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"Damn it. You sound like the ideal couple for me "Definitely a shame xx | |||
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"Very interested x" and me..please.. | |||
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"It's definitely challenging but not giving up hope just yet. Not really into the club scene, scares the living daylights out of us in the event of bumping into people we know lol. I'm sure there are some shy girls out there, we don't bite (much) xxx" The main fear of clubs for most is of bumping into someone you know ...... but you would all be in the same boat  | |||
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Also to point out that size 18 is not far off average, you are not as large as you think (and yes there are people that prefer larger than smaller bodies). Lastly! You have only been on for a few weeks so don't give up just yet. Make the most you can to get some exposure, whether it's doing your own searches, messaging women, posting on the forums, updating your pics etc. It is a numbers game to find the right person. Good luck! | |||
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"Join the club, we have been searching for that girl for ages but no luck. " Lol, I'm sure the wait will be worth it! If we can keep this thread going for a few years one of us may get lucky | |||
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"Join the club, we have been searching for that girl for ages but no luck. Lol, I'm sure the wait will be worth it! If we can keep this thread going for a few years one of us may get lucky "Fingers crossed | |||
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"Join the club, we have been searching for that girl for ages but no luck. Lol, I'm sure the wait will be worth it! If we can keep this thread going for a few years one of us may get lucky
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"If anyone has any success stories in finding a lady who's happy to 'soft swing' we'd love to hear them "I've had all my encounters with couples in clubs. I do love soft swing, I find it very erotic. | |||
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"If anyone has any success stories in finding a lady who's happy to 'soft swing' we'd love to hear them
I've had all my encounters with couples in clubs. I do love soft swing, I find it very erotic."Hurrah! Maybe we should just travel afar for a club where we won't know anyone . Sod's law everyone we know has the same idea  | |||
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"If anyone has any success stories in finding a lady who's happy to 'soft swing' we'd love to hear them
I've had all my encounters with couples in clubs. I do love soft swing, I find it very erotic.
Hurrah! Maybe we should just travel afar for a club where we won't know anyone . Sod's law everyone we know has the same idea "120 plus times in a club, once have we have bumped into someone we knew, we laughed about it, can't see why it would be a problem being seen by someone you know unless you are either an A list celebrity (plenty of b list & c list swing) or an MP Good luck xxx  | |||
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"If anyone has any success stories in finding a lady who's happy to 'soft swing' we'd love to hear them
I've had all my encounters with couples in clubs. I do love soft swing, I find it very erotic.
Hurrah! Maybe we should just travel afar for a club where we won't know anyone . Sod's law everyone we know has the same idea
120 plus times in a club, once have we have bumped into someone we knew, we laughed about it, can't see why it would be a problem being seen by someone you know unless you are either an A list celebrity (plenty of b list & c list swing) or an MP
Good luck xxx "Haha, definitely not celebrities! But it definitely would not be looked upon favourably in my profession | |||
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"If anyone has any success stories in finding a lady who's happy to 'soft swing' we'd love to hear them
I've had all my encounters with couples in clubs. I do love soft swing, I find it very erotic.
