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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm realistic and know that there is a lot of competition for Single men on here and i'm not going to be everyones type but I'm findding it almost impossibe to get noticed?

I've tried to write a decent profile, uploaded a few pictures, Even had a face picture as my profile pic for a while. Got Photo Verified, Got verified by a meet, i try to get noticed in the forums and I became a site supporter. I don't wan't this to aound like a rant because it isn't i'm just hoping to find some advice, tips or tricks!

Help please!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Maybe you could display the verification if it is a good one (which they invariably are).

It can't hurt to get an endorsement like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a boy band once said. "Have a little patience "

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

There are countless threads offering generic advice in the archives.. I'd read those they're a useful source of information... Happy reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm realistic and know that there is a lot of competition for Single men on here and i'm not going to be everyones type but I'm findding it almost impossibe to get noticed?

I've tried to write a decent profile, uploaded a few pictures, Even had a face picture as my profile pic for a while. Got Photo Verified, Got verified by a meet, i try to get noticed in the forums and I became a site supporter. I don't wan't this to aound like a rant because it isn't i'm just hoping to find some advice, tips or tricks!

Help please! "

I've noticed you

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

You profile comes across as a friendly guy looking for quality.

May I say, for me personally and quite a few Fabs ladies, that pics with others in them are not particularly favoured.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I'm realistic and know that there is a lot of competition for Single men on here and i'm not going to be everyones type but I'm findding it almost impossibe to get noticed?

I've tried to write a decent profile, uploaded a few pictures, Even had a face picture as my profile pic for a while. Got Photo Verified, Got verified by a meet, i try to get noticed in the forums and I became a site supporter. I don't wan't this to aound like a rant because it isn't i'm just hoping to find some advice, tips or tricks!

Help please!

I've noticed you "

Dude you just won Fab with that post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As stated having another in your profile could be frowned on. Also pic 2 looks like you have just climaxed over yourself. Not particularly attractive..

Get a photo editor app and play around with some pics...with a bit of patience you can get some great results which can make a difference (and shows originality, and the willingness to put in some effort)

Other than that, nothing wrong with your profile. Just remember that the ratios on here are way skewed even compared to real life so chill out and be patient. Let your personality shine through (unless you happen to be an arse, in which case be batman)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree I don't like to see others in pics unless you are a couple.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Dude build the profile slowly,be comfortable with what you add,if you wish to have another person in your photos then by all means do so it is after all your profile,add a bit at a time when you get a little bit more experienced,do not listen to people who post negative feedback as a hobby there are plenty of them on here.The most important thing is make sure that your profile is YOURS not what others want it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ant getting no were either is my profile any good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ant getting no were either is my profile any good x"

No. But if you want advice, don't hijack someone else's thread. And try a grammar and spell check first. "Sank?" Bit?"

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I ant getting no were either is my profile any good x

No. But if you want advice, don't hijack someone else's thread. And try a grammar and spell check first. "Sank?" Bit?""

Or you could avoid starting sentences with the word and.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou all for the advice, by the sounds of things my general profile text seems to be ok but my pictures and visuals need work, so I'l look at changing my gallery and uploading some new pictures.

Im a patient guy and i have all the time in the world so i have no problem waiting to find meets. I'l just keep trying to catch someones eye ?

I appreciate you all taking the time to look at my profile and to reply here. I know there are a lot of these threads so its very boring and repetetive so thank you all of you!

Happy Fabbing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

You're most welcome Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ant getting no were either is my profile any good x

No. But if you want advice, don't hijack someone else's thread. And try a grammar and spell check first. "Sank?" Bit?"

Or you could avoid starting sentences with the word and. "

I'm not that pedantic (but starting a sentence with the word "or" might be considered bad form, too)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ant getting no were either is my profile any good x

No. But if you want advice, don't hijack someone else's thread. And try a grammar and spell check first. "Sank?" Bit?"

Or you could avoid starting sentences with the word and.

I'm not that pedantic (but starting a sentence with the word "or" might be considered bad form, too)"

Haha! I do enjoy the grammar police.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Have you changed your username recently OP from something with the word Donkey DILF or words like in it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ant getting no were either is my profile any good x

No. But if you want advice, don't hijack someone else's thread. And try a grammar and spell check first. "Sank?" Bit?"

Or you could avoid starting sentences with the word and.

I'm not that pedantic (but starting a sentence with the word "or" might be considered bad form, too)

Haha! I do enjoy the grammar police. "

It is always contentious, isn't it? However, bad spelling or grammar does put a proportion of people off so why alienate that proportion? It is easy enough to carry out a check. If you think, "Fuck it, I hate people who prefer good spelling," then that is fine. If, on the other hand, you think, "I would rather appear attractive to a wider proportion of the folk here," then you know what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm realistic and know that there is a lot of competition for Single men on here and i'm not going to be everyones type but I'm findding it almost impossibe to get noticed?

I've tried to write a decent profile, uploaded a few pictures, Even had a face picture as my profile pic for a while. Got Photo Verified, Got verified by a meet, i try to get noticed in the forums and I became a site supporter. I don't wan't this to aound like a rant because it isn't i'm just hoping to find some advice, tips or tricks!

Help please!

I've noticed you

Dude you just won Fab with that post "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude build the profile slowly,be comfortable with what you add,if you wish to have another person in your photos then by all means do so it is after all your profile,add a bit at a time when you get a little bit more experienced,do not listen to people who post negative feedback as a hobby there are plenty of them on here.The most important thing is make sure that your profile is YOURS not what others want it to be. "

Some good points...but remember you ask for the feedbac when starting a thread like this. You just need to work out what is honest and constructive or just being rinsed for shits and giggles. Just because someone posts something negative, it may be for the benefit of the OP(eg..get rid of the 12 pics of you wanking or why do you say straight when all your veris are from ts/tv?).

