FabSwingers.com forum: Female FB wanted for newbie

By *nerealman100 OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Hiya, I'm pretty new to this I'm looking for a female to help broaden my horizons learn new things and have some regular fun with in and out of the bedroom, come have a look at my profile, message me and if there's any hints and tips on how to get some were on this site let me know? Willing to travel and photo available for friends (not into everyone looking at me just yet)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A public pic is really required dosent need to be a facepic but most people wont even look at a profile without any sort of pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A public pic is really required dosent need to be a facepic but most people wont even look at a profile without any sort of pics"
You ain't got none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A public pic is really required dosent need to be a facepic but most people wont even look at a profile without any sort of picsYou ain't got none

Im not looking... and this post isnt me asking for help is it

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"A public pic is really required dosent need to be a facepic but most people wont even look at a profile without any sort of picsYou ain't got none

Im not looking... and this post isnt me asking for help is it"

No you're no but there is a level of hypocrisy involved in telling people pics are important then having none public yourself

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

OP your profile is barely there all it, basically says is that your open minded, that you want fun, you want a FB, (news flash that's what most blokes say) nand you want people to message you then the cliche classic of "I won't bite unless you ask me to". It says really nothing as there's no personality involved, and it's all about you you you, what can you offer a lady

Yes you need some public pics the standard torso and bum shots are the usual crowd pleaders

Finally make sure you read the profile first before messaging the lady to make sure you match what she's looking for otherwise you won't get very far at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A public pic is really required dosent need to be a facepic but most people wont even look at a profile without any sort of picsYou ain't got none

Im not looking... and this post isnt me asking for help is it

No you're no but there is a level of hypocrisy involved in telling people pics are important then having none public yourself "

Not at all, he is looking for meets so pics are a big bonus on here to help get them, i am not and have removed my pics as they seem to still attract guys wanting to meet, im not the poster asking for help im merely telling him what numerous other people on other threads tell other posters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A public pic is really required dosent need to be a facepic but most people wont even look at a profile without any sort of picsYou ain't got none

Im not looking... and this post isnt me asking for help is it

No you're no but there is a level of hypocrisy involved in telling people pics are important then having none public yourself

I offer advice on pics... And I don't have any public... Because I'm not trying to attract anyone at the moment.. So I know what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A public pic is really required dosent need to be a facepic but most people wont even look at a profile without any sort of picsYou ain't got none

Im not looking... and this post isnt me asking for help is it

No you're no but there is a level of hypocrisy involved in telling people pics are important then having none public yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiya, I'm pretty new to this I'm looking for a female to help broaden my horizons learn new things and have some regular fun with in and out of the bedroom, come have a look at my profile, message me and if there's any hints and tips on how to get some were on this site let me know? Willing to travel and photo available for friends (not into everyone looking at me just yet)

You stand very little chance with such an unappealing profile and no pictures.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

"A public pic is really required dosent need to be a facepic but most people wont even look at a profile without any sort of picsYou ain't got none

Hahaha! This genuinely made me laugh out loud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah made me laugh too

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By *nerealman100 OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Thanks for your advice so far but what should I put in my profile then apart from a main profile pic. Yes I know that the bit about that I don't bite is a bit cheesey but I was trying to show I do have a sense of humour and not just a boring stick in the mud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one can tell you what to write because they don't know you. Maybe have a browse of profiles to get a sense of what others put it.. But don't just copy and paste!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Thanks for your advice so far but what should I put in my profile then apart from a main profile pic. Yes I know that the bit about that I don't bite is a bit cheesey but I was trying to show I do have a sense of humour and not just a boring stick in the mud.

I so understand that but it comes up so often on guys profiles using it as an attempt to show humour it does become quite boring

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"A public pic is really required dosent need to be a facepic but most people wont even look at a profile without any sort of picsYou ain't got none

Im not looking... and this post isnt me asking for help is it

No you're no but there is a level of hypocrisy involved in telling people pics are important then having none public yourself

Seems fine to me

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By *ickeyMan
over a year ago

Stroud

If you have no pics maybe you could get a veri from someone you have met? That in turn could lead towards getting the FB you desire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just thought...."good luck with this one mate...." Then giggled a bit!

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Still no public pics even though it's been suggested and say why you can't accommodate. Your status won't help your cause either imho

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By *ickeyMan
over a year ago

Stroud

Still no public pics even though it's been suggested and say why you can't accommodate. Your status won't help your cause either imho "

No pics & no veri's won't help .... you've been here for 4 months now ....not exactly a noob but no veri's yet ....

Have you thought of going to a club like chams & meeting people who will very you & possibly become a FB?

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Still no public pics even though it's been suggested and say why you can't accommodate. Your status won't help your cause either imho

No pics & no veri's won't help .... you've been here for 4 months now ....not exactly a noob but no veri's yet ....

Have you thought of going to a club like chams & meeting people who will very you & possibly become a FB?"

You meant this for the op?

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Honest advice this thread is a typical single guy mistake. 1. Spend 3-4 hours looking at profiles of women you want and make actual real notes of what the want and don't want in their profiles. Then using your own words and pictures build a profile that fulfils those needs.

2. Go to the gym or ride a bike or run. Do stuff that makes you look and feel fit and healthy.

3. Go to the dentist and hairdresser.

4. Go to clubs and socials keep your clothes on and be charming intelegent and funny.

5. Get verifications from nice couples and women that say you are charming intelegent funny, gym fit (but never talks about it) and have good hair and teeth.

Do all that and you will be a real asset to the swinging world, feel great and be knee deep in self respecting women for years.

It's a lifestyle

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

I don't think that referring to yourself as 'a cock' on your status will help your cause OP!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think that referring to yourself as 'a cock' on your status will help your cause OP!!!

Not at all, very off putting status. If I wanted a cock then I'd just play with a dildo, much less hassle than finding someone on here!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

There are countless threads all offering generic profile advice in the archives... Happy reading.

Or radical idea... Meet someone from your friends list.. just a thought.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

You're getting good advice on things you can fix fast. Like removing the current status reference to you as a cock, and the appalling I don't bite line, but you've done nothing about either of those...

Are you after advice or just attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just look for friends stay in the forums and there are some great people here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to have loads of interest, then i deleted loads of my pics due to my mates suspecting they had found my profile. I have to say, that is the reason my inbox is a ghost town now!

I posted a similar question and loads of girls said more pics basically.

Personally mate, i would stick some on. No need for face pics, send those private. No need for cock pics either some girls say.

I would also say, posting status updates helps get you viewed, as will forum posts.

Hope thats of help buddy!

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By *nerealman100 OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Thanks for the advice from everyone, put a profile pic going to have a go at rewriting some of my profile soon, not too good at that bit and I'm going to try and get some more pics up in the near future, just not good with taking them but will try thanks again

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