Hurrah! Maybe we should just travel afar for a club where we won't know anyone . Sod's law everyone we know has the same idea
120 plus times in a club, once have we have bumped into someone we knew, we laughed about it, can't see why it would be a problem being seen by someone you know unless you are either an A list celebrity (plenty of b list & c list swing) or an MP
Good luck xxx
Haha, definitely not celebrities! But it definitely would not be looked upon favourably in my profession "I doubt it would in either of our professions too, that's why we don't even have face pics in our friends pictures, we just imagine someone saying in the office Monday morning... "Guess who I saw in a swingers club?" And imagine the response initially " You were in a swinging club?" Lol If you are there and they are too, all of you would expect discretion. Teachers, doctors, health workers, military, police, emergency services, civil servants, councillors, etc etc all swing xx | |||
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"Hi all, fairly new to all this but we've been looking for a girl to join us for a MFF threesome for a while now, we mainly want girl on girl NSA fun but with hubby joining in as and when (but not fucking her)...any tips on how to find such a lady? And, are girls into big girls? I'm a UK size 18 and not as toned as I should be. Personally, I don't mind a 'curvier' girl but I just wondered what the general consensus is. xx" hope you have luck. Trying to find a female interested in MFF in this area seems to be impossable. | |||
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"My partner and I never struggle to find women to swing with - hard or soft, on websites or in clubs. I guess the key is just be friendly, approachable, and fun. And don't use the word unicorn, lots of single bisexual women really, really hate the term." The 'unicorn' was intended as tongue in cheek/to draw attention to the post be honest, we are aware it's not what everyone likes but we're hoping to find someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously and wouldn't get their thong in a twist over it . Glad to hear you've found what you're looking for x | |||
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"I am a newly single lady who has taken a lot of time to meet the right couple for me to enjoy time with... we had to build up some trust and understanding for all 3 of us as it was my first experience too...we have since met twice and had a wonderful time. and also may i add become very good friends who enjoy laughing and exchanging naughty stories...so dont give up all of you looking for the elusive lady...we are out there x "This sounds just perfect! I hope you've been cloned . Thanks for sharing x | |||
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"My partner and I never struggle to find women to swing with - hard or soft, on websites or in clubs. I guess the key is just be friendly, approachable, and fun. And don't use the word unicorn, lots of single bisexual women really, really hate the term. The 'unicorn' was intended as tongue in cheek/to draw attention to the post be honest, we are aware it's not what everyone likes but we're hoping to find someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously and wouldn't get their thong in a twist over it . Glad to hear you've found what you're looking for x"FWIW, we found that being sociable and creating a 'network' was the way forward. We met people in clubs that we had no intention of playing with because we weren't suitable for us. But sometimes those people say to someone else 'oh we know this really nice couple that you'd love playing with... here's their details'. | |||
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"My partner and I never struggle to find women to swing with - hard or soft, on websites or in clubs. I guess the key is just be friendly, approachable, and fun. And don't use the word unicorn, lots of single bisexual women really, really hate the term. The 'unicorn' was intended as tongue in cheek/to draw attention to the post be honest, we are aware it's not what everyone likes but we're hoping to find someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously and wouldn't get their thong in a twist over it . Glad to hear you've found what you're looking for x
FWIW, we found that being sociable and creating a 'network' was the way forward. We met people in clubs that we had no intention of playing with because we weren't suitable for us. But sometimes those people say to someone else 'oh we know this really nice couple that you'd love playing with... here's their details'."
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"This thread has been very interesting to read as 'L' is very keen on soft play without the male of the other couple thinking he has a 'right' to expect intercourse. She would like the kissing/soft play with another woman but the males often seem to have other expectations. Myself 'A' is more than happy to watch and take pictures if required ( if nothing else pans out); my enjoyment is seeing 'L' looking sexy and enjoying herself, at her own pace with no pressure. We used to entertain at home - couples/occasional single males ('A' is 100% straight) and these meets were often the 'full works' but have now turned to the Club Scene for our occasional 'hit' and this so far has always been soft play. We like to relax and have a drink or two! without a longish drive home, so like Club Tease, Alconbury, as they have a 14-roomed, on site, secure hotel for guests to stay/entertain friends made and in private. Going this Saturday as it happens: BBW/Curvy Ladies evening. Good luck in your search. A & L xx" It sounds like you're in for a fun weekend, enjoy! | |||
