FabSwingers.com forum: y do bi men get no msg from women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes im bi but i dont get any girls looking at me, any thoughts?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"yes im bi but i dont get any girls looking at me, any thoughts?

I'd look towards your own profile for the answer to that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably nothing to do with being bi!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

You have no information on profile and no pictures

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Nothing to look at....

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I replied to a message from a bi guy on here and now we are a couple. I liked his profile and his pictures, and more than anything I liked his messages ... we had loads in common, including our lifestyles. So ....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im bi and I have had over 30 messages this evening!

It does help if you are active in the forums, oh and have a half decent profile yourself.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I thought u would b inundated with messages.cos d amount that want 3 sums with 2 bi guys unbelievable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks fo the advice

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Maybe it's because the ratios of men to women on here are insane?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's almost nothing on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so what should i do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so what should i do?

Well given you're supposedly bi, I'd remove or change the line that says you are straight. You need some pictures too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i said im straight looking im a normal bloke who likes both sexs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have some pictures for a start, why would someone want to waste time messaging someone that has no pictures when they can message profiles that have pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes im bi but i dont get any girls looking at me, any thoughts?

You've no pictures at all.

Women dont tend to waste the time asking for pics if they aren't there as there are 10,000 male profiles with pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so what should i do?

Write a profile and take some flattering pictures of yourself (not your cock).

If you want messages from women and couples, popping a frock on works for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

wow you look amazing

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Photos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most woman look but you can't see they're looking.. But yes.. Nothing there to look at anyway... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wow you look amazing

Was that that for thx118?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

id dial ur number any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so what should i do?

Write a profile and take some flattering pictures of yourself (not your cock).

If you want messages from women and couples, popping a frock on works for me

Yes but rach we are only perving your sexy pins!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get some photos, some decent informative stuff on your profile, and try to show some humour..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

good advice thanks sexy

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I love bi guys but your profile says looking for couples, has no pics and barely any content.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

OP do you know what the No. 1 most off putting thing on fab is?

A silhouette avatar.

Gal Gadot, Natalie Dormer and Zoe Saldana couldn't even get laid on here with a silhoutte avatar and no pictures, so why do you think you can?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

You say that you don't get women looking but in your profile you say you're looking for a couple with a bi male so this kind of describes your priorities.

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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Having photos and lots of content, you still get very few messages and even less responses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hey ur right,id just like to feel a cock in me an my cock in a women, wouldent you like that?

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By *im himCouple (MM)
over a year ago

bedworth

We get loads

well not loads but enough for us to contend with . Keep them comin though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"id dial ur number any day

Use the quote button so people know who you are commenting on/replying to

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"yes im bi but i dont get any girls looking at me, any thoughts?

There's not much for them to look at.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I like bi men, but wouldn't message you because you're looking for couples and you have no pics.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

"i said im straight looking im a normal bloke who likes both sexs

Is there a straight look and a bi look then?

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

As others have said, your profile says looking for couples or men, so why are you complaining about the one group your not looking for (females) not messaging you.

Also, your profile is poor, theres no pictures, and as above person mentioned no avatar picture, this does put people off.

My recommendation, spend a while focusing on how to improve your profile text, take some good quality clear pictures, alter sections in your profile to include looking for women if you are looking. Send out well thought messages detailing bits from their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i said im straight looking im a normal bloke who likes both sexs

What does straight look like?

Do bisexual men look different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think people meed a tad more to go on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i said im straight looking im a normal bloke who likes both sexs

What does straight look like?

Do bisexual men look different?"

Thats what I'm wondering too

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

"yes im bi but i dont get any girls looking at me, any thoughts?

Your profile doesn't tell me much and there's no pics so I just wouldn't bother looking

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

The fact that you're listed as no sexual but then go on to say you're straight in the profile text could be confusing for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact that you're listed as no sexual but then go on to say you're straight in the profile text could be confusing for some "

He said 'straight looking'. Not straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aka 'straight acting'.

Used to see this term a lot in the old classifieds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the fact he has used 'y' instead of 'why' in the title !!

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

"yes im bi but i dont get any girls looking at me, any thoughts?

I get lots of interest from couples and single females lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes im bi but i dont get any girls looking at me, any thoughts?

You've no pictures at all.

Women dont tend to waste the time asking for pics if they aren't there as there are 10,000 male profiles with pics"

They're more visually stimulatedthan tthey'd admit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like the fact he has used 'y' instead of 'why' in the title !!

I don't like being so close without a hot outfit to wear

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I don't like the fact he has used 'y' instead of 'why' in the title !!

I don't like being so close without a hot outfit to wear

Well I missed it so confused me and emphasised my point really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised there haven't been a lot put on the naughty step for making comments about his profile without him asking.... thought it was against site rules or are they being selective with whom they apply them too? Must be some new years resolutions by Fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like the fact he has used 'y' instead of 'why' in the title !!

I don't like being so close without a hot outfit to wear

Well I missed it so confused me and emphasised my point really "

Ha ha just wear nothing!!! I am!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I'm surprised there haven't been a lot put on the naughty step for making comments about his profile without him asking.... thought it was against site rules or are they being selective with whom they apply them too? Must be some new years resolutions by Fab lol

He did ask half way through the thread or implied he asked in saying "what can I do?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought the 'any thoughts' in the Op and him specifically asking about himself would be asking for comments on his profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no pictures on your profile.

I hate messaging to ask for pics- we get a lot of messages from men so if there's genuine interest, don't make me go hunting to see what you look like. there's a public picture option on profiles! you should use it, it'll help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like the fact he has used 'y' instead of 'why' in the title !!

I don't like being so close without a hot outfit to wear

Well I missed it so confused me and emphasised my point really

Ha ha just wear nothing!!! I am!"

But I'm sooooo shy

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