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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning all,

So I've been on the site a fair while now and was wondering where am going wrong? I always read profiles to the last letter and always try and send decent messages. Yet many fem profiles simply deleted and move on and the same has to be said about couple profiles.

So my question is:

Are people really looking to meet single men? Or is it a site that can be used to fuel fantasy, yet hold off from reality?

Either way, I do enjoy being on the site, but like many others would love to have new experiences!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have and do meet single guys but there are so many to choose from we really can cherry pic. If you dont stand out or have a particularly interesting point then we will pass you by. For us the pic of you in the tux would put us off as Emily doesnt like guys in suits. Others would see that as a selling point. The fact is you cant please all of the people all of the time. As profiles go yours isnt bad but it is generic and heard it all before. Sorry no offence intended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile looks ok to me, perhaps a few pic's more ( not cock pic's ). But as above so many men on here, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing for single men is not rely on these sites to find fun not saying that you do. But these sites can be quite harsh for single men. Females can be quite picky purely down to men out numbering them, nothing to do with what they look like. Females with no pics and nothing on there profiles still get a lot messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most often given advice for single guys Seems to be go to a club, talk to people,maybe get a vari or two like met this nice guy

Your pics don't excite soz

My wife said, what was he thinking.

Hope you get some fun m8

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The full frontal.....what were your expectations when you posted that photo?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone.

From my point of view the site is not all about meeting etc. I'd also like to think that there is a "social" side of it i.e chatting online etc.

Appreciate the feedback on the profile... Some food for thought and absolutely no offence taken from any of the posts! We are all human, all have individual preferences and as pointed it.... Can't win em all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The full frontal.....what were your expectations when you posted that photo? "

It was posted as a few people had asked for it before. No expectations whatsoever.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"The full frontal.....what were your expectations when you posted that photo?

It was posted as a few people had asked for it before. No expectations whatsoever."

Fair enough. Consider posting a variety of photos that leave something for the imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best thing for single men is not rely on these sites to find fun not saying that you do. But these sites can be quite harsh for single men. Females can be quite picky purely down to men out numbering them, nothing to do with what they look like. Females with no pics and nothing on there profiles still get a lot messages lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is saturated with men, so it is mostly by luck, patience is the key.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The site is saturated with men, so it is mostly by luck, patience is the key."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have and do meet single guys but there are so many to choose from we really can cherry pic. If you dont stand out or have a particularly interesting point then we will pass you by. For us the pic of you in the tux would put us off as Emily doesnt like guys in suits. Others would see that as a selling point. The fact is you cant please all of the people all of the time. As profiles go yours isnt bad but it is generic and heard it all before. Sorry no offence intended."

Thanks for the tips xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My perspective is that the pics could do with some work. I like the fact that you have no cock pics up but a few teasing ones, bum etc is always nice to see. Are you really ample in size? I wouldn't say so from the pics.

As others have said women and couples can literally cherry pick from the men on here, I don't usually meet men, but the ones I chat with are the guys I've spoken with from the social side, the forums etc, and yes I have met a couple of them. I normally meet in clubs so that may be a good place for you to go, its social and you can get veri's from there which ladies and couples always like too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My perspective is that the pics could do with some work. I like the fact that you have no cock pics up but a few teasing ones, bum etc is always nice to see. Are you really ample in size? I wouldn't say so from the pics.

As others have said women and couples can literally cherry pick from the men on here, I don't usually meet men, but the ones I chat with are the guys I've spoken with from the social side, the forums etc, and yes I have met a couple of them. I normally meet in clubs so that may be a good place for you to go, its social and you can get veri's from there which ladies and couples always like too."

Aww thanks for the advice.... It's really appreciated

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