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Good luck on here search guys. Hope Ye have great fun
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"My partner and I never struggle to find women to swing with - hard or soft, on websites or in clubs. I guess the key is just be friendly, approachable, and fun. And don't use the word unicorn, lots of single bisexual women really, really hate the term." | |||
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"My partner and I never struggle to find women to swing with - hard or soft, on websites or in clubs. I guess the key is just be friendly, approachable, and fun. And don't use the word unicorn, lots of single bisexual women really, really hate the term. "Keep trying, you will find miss right. As said by many on here treat her as a lady and make it all about her, social meet first will help put people at ease. Good luck, and have fun x | |||
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"I think your profile and pics are great. You are too far away for me anyway but the fact you say your hubby wouldn't be fucking your extra F would put me off contacting you. Mainly because in those situations I like to go with the flow and if I fancy cock I'll want it!!! Good luck guy's. She's out there somewhere and when you get the right mix a ffm is incredible xx" Totally agree....get turned on in these situations and would want a cock deep in me! | |||
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"I think your profile and pics are great. You are too far away for me anyway but the fact you say your hubby wouldn't be fucking your extra F would put me off contacting you. Mainly because in those situations I like to go with the flow and if I fancy cock I'll want it!!! Good luck guy's. She's out there somewhere and when you get the right mix a ffm is incredible xx Totally agree....get turned on in these situations and would want a cock deep in me! " I can appreciate that, especially with a cock as delightful as my husbands but it's the one thing we're keeping for just us. Thankfully there are some ladies out there who don't mind this, it's not like we'd send them home unsatisfied | |||
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"My partner and I never struggle to find women to swing with - hard or soft, on websites or in clubs. I guess the key is just be friendly, approachable, and fun. And don't use the word unicorn, lots of single bisexual women really, really hate the term. The 'unicorn' was intended as tongue in cheek/to draw attention to the post be honest, we are aware it's not what everyone likes but we're hoping to find someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously and wouldn't get their thong in a twist over it . Glad to hear you've found what you're looking for x"Exactly too many get into a twist over the term unicorn. I think it's a perfect example to use. I've been seeking for awhile what you're looking for but had nothing except time wasting couples or men pretending to be women for unknown reasons. I'm not interested in the male half of couples and have no desire in him helping himself to me or be an image for his camera etc. Due to that I changed my profile to straight and stopped "couples" messaging me... I go looking for them if I ever feel I want to. Ladies like yourself are just as rare on here. | |||
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"My partner and I never struggle to find women to swing with - hard or soft, on websites or in clubs. I guess the key is just be friendly, approachable, and fun. And don't use the word unicorn, lots of single bisexual women really, really hate the term. The 'unicorn' was intended as tongue in cheek/to draw attention to the post be honest, we are aware it's not what everyone likes but we're hoping to find someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously and wouldn't get their thong in a twist over it . Glad to hear you've found what you're looking for x
Exactly too many get into a twist over the term unicorn. I think it's a perfect example to use. I've been seeking for awhile what you're looking for but had nothing except time wasting couples or men pretending to be women for unknown reasons. I'm not interested in the male half of couples and have no desire in him helping himself to me or be an image for his camera etc. Due to that I changed my profile to straight and stopped "couples" messaging me... I go looking for them if I ever feel I want to. Ladies like yourself are just as rare on here. "Thank you! And yes, I think there are definitely a good few men passing themselves off as couples or women! x | |||
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"My partner and I never struggle to find women to swing with - hard or soft, on websites or in clubs. I guess the key is just be friendly, approachable, and fun. And don't use the word unicorn, lots of single bisexual women really, really hate the term. The 'unicorn' was intended as tongue in cheek/to draw attention to the post be honest, we are aware it's not what everyone likes but we're hoping to find someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously and wouldn't get their thong in a twist over it . Glad to hear you've found what you're looking for x
Exactly too many get into a twist over the term unicorn. I think it's a perfect example to use. I've been seeking for awhile what you're looking for but had nothing except time wasting couples or men pretending to be women for unknown reasons. I'm not interested in the male half of couples and have no desire in him helping himself to me or be an image for his camera etc. Due to that I changed my profile to straight and stopped "couples" messaging me... I go looking for them if I ever feel I want to. Ladies like yourself are just as rare on here.
