your other thread is anything to go off

Which one? He's got 5 on the go.

Are they his or somebody else's ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women not all ,love you to send them a pic of yer Dick and say would you like to slide down this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cofi mean the town I live in we all call our self cofi lad if u lived in Wales u would understand "

You're only wanting those who understand that? You know how to limit your target audience mate.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Cofi mean the town I live in we all call our self cofi lad if u lived in Wales u would understand

You're only wanting those who understand that? You know how to limit your target audience mate.

It's ok.

He has other area covered with his four other profiles..

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?"

His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile!

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!

"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?

His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile! "

Yes, I read that too.... feel there's both a bit of cut n pasting going on, and also beginning to think all is not what it seems down in Caernafon.... If ya get my drift.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?

His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile!

Yes, I read that too.... feel there's both a bit of cut n pasting going on, and also beginning to think all is not what it seems down in Caernafon.... If ya get my drift.....

You mean interbreeding down in Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ever time a message some 1 don't get a reply "

6 weeks and 3 verifications doesn't seem a bad return to be fair! You must have had some replied!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whos was the stolen profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read there profile cause 9 times out of 19 you aren't what they are looking for!! Just write a bit about yourself and show your human side!! But don't get down if you don't get a reply it's just one of them! But if you're nice and down to earth then they will most probably return!! I've made loads of friends since I've been here! This site isn't just about the "swinging" but it should be about having a laugh! And that's what I do ^.^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao!!!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?

His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile! "

I was stunned by the verification he supposedly wrote for his most recent meet. No way has the same person written the profile and that verification. Something weird going on! !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?

His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile!

I was stunned by the verification he supposedly wrote for his most recent meet. No way has the same person written the profile and that verification. Something weird going on! !!!"

Thats exactly what i thought

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

2 verifications for the same lady, written by 2 different people by the looks of things. A very hard to understand profile coupled with the number of similar threads by the OP goodness knows what to make of all this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This reminds me so much of my profile being stolen by another guy while still in the forum.

Everyone told him it was wrong but he didn't see it like that and thought it was perfectly ok to steal it.

I reported him.

36 hours later he was banned."

A couple of times my single profile text was stolen in its entirety & not even edited. I commented on the fact on the forum & was basically told I was being a big baby haha.

He might as well steal mine, others do. I'd like to see how he bastardises it with his awsum riting skilz

Mr J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 verifications for the same lady, written by 2 different people by the looks of things. A very hard to understand profile coupled with the number of similar threads by the OP goodness knows what to make of all this!!"

Op is taking the piss..he's playing people. Not as naive as he sounds..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?

His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile!

Yes, I read that too.... feel there's both a bit of cut n pasting going on, and also beginning to think all is not what it seems down in Caernafon.... If ya get my drift.....

He's probably "borrowed" it off someone else like he did with his previous profile text.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"This reminds me so much of my profile being stolen by another guy while still in the forum.

Everyone told him it was wrong but he didn't see it like that and thought it was perfectly ok to steal it.

I reported him.

36 hours later he was banned.

A couple of times my single profile text was stolen in its entirety & not even edited. I commented on the fact on the forum & was basically told I was being a big baby haha.

He might as well steal mine, others do. I'd like to see how he bastardises it with his awsum riting skilz

Mr J "

Well the guy who stole mine did so in mid session of a thread he'd started asking for help.

I noticed comments from others telling him how much better it was now, so I looked at it and found he'd lifted mine word for word.

The reaction of the forum was understandably hostile when I revealed his deception, but the amazing thing was that he didn't think he'd done anything wrong, and was just borrowing it until he wrote his own!

He got flamed after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a crack pot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?

His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile!

I was stunned by the verification he supposedly wrote for his most recent meet. No way has the same person written the profile and that verification. Something weird going on! !!!"

There's no way they were written by the same person

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?

His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile!

I was stunned by the verification he supposedly wrote for his most recent meet. No way has the same person written the profile and that verification. Something weird going on! !!!

There's no way they were written by the same person

I think the OP's borrowing habits are getting fully aired across all five of his current threads!

He's really not doing himself any favours here at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Sugat Tits , Fancy a fuck if not have you a Sister or is your Mum single ? anyway check out my sky remote cock pics

Later Bitch

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

"Need help "

Only one way to message a female, by fully reading a profile to ensure you are a full match, then talking to her as you would if you met her away from the site, i.e., by not talking to her pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you've been well and truly rumbled mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused by the drifnet.

Are you a deep sea fisherman OP?

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Or try this;

I've seen your profile, thought I'd say hello

You're a bit of all right, don't you know

I have a cock, hard, thick n juicy

I'd love to stick it up your wet pussy

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Or try this;

I've seen your profile, thought I'd say hello

You're a bit of all right, don't you know

I have a cock, hard, thick n juicy

I'd love to stick it up your wet pussy"

"Juicy" and "pussy"...do they rhyme?

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

"Or try this;

I've seen your profile, thought I'd say hello

You're a bit of all right, don't you know

I have a cock, hard, thick n juicy

I'd love to stick it up your wet pussy

"Juicy" and "pussy"...do they rhyme?"

Close enough...

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