Most do try and give objective advice dependant on what is presented.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Dude build the profile slowly,be comfortable with what you add,if you wish to have another person in your photos then by all means do so it is after all your profile,add a bit at a time when you get a little bit more experienced,do not listen to people who post negative feedback as a hobby there are plenty of them on here.The most important thing is make sure that your profile is YOURS not what others want it to be.

Some good points...but remember you ask for the feedbac when starting a thread like this. You just need to work out what is honest and constructive or just being rinsed for shits and giggles. Just because someone posts something negative, it may be for the benefit of the OP(eg..get rid of the 12 pics of you wanking or why do you say straight when all your veris are from ts/tv?).

Most do try and give objective advice dependant on what is presented.

"

get rid of the 12 wamking pix wouldn't be negative that would be constructive criticism,you get people that seem to live on the introduction forum that get their kicks out of chastising newbies looking for advice

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I'm realistic and know that there is a lot of competition for Single men on here and i'm not going to be everyones type but I'm findding it almost impossibe to get noticed?

I've tried to write a decent profile, uploaded a few pictures, Even had a face picture as my profile pic for a while. Got Photo Verified, Got verified by a meet, i try to get noticed in the forums and I became a site supporter. I don't wan't this to aound like a rant because it isn't i'm just hoping to find some advice, tips or tricks!

Help please!

I've noticed you

Dude you just won Fab with that post

"

no need to be bashful you're a frickin humdinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude build the profile slowly,be comfortable with what you add,if you wish to have another person in your photos then by all means do so it is after all your profile,add a bit at a time when you get a little bit more experienced,do not listen to people who post negative feedback as a hobby there are plenty of them on here.The most important thing is make sure that your profile is YOURS not what others want it to be.

Some good points...but remember you ask for the feedbac when starting a thread like this. You just need to work out what is honest and constructive or just being rinsed for shits and giggles. Just because someone posts something negative, it may be for the benefit of the OP(eg..get rid of the 12 pics of you wanking or why do you say straight when all your veris are from ts/tv?).

Most do try and give objective advice dependant on what is presented.

get rid of the 12 wamking pix wouldn't be negative that would be constructive criticism,you get people that seem to live on the introduction forum that get their kicks out of chastising newbies looking for advice"

I saw very little "negative" feedback on this thread. I saw much constructive criticism, which was welcomed by the OP. I suppose it is likely that any post asking for advice about a profile is likely to attract criticism (which is probably why I have never asked and have no intention of asking). I am sure that the OP would not have asked expecting platitudes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm realistic and know that there is a lot of competition for Single men on here and i'm not going to be everyones type but I'm findding it almost impossibe to get noticed?

I've tried to write a decent profile, uploaded a few pictures, Even had a face picture as my profile pic for a while. Got Photo Verified, Got verified by a meet, i try to get noticed in the forums and I became a site supporter. I don't wan't this to aound like a rant because it isn't i'm just hoping to find some advice, tips or tricks!

Help please!

I've noticed you

Dude you just won Fab with that post

no need to be bashful you're a frickin humdinger "

Thank you

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Dude build the profile slowly,be comfortable with what you add,if you wish to have another person in your photos then by all means do so it is after all your profile,add a bit at a time when you get a little bit more experienced,do not listen to people who post negative feedback as a hobby there are plenty of them on here.The most important thing is make sure that your profile is YOURS not what others want it to be.

Some good points...but remember you ask for the feedbac when starting a thread like this. You just need to work out what is honest and constructive or just being rinsed for shits and giggles. Just because someone posts something negative, it may be for the benefit of the OP(eg..get rid of the 12 pics of you wanking or why do you say straight when all your veris are from ts/tv?).

Most do try and give objective advice dependant on what is presented.

get rid of the 12 wamking pix wouldn't be negative that would be constructive criticism,you get people that seem to live on the introduction forum that get their kicks out of chastising newbies looking for advice

I saw very little "negative" feedback on this thread. I saw much constructive criticism, which was welcomed by the OP. I suppose it is likely that any post asking for advice about a profile is likely to attract criticism (which is probably why I have never asked and have no intention of asking). I am sure that the OP would not have asked expecting platitudes."

If you read my post to the OP you will see I tell him to ignore any negativity. I did not say there was a lot of negativity on this post in particular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have actually almost given up trying to approach ladies and couples now, its a waiting game yes im not everyonea cup of tea but there is someone for everyone on here, i have just not been that lucky yet. Saying that i have had a couple of meets, unfortunately they have now left therefor i cannot disay the veri

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"Thankyou all for the advice, by the sounds of things my general profile text seems to be ok but my pictures and visuals need work, so I'l look at changing my gallery and uploading some new pictures.

Im a patient guy and i have all the time in the world so i have no problem waiting to find meets. I'l just keep trying to catch someones eye ?

I appreciate you all taking the time to look at my profile and to reply here. I know there are a lot of these threads so its very boring and repetetive so thank you all of you!

Happy Fabbing!

"

This is constructive critism, but a lot of women are not keen on cock shots and that seems to be what most of yours are.

Try a photo in a suit, nice bum picture, something with taste gets more attention, also someone else in the picture does not go down very well.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have actually almost given up trying to approach ladies and couples now, its a waiting game yes im not everyonea cup of tea but there is someone for everyone on here, i have just not been that lucky yet. Saying that i have had a couple of meets, unfortunately they have now left therefor i cannot disay the veri "

The verification summary will show that you had veris even if they have left the site.

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