Thank you! And yes, I think there are definitely a good few men passing themselves off as couples or women! x"You're welcome. What exactly are you expecting / want from the lady you wish to meet? | |||
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"Weve had a few and that is also our preference when meeting girls.. in all fairness most of the girls have liked that arrangement as they appreciate the female partner is genuinley interested with girl girl play and they arent just a new fuck toy for the hubby x " sounds perfect | |||
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"Weve had a few and that is also our preference when meeting girls.. in all fairness most of the girls have liked that arrangement as they appreciate the female partner is genuinley interested with girl girl play and they arent just a new fuck toy for the hubby x sounds perfect"Thank you x ... applications currently being taken x  | |||
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"My partner and I never struggle to find women to swing with - hard or soft, on websites or in clubs. I guess the key is just be friendly, approachable, and fun. And don't use the word unicorn, lots of single bisexual women really, really hate the term. The 'unicorn' was intended as tongue in cheek/to draw attention to the post be honest, we are aware it's not what everyone likes but we're hoping to find someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously and wouldn't get their thong in a twist over it . Glad to hear you've found what you're looking for x
Exactly too many get into a twist over the term unicorn. I think it's a perfect example to use. I've been seeking for awhile what you're looking for but had nothing except time wasting couples or men pretending to be women for unknown reasons. I'm not interested in the male half of couples and have no desire in him helping himself to me or be an image for his camera etc. Due to that I changed my profile to straight and stopped "couples" messaging me... I go looking for them if I ever feel I want to. Ladies like yourself are just as rare on here.
Thank you! And yes, I think there are definitely a good few men passing themselves off as couples or women! x
You're welcome. What exactly are you expecting / want from the lady you wish to meet? "Like 'pretty4kitty' has said, we're looking more for the girl/girl play. My husband will be there and will obviously enjoy watching us tease and pleasure eachother and IF the other lady agrees he would join in but that doesn't necessarily mean he will touch her.. That would be for her to decide and for us all to see how things played out. The only definite is that he would not be fucking her . It's really important for us that she's easy to get along with socially, doesn't take herself too seriously and knows she is an equal partner with us and definitely not a 'performer' or toy .. I think most people will agree sex is only really satisfying when you know your partner(s) are enjoying it too. X | |||
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"We think the way with this is to meet with a cpl that you can all agree and trust then take it in turns the fem goes to the cpls house and then the next time other way round " Thanks but this is not for us, we only want a single lady for now, not another couple. Neither of us have any interest in other men, even if they're only watching. X | |||
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"My partner and I never struggle to find women to swing with - hard or soft, on websites or in clubs. I guess the key is just be friendly, approachable, and fun. And don't use the word unicorn, lots of single bisexual women really, really hate the term. The 'unicorn' was intended as tongue in cheek/to draw attention to the post be honest, we are aware it's not what everyone likes but we're hoping to find someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously and wouldn't get their thong in a twist over it . Glad to hear you've found what you're looking for x
Exactly too many get into a twist over the term unicorn. I think it's a perfect example to use. I've been seeking for awhile what you're looking for but had nothing except time wasting couples or men pretending to be women for unknown reasons. I'm not interested in the male half of couples and have no desire in him helping himself to me or be an image for his camera etc. Due to that I changed my profile to straight and stopped "couples" messaging me... I go looking for them if I ever feel I want to. Ladies like yourself are just as rare on here.
Thank you! And yes, I think there are definitely a good few men passing themselves off as couples or women! x
You're welcome. What exactly are you expecting / want from the lady you wish to meet?
Like 'pretty4kitty' has said, we're looking more for the girl/girl play. My husband will be there and will obviously enjoy watching us tease and pleasure eachother and IF the other lady agrees he would join in but that doesn't necessarily mean he will touch her.. That would be for her to decide and for us all to see how things played out. The only definite is that he would not be fucking her . It's really important for us that she's easy to get along with socially, doesn't take herself too seriously and knows she is an equal partner with us and definitely not a 'performer' or toy .. I think most people will agree sex is only really satisfying when you know your partner(s) are enjoying it too. X" | |||
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"Quite frankly, I would gladly oblige in play be it hard or soft, being respectful of personal boundaries at all times, with males, females or couples. I just cannot engage in play with anyone in not attracted to, and that doesn't have to be physical attraction either... If a couple Or a single were interested in a certain experience and I was attracted and felt comfortable and safe in their company I would engage in play but only if it met that criteria and was within my own personal boundaries...." | |||
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"Move up north?! (Aka damn you are gorgeous and if only you were closer...)" Ah, thank you! And likewise! | |||
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