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Advice on messaging (ladies please)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey ladies

I am sending polite messages just seeing how the person is and if they fancy meeting up when they free for a coffee is that to forward or not good enough. I'm trying to be respectful and friendly but wanting to gain more attention

Please could you tell me what you think of my pictures. I don't have cock ones up as women can use their imagination.

Kind regards

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a good approach.

Noticed from your status you refer to women as 'females'. They're women. It might not seem important, but calling women 'females' is quite objectifying and it could make some think that you have a poor attitude towards women.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Sounds like a good approach.

Noticed from your status you refer to women as 'females'. They're women. It might not seem important, but calling women 'females' is quite objectifying and it could make some think that you have a poor attitude towards women."

. Hate being referred to as a female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a good approach.

Noticed from your status you refer to women as 'females'. They're women. It might not seem important, but calling women 'females' is quite objectifying and it could make some think that you have a poor attitude towards women."

Yes I see the 'female' thing and I instantly delete!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will change that and thank you didn't realise that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Deleted status and changed. What else can I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember the women you are messaging just might not fancy you.. plain and simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at their profile and tailor your message to suit them, each message will be different for each woman as they will want different things. If your message is deleted or ignored don't take it personally they just aren't interested and you just have to move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Remember the women you are messaging just might not fancy you.. plain and simple"

I understand that is a possibility of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look at their profile and tailor your message to suit them, each message will be different for each woman as they will want different things. If your message is deleted or ignored don't take it personally they just aren't interested and you just have to move on "

Thank you jade and Liam

Yeah that is a good point. Would you suggest anything else I could do or add to my profile etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at their profile and tailor your message to suit them, each message will be different for each woman as they will want different things. If your message is deleted or ignored don't take it personally they just aren't interested and you just have to move on

Thank you jade and Liam

Yeah that is a good point. Would you suggest anything else I could do or add to my profile etc"

I would also say that the fact you can't accomodate may put some people off, maybe elaborate on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could I get some feedback?

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